Mwamuna ndi chikhalidwe cha mitala ndi mwamuna mmodzi - ndizosiyana ndi kukonzedwa, osati lamulo lokha. Akazi ambiri, powerenga mawu awa, adzausa moyo, ndicho chokha cha ine ndi moyo. Mwamunayo analengedwa kuti agonjetse, ateteze ndi kupitiliza banja lake, ndi mkazi kulera ana ndi kuteteza nyumba. Ndipo ndithudi ndizovuta kutsutsana ndi chikhalidwe, ndi nzeru kwa ife.
Kumverera kwa chikondi kumagonjera kwathunthu anthu onse wamba. Kukonda wina mofanana ndi kupuma. Ngati munthu sanamvepo chikondi m'mmoyo - kale ndi matenda. Kuphatikizanso ndi malamulo - kukonda munthu mmodzi pa moyo wake wonse, makamaka ngati maganizowa ali osagwirizana. Ndipo mu izi, kani, zolakwika zambiri kuposa zabwino.
Ndipo kawirikawiri, mwatsoka, mapeto nthawi zonse amakhala owona m'moyo. Munthu mmodzi amalingalira ndikumakumbukira chinthu chovomerezeka ndikuyesetsa kuti apambane moyo wake wonse, koma makumi asanu ndi anayi mphambu asanu ndi anai mphambu asanu ndi atatu alibe. Zoonadi, kuyang'ana filimu yokhudza chikondi chosatha ndikumakhudza ndi chikondi, koma moyo umasintha, ndipo kukhala ndi mwamuna mmodzi kumabweretsa mavuto ambiri.
Moyo wake wonse, munthu aliyense wamba akhoza kukonda mkazi, koma ndi kusungulumwa. Iyi ndi mutu wosiyana - mungathe kukhululukira chiwembu ndi chinyengo. Mwamuna wokwatirana naye amatha kuzunzika kwa zaka zambiri, ngati maganizo ake atapatulidwa. Choncho, ngati mumakumana ndi kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndipo simukugwirizana ndi inu, ndibwino kuti mutha kusokoneza maubwenzi onse, ndiye psychihika wake akhoza kutaya chinthu china choyamikirika, ngati chiyanjano chachedwa, ndiye kuti mudzakhala wovuta kwambiri kuti mutenge naye.
Amayi ambiri kwa zaka amakhala ndi amuna osakondedwa odnolyubami okha chifukwa chodziimba mlandu kapena kuyamikira, kapena ngakhale mantha kwa moyo wake Ipsihiku, koma osati chifukwa cha kugwirizana.
Inde, ndibwino ngati pali anthu awiri mwa anthu awiri okhawo. Koma tibwereza, izi ndizosowa kwambiri ndipo, mwinamwake, muzokamba nkhani kapena m'mafilimu ndi mndandanda. Ndipotu, amakonda yekha, ndipo wina amadzikonda yekha. Sostoron akuwoneka kuti banjali liri langwiro - nyumba ndi "chikho chonse", mwamuna samayang'anitsitsa kumanzere - chirichonse chiri m'nyumba, chirichonse cha mkazi. Koma monga akunena, "palibe amene amawona ziphuphu mu chipinda china." Ndipo kumbuyo kwa moyo wamtendere, woyerekeza ndi womasuka umabisa mavuto a munthu yemwe amalola yekha kukonda.
Popeza kuti mwamuna yekhayo samangomva mmene akumvera kachiwiri. Chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti ndimamukonda kwambiri, ndipo china chirichonse sichiri chofunikira, amaganiza. Ndipo amalingalira kale za awiri, kumusiya mkaziyo kuti ayambe kusonyeza maganizo ake, kuwasiya mwayi wokonda komanso osakondedwa. Kudzikonda koteroko sikungapangitse ubwino uliwonse mu chiyanjano cha banja.
Kodi mungadziwe bwanji ngati muli ndi imodzi mwa asanu mwa magawo asanu a amuna odnolyubov, kapena ayi?
Wakhala mukukumana kwa nthawi yaitali, ndipo sanakuuzenipo kanthu za momwe amamvera, mumamvetsetsa kuti ali m'chikondi, koma sadayambe kuvomereza kwa nthawi yaitali. Kumvetsetsa, amapanga chisankho chimodzi chokha m'moyo wake kamodzi, kotero amatha zaka izi.
Mu kampani kapena mu bwalo la abwenzi ku zizindikiro zonse za chidwi kuchokera kwa amuna kapena akazi omwe ndi osamvetsetsa, komanso moona mtima. Inde, mwinamwake uyu ndi munthu wamodzi yekha.
Ngati zili zotsutsana ndi nthawi ina iliyonse - kaya ndilo tchuthi kapena ulendo wopita kunja kwa tawuni kumapeto kwa mlungu, kapena kungofuna kupita ku cinema m'dziko lakwawo. Inde, mwinamwake iye ndi munthu mmodzi yekha. Anthu oterewa samangokhalira kulekerera kusakhala kwa chinthu chopembedzera.
Pokambirana, "wanga" amagwiritsidwa ntchito nthawi zonse. Inde, odnolyuby owopsya amtundu wa anthu ndipo nthawi zonse amavutika maganizo awa.
Koma kumbukirani kuti kukhulupirika ndi kudzipereka kwathunthu ndi chikondi chopanda malire, iye adzafunanso ndi otvas, nayenso, nthawi zonse, tsiku lililonse.
Konzekerani kukhala chitsanzo cha chiyero ndi wosunga nyumba, osatengeka ndi kukondana ndi mnzanuyo samavomereza ndipo salola.
Komanso khalani wokonzeka, kuti nthawi zonse azikhala pafupi ndi inu, komanso nthawi zonse ndi ponseponse, ngakhale mu sauna ndi abwenzi ake, chifukwa muyenera kudzipatulira kwa iye.
Koma mwina mutha kukomana ndi chikondi chatsopano kapena mudzakhumudwa ndi akale, ndiye samalani. Kuphweka mosavuta ndi mwamtendere ndi odnolyubom sikudzakhala kophweka. Sangakulole kuti uzidziiwala nokha kwa mphindi - kuyitana nthawi zonse, nthawi zina kufika ndi popanda chifukwa, mphatso ndi zoitanira zidzakuperekeza nthawi zonse. Ndipo inu mumamva nthawi zonse msonkhano womwewo nthawi zonse - kuti mubwere pamodzi ndikukhala pamodzi, ndikuiwala mavuto onse.
Ndiyeno mkaziyo akudikirira mayesero aakulu - kuvomereza zochitika zake kapena kuumirira pa nasvoem. Konzekerani kuti apitirize kumverera chisoni ndi chifundo, komanso kuti mudziwe kuti ndiwe wolakwa, kuti ndiwe amene amachititsa kuti azunzidwe ndikumva zowawa zambiri.Akazi ambiri atatha kuzunzika kwa nthawi yaitali amangodzipereka ndikupitirizabe kukhala ndi mwana wamwamuna popanda kugwirizana, ndipo potsiriza akupitiriza kupanga iwo okha kuvutika. Kapena pali kusankha - komabe musataye mtima ndikuumiriza ndi nasvoem. Inde, mumamupweteka, komabe sizingakhale zopanda pake kufalitsa mwamtendere ndi mwamtendere.
Kotero, pamene mutembenuka ndi mwamuna wamodzi, ganizirani kasanu - kodi mwakonzeka kuyesa moyo wanu wonse.
Kapena kodi muli a makumi asanu ndi anayi mphambu zisanu ndi atatu mwa anthu omwe ali ndi ufulu waumtima ndipo saopa kusonyeza malingaliro awo ndi zilakolako zawo, ndipo akuyembekezera zomwezo kuchokera kwa osankhidwawo.