M'dziko lamakono, kukambirana kwa foni ndi, mwinamwake, koyambirira mwa njira zonse zotheka zokhudzana ndi anthu - kaya timakonda kapena ayi. Koma vuto ndilo: akazi amangofuna, ndiye amuna sali okondwa kwambiri ndi zochitika izi. Chifukwa, malinga ndi akatswiri a maganizo, omwe amaimira kugonana kolimba, zimachitika, samakonda njira yolankhulirana yotereyi. Ndipo ngati akupitiriza kuigwiritsa ntchito, ndiye chifukwa chimodzi chokha: kodi mungapite kuti?
Amayi okongola ayenera kuwerengera nkhaniyi musanayambe kuyankhula ndi foni ndi mwamuna kuti athetse kusamvana kosiyanasiyana. Ambiri aife timatha kukhala maola ambiri ndikucheza ndi anzathu pa foni, ndikupeza zosangalatsa zosayerekezeka. Ndipo kodi mwakumana ndi anthu ambiri omwe amatha kudzipangira okha ndikudandaula mu chubu usiku wonse? Ngakhale kwa inu momwemonso munawapeza, ocheza nawo ena amawadetsa nkhawa pang'ono: iwo amati, chifukwa izi ndi zofooka zazimayi. Ndipo iwo anali olondola. Akatswiri a zamaganizo akhala akutsimikiza kuti ma telefoni akuluakulu akuti "palibe kanthu" - ntchito yovomerezeka ya kugonana kwabwino, ndipo kwa amuna ozoloŵera njira imeneyi yolankhulirana ndizosiyana kwambiri. Choipitsitsa, pakati pawo kuli ambiri a iwo omwe, podziwa kuti akuyenera kuyankha foni kapena kupanga foni okha, ayamba kutukuta, kutembenuka ndi kutwedezeka. Iwo amavomereza kuti azidya madzulo okha ndi apongozi awo, koma sangatenge foni kunyumba. Koma pambuyo pa zonse, nthawi zina sitidzakhala ndi mwayi wina wolankhulana ndi wokondedwa wathu! Kodi ndichitani tsopano? Inde, palibe chinthu chapadera, muyenera kungoganizira zachinsinsi cha amuna - ndizo zonse.
Odyera usiku
Momwe abwenzi amachitira pabedi, amakhalanso ndi maubwenzi pa foni. Amayi, monga lamulo, amafuna mau omveka bwino a chikondi, kotero kuti amatha nthawi yaitali. Ndipo azimayi amayesetsa kuthetsa zonse mwamsanga, kuti athe kubwerera kuzochitika zawo zenizeni, zenizeni monga momwe angathere. Choncho, ngati mwaganiza zokambirana ndi wokondedwa wanu za izi ndikufuna kumvedwa nthawi yomweyo, yesetsani kumuimbira usiku. Chowonadi ndi chakuti oimira mphamvu zachiwerewere mwachibadwa amakhala ndi chinthu chimodzi: usiku ndi osakhulupirira kwambiri, owona mtima komanso okonzeka kulankhulana.
Zovuta
Kwa amuna ambiri ndizovuta kuchepetsa zokambiranazo, ndipo samaganiza kuti ndizolakwika kumalo owonetsera ulemu. Iwo amangoganiza kuti mwawawuza kale zonse zomwe iwo akufunikira kuchokera pa malingaliro awo, ndipo chotero iwo amaika chitoliro ndi chikumbumtima choyera. Amuna ndi mutu samabwera kunena mawu opanda pake pamapeto pa zokambirana zokhazokha. Kotero musakhumudwe ndi okondedwa anu chifukwa cha iwo - ali ndi kalembedwe kotero, ndipo iwo eniwo sangathe kusintha. Ndi bwino kukonza mgwirizano ndi mwamuna kapena bwenzi lanu mtsogolo, kotero kuti, pokhala ndi chilakolako chosasunthika chokhalitsa, adakuchenjezani chachiwiri kale ndi mawu ovomerezeka monga: "Chabwino, tidzakambirana za otsalawo."
Amipikisano
"Ndikuitana iwe" - mawu awa ndi akale monga dziko. Ndi kangati amayi omwe amakhulupirira malonjezo otere a ambuye ndi nthawi zingati omwe adanyenga pazoyembekezera zawo! Ndipo onse chifukwa sankadziwa: nthawi zambiri mawu awa amatchulidwa ndi munthu mmalo mwa wina. Koma icho, china, chikanamveka ngati chigamulo: "Zatha, sindikukondani inu". Ndipo osati membala aliyense wa kugonana amphamvu angakhale ndi mphamvu kuti amve. Koma lonjezo losafuna kulumikiza limamulola iye, poyamba, kuti asapweteke moyo wa yemwe kale ankamukonda, ndipo kachiwiri, ndi woyenera kuchoka pa zinthu zosasangalatsa, atasunga nkhope yake, motero. Chifukwa chake, mutamva mawu awa kuchokera kwa munthu, musamvetsetse kwenikweni. Ngakhale ... chiyembekezo chimatha!
Onyenga
Funso lina, funso losautsa: kodi n'zotheka kugwirizanitsa ndi munthu pa foni, ngati mudakangana? Apa chirichonse chimadalira pachinthu chomwecho. Mwachitsanzo, mukukayikira kuti mkangano pakati panu ndi chifukwa chokha, koma kwenikweni, chiyanjano chanu chiri pachimake ndipo, mwachiwonekere, chidzawonongedwa mwatsatanetsatane. Ndiye ndi zopanda phindu kukakamiza kumverera kwa wokondedwa, monga heroine wa Irina Muravieva kuchokera ku filimu "Carnival": kumbukirani momwe iye anaimba ndi ululu: "Ndiyimbireni, ndiitaneni !!!" Sindidzatchula. Ndipo, mwinamwake, palibe. Ndipo ngati mukufuna kumutcha, konzekerani, mutayankhula kuti muyankhule ndi foni ndi mwamuna, kuti mumve pamapeto ena a waya amene munachita nambala yolakwika. Koma ngakhale pali mkangano, chifukwa chakuti wina wa inu amasangalala, ndibwino kuti musamange ubale kaya ndi foni kapena maso ndi maso. Ndiye mutha kukhala ndi mwayi wabwino kwambiri wopambana. Pafoni ndikuyenera kukambirana zokha za malo ndi nthawi yolankhulana mwamtendere.
Ulesi
Ndizodabwitsa kuti mvetserani mwamunayo, ndipo mwina muyenera kuonetsetsa. Wokhulupirika wanu amasiyanitsa mosiyana, mwachitsanzo, wiring wonyezimira wonyezimira m'chipinda chotsatira, koma samamva telefoni ikulira pamutu pake. Mumathamangira kuchoka ku khitchini ndikupita ku chipinda kuti mukayankhe pempholi, ndipo mwadabwa kuti mwamunayo akukhala pa chipangizo cha mkono ndipo akuwerenga nyuzipepala. Ndipo pakukwiyitsa kwanu ndi mpweya wa mwana wosalakwa, amamufunsa kuti: "Kodi wina adakuyitanani?" Chowonadi ndikutsimikiza kuti: 99 mwa 100 amakuitanani, osati iye. Ndiye bwanji mutenge foni, ngati mukufunikirabe kuigwiritsa ntchito? Pali njira imodzi yokha yosinthira vutolo. Muuzeni kuti ngati mumadzipereka kuti musambe kutsuka mbale, kutsuka, kupukuta, kuphika, kusoka, kukhwima, kuchotsa zinyalala, ndi zina zotero, mukuyembekezeranso ntchito yolemekezeka - kuyandikira foni - kugawidwa ndi awiri.
Revnivtsy
Anthu ambiri amadziwa chithunzi ichi: bwana wanu akuimbira foni panyumba panu, akufuna kuti akambirane mwatsatanetsatane machitidwe a mawa, ndipo mumamvetsera mwachidwi mawu ake. Koma mwadzidzidzi mumazindikira kuti pamaso mwa mwamuna wanu muli malingaliro osaneneka - pamaganizo omwewo omwe anali nawo pamene analipo pa kubadwa. Inu mumakhala chisokonezo, zokambirana ndi bwana sizomwe zikugwiritsidwa ntchito, pang'ono pokha - ndipo ndi nthawi yoti musiye. Ndipo mlandu wa chirichonse - nsanje ya anthu, yosadziwika kuchokera pa mfundo ya sayansi, kuyankhulana kwa abwenzi awo pa foni, ziribe kanthu yemwe. Kodi muyenera kuchita chiyani? Ngati n'kotheka, nthawi yomweyo muchotse chipangizochi m'chipinda china, monga akunena, osachiwona. Ngati muli ndi njonda yobwera, ndiye pa nthawi ya ulendo wake, tchulani foni - chikondi nchoyenera!
Manyazi
Kodi mukuganiza kuti ngati masiku a Romeo ndi Juliet anali ndi telefoni, kodi angakhale ndi mnyamata wolimba kuti afotokoze mwachikondi? Akatswiri a zamaganizo amakhulupirira kuti sizingatheke, makamaka pamene abwenzi ake kapena achibale ali pafupi. Adakondabe kuyenda ulendo wake pakati pa usiku kuti akambirane zakumverera kwake, osaopa makutu a anthu ena. Ndiponsotu, woimira aliyense wogonana kwambiri akuopa kwambiri kuti adzaimbidwa mlandu wachifundo cha mwana! Pachifukwa ichi, sadzalankhula mawu olakalaka ngakhale pamfuti, ngati pali ngakhale kukayikira pang'ono kuti anthu ena amamumvera. Choncho musakhumudwitse munthu wina amene akukufunsani pamene akuyankha kuti: "Ndimakukondani" ndikuletsa kugwedeza kumalo ogwira ntchito: "Inenso" (izi ndi zabwino kwambiri), Kapena mungowika pa chubu. Mukufuna kumva kuchokera kwa munthu wachikondi wongomva mawu achikondi - kuulula kwanu nokha pamsonkhano.
Poganizira mwachidule, tikufuna kukupatsani malangizo amodzi: kuti muteteze kusamvetsetsana, kambiranani ndi mwamuna wanu wokondedwa pafoni mosavuta momwe mungathere. Ngati simungakwanitse, ndibwino kuti muyang'ane nawo. Aliyense amadziwa kuti makalata okondeka amakongoletsera mabuku ndi ma buku a dziko lapansi. Koma palibe kukambirana kwa foni imodzi monga choncho ...
Kodi akunena chiyani kwa inu pafoni ...
1. "Pepani, wina akulira pakhomo" (kunyumba) kapena "Alendo anabwera kwa ine" (kuntchito).
2. "Nanga, yankho loyankha silinalembedwe bwanji mawu anga, omwe ndidayankhula pamene ndakuitanani mulibe?"
3. "Tsoka ilo, ine ndikugwira ntchito mwakali pano. Ndili mfulu, ndikuitana. "
4. "Moni! Sindikumvetsa zomwe zinachitika. Kodi muli ndi zinthu zofunika kwambiri kuposa ine? "
5. "Moni, kodi uku ndiko kuyeretsa kowuma? O, ndikuganiza kuti ndalankhula nambala yanu ya foni molakwika! "
6. "Kodi ndingakuuzeni mochedwa pang'ono? Tsopano ndikuyang'ana mpira wa mpira ndi timu yanga yomwe timakonda. "
... ndipo amatanthauza chiyani
1. "Pakali pano ndiri ndi ntchito yambiri yosangalatsa kuposa kukambirana ndi iwe."
2. "Kuwononga izo, ndinakumbukiranso kukuitanani, ngakhale kuti munandifunsa za tsiku lomwelo!"
3. "Sindikufuna kulankhula nawe-ayi lero, osati konse."
4. "Ndikukusowa, ndipo ngakhale ndimadana ndi foni, ndikupitirizabe kupita ku msonkhano."
5. "Ndine wamanyazi panthawi yomwe ndimakuitanani, choncho ndikuyang'ana chifukwa choyenera."
6. "Kodi ndingakuuzeni mochedwa pang'ono? Tsopano ndikuyang'ana mpira wa mpira ndi timu yanga yomwe ndimakonda "