Momwe mungamulandire mnyamata kuchokera kwa mtsikana, pali njira zosiyanasiyana za izi. Mazana ndi mazana a zaka, akaziwa ankamenyera mwakachetechete osankhidwa awo. Ndichifukwa chake, pali zida zonse zankhondo kuti apange chibwenzi chake kale.
Kotero, ndi zomwe muyenera kuyamba. Mwinamwake ndi kusonkhanitsa kwa chidziwitso. Muyenera kudziwa mfundo zofooka za mdani wanu bwino kuti mugwire wodwala kwambiri. Anthu si angwiro, kotero mtsikanayo amakhala ndi makhalidwe angapo omwe amakwiyitsa wokondedwa wanu. Izi ndi zomwe muyenera kusewera. Zikhale kuti amvetsetse kuti ndiwe mkazi yemwe angathe kukhala wabwino kwa iye. Simungakhumudwitse kapena kukwiya. Inu mumavomereza kwathunthu zokonda ndi malingaliro pa moyo. Inde, izi sizingakhale zoona, koma zomwe sizingatheke, chifukwa cha wokondedwa. Yesetsani kuti musabwereze. Chilichonse chiyenera kuyang'ana moona komanso mwachibadwa.
Ngati muli mu kampani imodzi, yesetsani ngati mnyamata sakukufunirani, kotero kuti wotsutsanayo sakuganiza kuti chinachake chalakwika, ndipo sakuyambitsa nkhondo ndi iwe. Dziyerekezere kuti simusamala, koma chifukwa cha zolakwa zonse, mwangozi, yesani ndi zochita ndi mawu omwe mnyamatayo angafune.
Ngati izi sizigwira ntchito, kapena mulibe mwayi wowona mwamuna nthawi zambiri, apa pali malangizo ena a momwe mungamuthandizire mtsikana, njira izi ndizoopsa ndipo, mwa njira yawo, ndizochitira nkhanza, koma chifukwa cha chikondi mukhoza kupita kulikonse.
Msungwana akhoza kusokonezeka, osati mwa mawu, koma mwa ntchito. Kuti muchite izi, mukufunikira mnyamata, makamaka kuchokera mumzinda wina, kotero kuti mnyamatayu sanapeze mwayi wokomana naye ndikutsegula choonadi chonse. Choncho, mnyamatayo ayenera kumudziwa bwino, kukambirana ndi munthu wina. Ndipo, ndithudi, muyenera kumudziwitsa wokondedwa wanu za izi. Pali njira zambiri: zithunzi ndi e-mail, maitanidwe osadziwika ndi zinthu, zinthu, zinthu. Chinthu chachikulu ndichokuti sakuganiza kuti uwu ndi ntchito ya manja anu. Chabwino, ngati pakati pa anzako ndi anzanu pali "Stirlitz" yanu, yemwe adzatsanulira mafuta pamoto ndi kubweretsa kukayikira ndi nsanje mnyamatayo, adzamufikitsa kumalo kumene mnyamata angamuwone wokondedwa wake mmanja mwa wina. Muyenera kusamalira kuvomereza. Choncho, yesetsani kupeza mnzanu kapena mnzanu omwe amayi sangakane.
Ngati chirichonse chikuchitidwa molondola, ndiye kuti mkangano uli wotetezedwa. Ndipo tsopano njira yanu yotulukira. Ndikofunika kuwonetsa moyo wa wokondedwa mosayembekezereka komanso wosagonjetsa - komanso bwino kumukhumudwitsa mtsikana uyu. Musamamwetse chibwenzi chake poyera ndi dothi, koma simukuyenera kumuteteza. Dziyerekezere kuti ndinu katswiri wodziimira. Kambiranani naye za vutoli, chifundo. Tiuzeni kuti simumvetsetsa momwe mungachitire izi, komanso, makamaka. Muloleni iye awone chithandizo ndi kumvetsa mwa iwe. Izi zikachitika, ganizirani kuti theka lazochitika kale. Tsopano mukufunika kuti mukhale ndi chithunzithunzi cha chikazi ndikuyamba kuukira. Zofewa, zosazindikirika, zowononga.
Khalani okongola ndi okongola. Amuna ngati maso. Ndichifukwa chake, mkazi ayenera kukhala wokondweretsa maso ake. Nthawi zonse mubwere ku misonkhano mu zovala zatsopano, khalani okonzeka bwino, kupanga mazokongoletsedwe osiyanasiyana. Iwe uyenera kukhala kwa iye chingwe chosayembekezeka kuti ubweretse chiwongoladzanja. Kuwonjezera apo, m'pofunika kukhala, mpaka pamlingo wina, osatheka. Ngati mwamsanga muthamangira pamutu pake, sangakulemekezeni. Ndicho chifukwa chake muyenera kufotokoza momveka bwino kuti iye amakondwera ndi inu, koma osati kuphwanya mfundo zina kapena osakwaniritsa zofuna zanu. Chilichonse chimene mumachita chiyenera kuwoneka ngati chovomerezeka ndi chosangalatsa kwa inu. Inde, n'zosatheka kufotokoza zokonda ndi malingaliro onse, koma munthu sangazilingalire ngati mukugwira bwino ntchito yanu. Tsopano ali wokonzeka kukhulupirira chirichonse chomwe chimachitika pozungulira, ngati palibe kusakhulupirika ndi kuphwanya zilakolako ndi ufulu wake. Choncho khalani wokondedwa ndi mkazi kwa iye.
Kuonjezerapo, muyenera kuchita chirichonse kuti mtsikana wakale asakumbukire yekha. Kumuthandizira kuti asinthe nambalayo ndi kulepheretsa ocheza naye, chifukwa zikukumbutsa kuti zimapweteka kwambiri. Mutsimikizireni kuti chiyanjanitso sichingatheke, chifukwa wolakwirayo amakhalabe wotsutsa. Yesetsani kukhumudwitsa mabwenzi ake onse ndi anzake omwe kale anali Satana, ndipo ndinu mngelo amene adzapulumutsa mnzawo ku zowawa zonse. Ngati pakati pa abwenzi ake, komanso abwenzi ake apamtima, wina akukayikira kuti chirichonse sichikuwoneka, yesetsani kuchepetsa msonkhano wa wokondedwa ndi munthu uyu. Inde, chirichonse chiyenera kuoneka ngati si vuto lanu, ndi chibwenzi chake. Pitani naye kuti mukalankhule naye, khalani wolemekezeka kwambiri. Zina zonse adzichita yekha. Poyesera kuti mutsegule maso anu pafupi ndi chibwenzi, am'pangitsa kuti asamadzipangitse yekha ndipo ubalewo umakula.
Padzakhala nthawi yochulukirapo, ndipo mwamunayo adzamvetsa kuti walota za inu moyo wake wonse. Inde, musagwirizane pa sekondi yoyamba kuti muyambe chiyanjano, komanso kuti musakonde. Ingoyambani zokambirana zomwe simukudziwa ngati zaiwala zapitazo. Muyenera kufunsa mafunso kuti asanene kuti akukumbukirabe chikondi choyambirira.
Mukazindikira kuti ubale wapanga, khalani naye banja langwiro m'moyo, pokambirana, pogonana. Lolani munthu kutenga mpweya kuchokera momwe iwe ulili wangwiro. Inde, mumayenera kusewera ndi iye ndikudziphwanya nokha, chifukwa zotsatira zake ziyenera kukhazikitsidwa, kotero kuti akugwiritseni ntchito ndipo sangathe kuchoka.
Ndizo zonse. Chikondi chanu tsopano chili pafupi ndi inu. Mwachita zonse zomwe mumafuna. Kotero muli ndi ufulu wokondwera ndi moyo. Zoona, mwinamwake m'kupita kwanthawi mudzasokonezeka ndi lingaliro lakuti wina aliyense adzatha kukubwezerani monga momwe mudadzichitira nokha. Koma uwu ndi ntchito yanu, chifukwa inu nokha munaganiza kuti mukwaniritse chimwemwe mwa njirayi - kotero njirazi zinali kwa inu, koma zingagwiritsidwe ntchito ndi ena.