Koma ziyenera kukumbukira kuti mabungwe omwe akuwonetsedwa pano sakunena za mitundu yonse ya zofunkha, matemberero, ziwembu, zopseza ndi zina zochitika zakuda. Ndipotu, mukayamba kuwerenga mabuku osiyanasiyana pazinthu zotero, zimakhala zovuta kwambiri. Kumeneko zotsatira zowonjezera zonsezi zidzakhala kuti mnyamatayo amayamba kungokwiyira za iwe, koma osati kukonda. Pamene munthu uyu sali woyenera kwa iwe konse ndipo satumizidwa ndi Wamphamvuyonse. Zikatero, palibe chabwino chomwe tingayembekezere, koma, mosiyana, zochita zoterezi zingabweretse mavuto.
Maloto olondola . Kuti apulumutse, moyo wochimwa kale, kuchokera ku tchimo lina, amatsenga oyera amalangiza kuchita miyambo yosavuta. Iwo amasiyana ndi mitundu yonse yamatsenga saumiriza, osagonjera, osamangirira munthu, koma kungothandiza kuti akope chikondi mu moyo wanu wonse. Miyambo yokopa ikhoza kukhala yosiyana, osati zovuta. Chophweka cha izi ndi miyambo ya chikondi, kawirikawiri imagwirizanitsidwa ndi maloto. Malotowa ayenera kugwirizana ndi malingaliro abwino, zilakolako, maloto okhudza msonkhano wofunikira wa chikondi chosangalatsa, munthu woyenera bwino, ndi zina zotero. Koma ndi bwino kuganizira chithunzi cha zomwe mukufuna kuzipinda zochepa kwambiri. Ndiko, mtundu wa tsitsi, maso, thupi ndi nkhope, kutalika, kukhudzidwa kwa inu ndi ntchito, ndi zonse zomwe ziri zofunika kwambiri kwa inu. Ndikofunika kufotokozera m'maganizo ake chifaniziro choyera, chosamveka komanso chosamveka cha munthu wake. Motero, malinga ndi anthu ambiri, n'zotheka kupeza kuchokera ku mphamvu zapamwamba zomwe akufuna.
Magetsi anakhazikitsidwa. Zikondwerero zaukwati zingaphatikizepo zazing'ono, makamaka, zili ndi matsenga. Msungwana yemwe ali wokonzeka kukomana ndi wosankhidwa, kapena akufuna kupambana mtima wa munthu wina, nkofunikira kudzipangira yekha chinthu chofiira. Zikhoza kukhala ngakhale panties kapena zovala zonse zomwe palibe amene angazindikire. Chofunika kwambiri, pamwamba pa china chirichonse, khalani ndi chinthu cha munthu aliyense, kapena kansalu kakang'ono ka tsitsi, kapena mpango, kapena nsapato za nsapato za amuna, kapena chithunzi cha munthu wofunayo. Mwambo wophweka woterewu ungathandize kukopa chikondi cha munthu woyenera.
Amatsenga, zamatsenga zamatsenga . Ichi ndi chizoloŵezi chosavuta komanso chothandiza kwambiri pakukopa ukwati komanso kumangokhala ngati mnyamata mu moyo wa theka la mkazi, nkofunikira kuchita pang'onopang'ono. Poyambirira, podikira mwezi watsopano, tsiku lotsatira ndikofunikira kugula zida zatsopano zamwamuna. Ngakhale atakhala okwera mtengo kwambiri, simukufunika kudutsa nsomba zomwe mumakonda. Ayenera kubweretsedwa kunyumba ndi kuyembekezera masiku atatu, koma osawawonetsa kwa wina aliyense, osadandaula. Ndiye pakati pausiku pambuyo pa tsiku lachitatu muyenera kuzitenga ndi kuziika m'manja mwanu. Muyenera kuyima pazitsulo zonse, mutsegule chitseko, ndipo mutenge makosi anu pakhomo, kapena kani, ku nyumba. Mukawadula katatu, bwerezani m'mawu anu omwe kuti mumoyo mwanu mumawoneka wodabwitsa, wokoma mtima, wofunikira (mumasankha mawu molingana ndi chikhumbo chanu: osasuta, owona mtima, ndi zina zotero). Kawirikawiri, monga amakhulupirira kawirikawiri, wofunikila wofunikila ayenera kuonekera pamoyo wa mtsikanayo.
Matsenga achi China . Chiphunzitso choterechi, chomwe tsopano chikufala, chiphunzitso chachi China monga feng shui chimaphatikizaponso miyambo yosiyanasiyana kuti akope zofunikira, zochitika ndi zina. Chikhalidwe chimodzi choterechi chimawoneka kuti chiri mu lingaliro la pepala ndi zofuna. Adzafunika kufotokozera, kumudziwa mwamunthu kotero kuti m'mbali imodzi yokha zinthu zake zabwino zokha zimatchulidwa, ndipo zina sizomwezo, koma zimakulepheretsani. Mndandanda womwewo "mndandanda wamtengo wapatali" uyenera kupangidwa molondola mu envelopu, kukonza ndi chibakuwa chofiira kwambiri, kuchiyika muchitetezo chilichonse. Koma ndi bwino kukumbukira kuti musanalembere makhalidwe omwe mukufunikira, muyenera kuganizira bwino ndikuliyeza. Popeza sikutheka kukonza kalikonse pa izo, sizidzatheka basi. Ndiyeno ingodikirani kusintha kofunika kwambiri pamoyo wanu.
Matsenga ndi okondwa lalanje . Malinga ndi nthano za mwambo wina wa ku China, zimatsatira kuti pofuna kukopa munthu woyenera, muyenera kubwera ku dziwe lanu lokonda kwambiri lalanje m'manja mwanu. Mukhoza kusankha nyanja kapena dziwe, kapena mtsinje kapena kasupe. Ndipo izi zimachitika pa Chaka Chatsopano. Ndikofunika kulingalira m'maganizo a munthu wofunayo, wokondedwa, kufinya malalanje m'manja mwake. Pambuyo pake, perekani madzi, ndikuuponyera m'nyanja. Amwenyewa ali ndi lingaliro lalanje lofanana ndi golide ndipo, ndithudi, ndi mwayi. Pomwepo, madzi adzayenera "kutenga" chipatso ichi kuti chikhale chachikulu, chosangalatsa komanso cham'tsogolo chimakuyembekezerani.
Mwambo wamaluwa . Kwa anthu ambiri, duwa imaonedwa ngati chinthu chofunika kwambiri cha chikondi chosangalatsa. Ikhozanso kugwiritsidwa ntchito pa miyambo kuti ikhale ndi chikondi. Koma ndi bwino kusankha mithunzi yofiira, kapena pinki. Muyenera kugula malo oyenera, kubweretsa kunyumba. Kenaka chitani ntchito yanu ya kusukulu, koma panthawi imodzimodziyo mukuganizira za duwa. Pambuyo pake, muyenera kum'tenga ndikupuma mu chipinda ndi makandulo a mthunzi womwewo. Ngati mukufuna, mukhoza kutsegula nyimbo zomwe mumazikonda komanso zamtendere. Yesetsani kulingalira za duwa ngati munthu wokondedwa, ndikudzimangiriza nokha ndikuyamikira. Tambani njira iyi yokhutiritsa nokha, mdima wautali, pofotokozera momwe mungakonde munthu wokondedwa kuti azikhala ndi inu. Lankhulani nokha mawu omwe chikondi chimakukokera kwa inu ndithu.
Zovala zamatsenga . Kulakalaka mphamvu, makamaka munthu, mungagwiritsenso ntchito chovala chabwino. Kufunika kwa chinthu chofiira kunatchulidwa pamwambapa. Choncho, sitidzakhalanso ndi izi. Makamaka, ngati mitundu ya zovala, muyenera kusankha pinki, ndi chikasu, ndi lalanje, ndi terracotta, ndi zofiira. Nsaluzi zimakhala zosangalatsa kukhudza. Zida ndizoyenera kuvala mu mawonekedwe a mitundu yonse ya maluwa kapena maluwa.
Ndimakukondani ndikumuwona posachedwa.