Kusokoneza mgwirizano woterewu kungatheke makolo ndi alongo okha, omwe sangamvetse zomwe msungwanayo adapeza mwa osankhidwa ake. Ndipo, choonadi-chiyani?
Chifukwa cha zaka
Atsikana omwe amakondana ndi amuna ndi akulu kwambiri kuposa iwowo, avomereze kuti poyamba amamva kuti ndi apadera komanso osapindulitsa. Ndi wokondedwa woterewa, amakhala omasuka kwambiri kusiyana ndi anzako, onse payekha komanso mwa kugonana. Chimene akazi amapeza mwa amuna awo okondedwa, ambiri samvetsa, chifukwa chikondi ndi ichi.
Anzanga asanakwanitse zambiri m'moyo. Komanso, sadziwa momwe angasamalire bwino amayi, kukhala omvetsera komanso osamala. Ndipo nthawi zambiri amakhumudwitsa okondedwa awo molimbika kwambiri ndikufulumizitsa pabedi, chilakolako chochita chiwerewere chokha, osasangalala ndi maonekedwe onse.
Amuna okhwima akuchenjeza zokhumba za msungwanayo, amamuwululira zinsinsi zonse zogonana komanso zogonana. Chifukwa chake, mtsikana yemwe ali ndi mwamuna wokhwima mwauzimu amakumana ndi zosangalatsa zogonana, zomwe anzake sangathe kumupatsa. Chimene mkazi amapeza mwa munthu wokondedwa, ambiri a ife tikuyesera kupeza yankho la funso ili.
Kumbuyo komwe
Amagulu ogonana amachenjeza kuti ndondomeko yotchedwa "okhwima, wokhala ndi mwamuna" ndi nthawi yotsatizana. Mwamwayi, mwachisoni kumachotsa mphamvu ndi thanzi la mnzanuyo.
Kulimbikitsa kugonana, komwe kumapezeka mwamuna wamwamuna wazaka makumi anayi ali ndi mkazi wamng'ono, nthawi zambiri amakhala zaka ziwiri kapena zitatu. Kenaka kupsa mtima kwake kumatsika komanso pamaso pa mtsikana yemwe sankadziŵa bwino zokondweretsa zogonana, munthu wotopa, wolemedwa ndi zaka, ntchito, ndipo nthawi zambiri amasamalira mabanja awiri kamodzi. Iye sangathe kukonda chikondi mumtundu womwewo wachisokonezo monga mnzake.
Osati ambiri okonzeka kuyankha funso limene amai angapezeke mwa amuna awo okondedwa.
Malingana ndi akatswiri a zamaganizo, vuto lalikulu la ubale wa banja muukwati ndi munthu wokhwima ndikumasintha maudindo a maganizo. Kawirikawiri zinthu zili motere.
Poyamba, mtsikana wina amaona kuti mwamuna wake ali ndi chitetezo komanso bambo, yemwe amamubisa mwachisawawa pansi pa phiko lake, atangotuluka mu chisa cha kholo. Mwamuna amadziwa msungwana kuti ali mkazi, pafupi ndi zomwe amadziona kuti ndiye mutu weniweni wa banja, omwe sakanatha kukwatiwa ndi munthu wamasiku ano.
Koma patapita zaka zingapo, amuna, monga lamulo, ayamba kusowa zosowa za amayi. Iwo akuyembekezera kale "amayi" mwa mkazi wamkulu, yemwe angawasamalire iwo. Pa nthawi yomweyi, mtsikana yemwe wamva chuma chake ali ndi zaka zambiri, sakusowa nthawiyi ngakhale "mwana" kapena "abambo". Iye akufuna kuti awone pafupi ndi bwenzi lake, bwenzi lake, yemwe angamuuze iye zofuna zake ndi mavuto ake mofanana.
Ngati okwatirana sagwirizana ndi kusintha komwe akuchitika ndi mnzanuyo, ngati sakupeza njira yothetsera vutoli, ndiye kuti ukwatiwo umatha. Ndipo pa nthawi yomweyi mwamunayo akuvutika kwambiri ... Kodi akazi amapeza chiyani mwa amuna awo okondedwa, pamene zikuonekeratu kuti satellita sichikongola kwambiri? Mwinamwake, izi ndi nkhani ya chikondi.
Kugonjetsa
Ndipo komabe musaganize kuti maukwati otero alibe tsogolo. Ngati kuyambira m'masiku oyambirira a moyo wokwatirana, abwenziwo adzafufuza mfundo yolumikizana, kukhazikitsa chinenero chodziwika, kuphunzira kudzikonza okha kuti apitilire moyo umodzi ndi umodzi, ndiye kuti chiyanjanochi chimatha kulimbana ndi mphepo yamkuntho yamphamvu kwambiri.
Udindo waukulu umasewera ndi kukoma ndi moyo. Ngati onse awiri akukonda nyimbo zamakono ndi zolemba kapena monga kusodza ndi kuyenda, iwo ali ndi chidwi polankhulana ndi kupuma palimodzi. Chilengedwe ndi chofunikira kwambiri: kuthandizidwa ndi anzanu, abwenzi ndi achibale akugwirizanitsa mgwirizano.