Nchifukwa chiyani mwamuna amakana kukwatiwa?
- Zinthu zakuthupi sizinaperekedwe. Mwamuna amafunikira maziko omwe adzalenga banja lake. Koma sikuti anthu onse ali oligarchs kapena amagwira ntchito yaikulu. Kulephera kokwanira ndi kusatsimikizika m'tsogolomu kumawopa kuti sangathe kudyetsa ndi kusamalira banja lake.
- Kuyesetsa kupeza ufulu. Mwamuna amavomereza kwa boma, mlendo kapena mtundu wina waukwati, kupatula, ndithudi, mwalamulo. Malingaliro ake, banja lidzamumanga iye pa manja ndi mapazi. Ndipo chifukwa chokhutitsidwa kwathunthu ndi ubale wosagwirizana.
- Zoletsedwa kuchokera kwa makolo. Akuwoneka mwa achinyamata osakondera. Makolo a mnyamata akhoza kutsutsana chifukwa banja laling'ono lidzakhalabe kulikonse. Nthawi zambiri makolo amakhulupirira kuti ali ndi banja loyambirira, kapena mtsikanayo sakonda nawo.
- Kuopa udindo. Banja - uwu ndi udindo waukulu, umene suli wokonzeka kwa mwamuna aliyense. Inde! Pambuyo pake, amazoloŵera kukhala yekha komanso osadzikaniza yekha, koma apa adzayenera kupereka zofuna zake chifukwa cha ena.
- Kuwopa kuti mutaya mwayi woti musankhe. Mkwatibwi waumwini kapena ngati banjali limangokumana, munthuyo amakhulupirira kuti ali ndi ufulu wosankha. Chinachake sichinagwirizane ndi ubale umene uliko - mukhoza kuwathyola ndikuyang'ana mnzanu wina. Mu ukwati walamulo, sikukhala kosavuta kuchita.
- Zochitika zolakwika zakale. Wokwatirana safuna kukwatira chifukwa akuwopa kubwereza banja lomwe silinapambane, akuopa kumva ululu wa imfa kapena kuti padzakhalanso mikangano, monga mwa banja lapitalo.
- Kutaya mtima mwa mkazi. Nthawi zina mnyamata, pozindikira chibwenzi chake, amadziwa kuti si theka lake. Pa nthawi yomweyo, amawopa kunena izi molunjika, kuthandizira mgwirizano ndi inertia, ndipo panthawi yomweyi akhoza kukhala pa sitepe yafunafuna njira yatsopano.
- Kuopa kulephera. Mtsikana akhoza kukana ngati nthumwi ya theka la umunthu wamphamvu idzapereka. Ndicho chifukwa chake anyamata ndi amuna samayesetsa kuchita chinthu choyipa kwa nthawi yayitali, ngakhale kuti nthawi zonse amalota.
- Kuopa chiyanjano kumachepa. Achinyamata, mutapenya maanja okwanira amene pambuyo pa banja akakhala adani oopsa, sakufuna kukhala mumkhalidwe womwewo. Choncho, safulumira kukwatiwa ndi amene amamukonda kwambiri.
- Makhalidwe enieni. Izi zikugwira ntchito kwa iwo omwe ali ndi chinachake chofunika. Iwo amakhulupirira kuti mkaziyo akufuna basi kutenga chuma chake. Ngakhale kuti nthawi zambiri chuma chake chimakopeka mobwerezabwereza.
Kodi mkazi ayenera kuchita chiyani ngati mwamuna akufuna kukwatira?
Ndipo tsopano tikambirana zomwe tingachite kwa mkazi, ngati mwamuna wake wokondedwa sakufuna kukwatira? Kodi ndi njira iti yomwe mungasankhe: kumutsimikizira munthu kuti ukwati sichiwonongeko kapena kugawanika ndi munthu uyu?
- Zinthu zakuthupi sizinaperekedwe. Izi, mbali imodzi, sizoipa, chifukwa n'zoonekeratu kuti mnyamatayo amayandikira kwambiri. Komabe, mukhoza kusunga ndalama kwa nthawi yaitali, koma simungazisunge. Palinso mwayi pamene awiri akhoza kukhala mwamsanga olemera awiri. Izi ziyenera kuyesera kufotokozera kwa munthuyo.
- Kuyesetsa kupeza ufulu. Pankhaniyi, mungavomereze kukhala pamodzi kuti mudziwane wina ndi mzake, koma musadzipereke nokha popanda tsatanetsatane.
- Zoletsedwa kuchokera kwa makolo. Ganizirani, koma kodi mukusowa "mwana wamayi"? Ngati izi sizikuwopsani, yesetsani kunyengerera wosankhidwa kuti mgwirizano wanu uli ndi ubwino wina kwa iye komanso kwa makolo ake. Komabe, mukhoza kuthera nthawi yambiri pachabe, kapena kumapeto, khalani nokha.
- Kuopa udindo. Ndipo ngati munthu wotero ali wofunikira? Pambuyo pa zonse, chinthu chilichonse mu moyo chimachitika, ndipo mkazi sangathe kudzisamalira yekha. Ndiye ndani ayenera kuyang'ana thandizo? Chiyembekezo chosasangalatsa.
- Kuwopa kuti mutaya mwayi woti musankhe. Ngati mwamuna sakufuna kukwatira, muzimupatsa ufulu wosankha, ndipo musiyeni asankhe. Pezani wina, ndiye si mwamuna wanu. Choipa kwambiri, ngati iye akanamupeza iye atatha ukwatiwo.
- Zochitika zolakwika zakale. Ndikofunika kuyembekezera ndikuyamba kumusokoneza yekha ndikuganiza kuti mu mtendere wamtendere, chimwemwe ndi kumvetsetsa ndizotheka. Ndikofunikira kuti muzichita bwino kwambiri.
- Kutaya mtima mwa mkazi. Mwinamwake, ndithudi, izo zidzatha-kugwa mu chikondi. Komabe, palibe chitsimikizo kuti mudzasangalala. Ndi bwino kulola kupita ndikufuna mwayi.
- Kuopa kulephera. Ndikofunika kuti titsimikize, kapena kuti tilengeze chikhumbo chake chopita ku ofesi ya registry pamphumi pake. Apo ayi padzakhala zaka kuyenda kuzungulira chitsamba.
- Kuopa chiyanjano kumachepa. Msungwanayo ayenera kulimbikitsa mnyamata yemwe si mabanja onse osasangalala, kuti ifeyo banja lathu likhoza kupambana, tifunikira kuyendetsa ngodya zakuya ndikugwira ntchito tokha.
- Makhalidwe enieni. Sifuna kukwatira? Musadandaule! Tangoganizirani zomwe zidzakhale mtsogolo kuti lipoti la ndalama iliyonse yomwe idatha. Simungakonde mdani! Musiyeni apite kwawo.
Ngakhale kuti tinayesa kufotokoza zifukwa za khalidwe ili la anthu ndi zochita zanu zina, moyo ndi wanu, ndipo ziri kwa inu kusankha chomwe mungachite, ngati mwamuna sakufuna kukwatiwa. Ubale uliwonse ndi wapadera, ndipo nthawi zonse sagwirizana bwino ndi momwe zinthu zilili pamwambapa.