Musanayambe "kukasaka," muyenera kusankha mtundu wa munthu amene mumasowa. Tengani chidutswa cha pepala, pagawani mu magawo awiri, yina lembani makhalidwe omwe amakhalidwe, zizoloŵezi, mafotokozedwe a maonekedwe omwe mumawakonda, mzake, omwe alibe. Kotero inu mumapeza fano lachimuna. Mwinamwake, amuna omwe ali ndi makhalidwe oterewa pano, koma adzawonekera. Kotero, mwadzidzidzi mumadziwa bachelor, ndipo pang'onopang'ono ubale wanu umakula kukhala ochezeka. Mukutsimikiza kuti uyu ndi munthu wa maloto anu, koma pazifukwa zina amatsutsana ndi ndondomeko ya dzanja ndi mtima.
Kusokoneza banjali ndi kumutsogolera ku chiyanjano chachikulu ayenera kukhala pang'onopang'ono, osagonjetsa, ndikuwopseza. Amuna, malinga ndi ziwerengero, ndi zochepa, koma ngati mumasowa amene anali kuyembekezera. Kumbukirani kuti kuyambira pa mphindi yoyamba yolankhulirana ndi a bachelor mumayamba kudutsa mayeso mogwirizana ndi moyo wake. Bachelor yamakono ndi yosangalala kwambiri ndi momwe akukhalira. Ali ndi nthawi yokwanira yolankhulana ndi amuna ndi akazi. Alibe mavuto aliwonse amthupi, samakhala ndi mavuto pomusunga komanso kuphika. Kuwonetsa chidwi chenicheni kwa inu, iye ayamba kukuyang'anani-simungapange kukangana mu moyo wake wokongola.
Pofuna kukopa bachelor, muyenera kukhala weniweni wokonza masewero. Zomwe zimagwirizanitsa anthu zimatha kuyandikana. Akhwima, amakhala ndi zambiri, amawayamikira ndikuyesera kuti asalengeze. Khalani osamala ndipo yesani kuwona "zinthu zochepa", chifukwa zidzakuthandizani kusankha "makiyi" abwino. Kamodzi m'nyumba yake, mulimonsemo, musanyoze mkhalidwewo, kukonza, ndipo musapereke uphungu momwe mungapangitsire bwino. Munthu wodwalayo angakhale ndi vuto lachinsinsi pa gawo lake, limene sangalole kuti azikhala ndi mlendo ndipo zonse zomwe mukuchita sizidzakhala zopanda phindu.
Musayese kusonyeza bachelor kuti iye ali kale mwamuna wanu. Musagwiritse ntchito zinthu zake konse, musakhale pansi mu galimoto yake ndi chidaliro chakuti iye adzakutengerani kumene mukufuna. Kuti ukhale ndi ubale wolimba ndi bachelor wodzipereka, muyenera kudziwa zofooka zake, zizoloŵezi zake, malingaliro ake pa moyo, zomwe iye amaziona kuti ndi zofunika kwambiri. Musamukakamize kuti akuuzeni abwenzi ndi makolo. Pangani ubale wotere kuti usakhale mvula yamkuntho ya mdziko lake, koma panthawi yomweyi kuti musakhale mthunzi, mwinamwake simungaganizidwe nkomwe.
Mwinamwake, amakhulupirira kuti maubwenzi akuluakulu adzaphwanya njira yake ya moyo, ndikuchedwa nthawi ino. Tsopano bachelor amachita chirichonse momwe iye akufunira, ndipo mu moyo wothandizira iye adzayenera kuwerengera ndi lingaliro la munthu wina. Musadzipangitse nokha ngati apita ku phwando lakale, musamupemphe kuti akuitane nthawi zambiri. Ndibwino kumupempha kuti ayitane pamene mwavomera. Musamayerekezere kuti mum'patse ndalama. Ngati akuganiza kuti ndalama zake zatha kale, ndiye kuti kuyesa kwanu kulibe kanthu.
Ngati banjali amadziwika kuti muli pafupi, koma nthawi yomweyo mumupatse mwayi wokhala yekha, kuti musayese ngozi, posachedwa akukupatsani inu kuti mugawane naye malo okhala naye. Zidzakhala bwinoko, kuyesa mphamvu ya ubale wanu, nthawi yomweyo sagwirizana. Mulole nthawi yaying'ono kukhala yeseso kwa iye, koma ndiye adzanyadira kuti mwavomereza. Ndipo izi zimakupindulitsani!