Njira zamaganizo zothandizira ana

Tikukhala mu nthawi imene vuto la kusabereka kwa amayi, ndi umuna pakati pa amuna, likukumana nawo kwambiri. Malingana ndi chiwerengero, msungwana aliyense wachisanu ali ndi vuto la pathupi, ndipo mmodzi mwa atatu amalembedwa ndi mayi yemwe ali ndi matenda aakulu omwe amachititsa mwanayo kubereka. N'chifukwa chake ziŵerengero za kubadwa zimachokera kwambiri.

Kawirikawiri, mayi yemwe ali ndi mavuto ndi thanzi lachikazi amafuna kukhala ndi ana, koma amawopa kuyambitsa chithandizo, monga momwe zingakhalire zopweteka komanso zokwera mtengo, kotero amachoka momwemo. Komabe, nthawi zambiri vuto lalikulu la matenda silili mthupi, koma m'munda wa psyche. Ndicho chifukwa chake amayi ambiri omwe amapitabe kwa madokotala amathandiza, musachiritse mpaka mapeto, chifukwa kukumba mozama alibe mphamvu zokwanira kapena chikhumbo. Koma pachabe. Ndipotu, choyamba, pamene mukuchiza kusabereka, muyenera kufufuza thandizo kwa akatswiri a maganizo, muyenera kukhala ndi chidaliro komanso osayang'ana mavuto, wokonzeka kukhala watsopano, mkazi yemwe ali wolimba mtima komanso wolimba mtima akhoza kubereka mwana popanda mantha ndi thanzi lake komanso thanzi lake labwino m'badwo.

Sitikunena izi mothandizidwa ndi katswiri wa zamaganizo kuti mutha kubwezeretsa kuthekera kwa kubereka, muyenera kuchitidwa chithandizo ndi mayi wamayi. Kugwirizanitsa kokha kwa madera awiriwa kukuthandizani kuti muchire. Mwachidule, musaiwale kuti musadalire mankhwala okhaokha komanso njira zamankhwala. Ziyenera kukumbukiridwa kuti njira zamaganizo zoperekera chithandizo cha kusabereka zidzakuthandizani mu kanthawi kochepa kuti mumve mphamvu yakubala mwana ndi kukhala makolo ake abwino . Kuwonjezera apo, musaiwale kuti pakuyankhulana ndi katswiri wa zamaganizo mumasowa kukhalapo kwa amayi amtsogolo, komanso kachiwiri kawiri.

Phunziroli, mwayi watsopano udzatseguka kwa inu, muyenera kuthandiza kutsegula pulogalamu ya amayi, yomwe ilibe chifukwa chosasinthika, ndipo popanda ufulu wake wonse, sikutheka kukhala ndi chitsimikizo chokhumba chokhutira ndi kubereka mwanayo.

Tiyeneranso kukumbukira kuti nthawi zambiri mavuto a m'maganizo a kusabereka ndi ofanana ndi amuna, ngati kuti iwo amakhala abambo ndi zovuta kwambiri, sikuti aliyense ali wokonzeka kutenga udindo wa moyo.

Chinthu chachikulu sichiyenera kukhumudwa, pafupifupi makumi asanu ndi awiri pa anthu 100 aliwonse omwe akulimbana ndi mavuto osabereka ndipo ali ndi mwana woyembekezera kwa nthawi yayitali. Musanyalanyaze, ngakhale kuti sizinali njira yothandizira, koma thandizo la maganizo liyenera kuikidwa pa chimodzi mwa ndondomeko zoyamba.