Yokhala mwa njondayo
Kumayambiriro kwa chibwenzi, kukhalapo kwa chiyambi cha "chip" mwa mwamuna, monga chizoloŵezi, kumamupangitsa chidwi chake. Avot atayamba chiyanjano ndi iye, mkazi nthawi zonse amafuna chidwi chake chonse kuti chiyike payekha.
Koma inu simunakumane nawo mu tebulo? Ngakhale pali kale tama ya mwana aliyense, pali mabwenzi ena komanso zosangalatsa. Ndicho chifukwa chake muyenera kulemekeza ufulu wa wosankhidwa wanu kuti muzisamalira ndi kukonzekera zokonda zanu, zomwe "amasonyeza" nthawi yaitali kuposa inu. Zosangalatsa zake ndi mbali ya dziko lamkati, kumene mumangotenga masitepe.
Zoonadi, mungayambe kumenyana ndi kupambana, mwachitsanzo, nthawi ya sabata Lisa, Maria Presley anatha kumuthandiza mkazi wake Nichols Cage kuti agulitse mabuku a zojambula zomwe adazipeza kuyambira ali mwana ndipo tsopano akudandaula kwambiri.
Malingaliro a akatswiri a maganizo, ndiwodziwikiratu kuganiza kuti kugawidwa ngati zotsatira za chikhalidwe cha nkhondo yotere: kwa amuna, kukhalapo kwa chizoloŵezi ndikofunika kwambiri. Pali lingaliro lomwe limanena kuti tsogolo la munthu likuonedwa kuti "kuswa mwadongosolo": Kukula kwa mitundu yatsopano ya ntchito, kulanda malo atsopano, kugonjetsa anthu. Chilengedwe ndi chiopsezo - wina weniweni moyo wa munthu.
Kodi izi zingakhale bwanji mu dziko lamakono? Chifukwa cha ichi, okhulupirira athu adasankha okha kuti ndi "zachilendo," mothandizidwa ndi zomwe akuyesera kuti azikwanitsa kuchita zinthu zenizeni za amuna okhaokha.
Kodi izi zimakhudza bwanji chikondi? Ayi ndithu! Kuwonjezera pa kujambula kungapulumutse munthu ku njira zina zoipa kuti asinthe moyo. Choncho, perekani zabwino zomwe amapeza masampampu, kuposa atapita ku bar "akugonjetsa anthu". Komanso, dziko la zokondweretsa amuna ndilosiyana kwambiri.
Zosangalatsa zojambula
Zitsulo za mowa, beji, malemba, matayala, matayala a m'mphuno, ayi, wosankhidwa wanu samadwala kleptomania, iye amangokhala ngati "hamster" akufuna kusonkhanitsa zokololazo.
Nchiyani chikukutsani inu ? Kuchavsheskoj zopanda pake m'nyumba. Ulendo wokhazikika wa alendo omwe amabwera kudzagula, kuyang'ana, kusinthanitsa kapena kugulitsa. Ndipo, potsiriza, zokondweretsa izi ziri mu "ndalama" yaikulu.
Kuwona kuchokera kumbali . Kaya "msonkhano wathunthu" m'kupita kwanthawi udzakhala wotheka bwanji. Zonse zoyambirira za mndandanda zingagwiritsidwe ntchito ngati zokongoletsera zamkati. Mwa njira, osonkhanitsa okha akhoza kukhala okondweretsa kwambiri kulankhula nawo.
Kusewera kwa "Classic"
"Fanatism" ya kusaka, kuwedza, magalimoto, mtundu wina wa masewera-mwa kuyankhula kwina, zosangalatsa zimakhala zosiyana ndi zofanana.
Nchiyani chikukutsani inu ? Masamba afupipafupi, omwe nthawi zonse amapezeka m'maboma achilendo. Mwachitsanzo, pa Loweruka Lamlungu mmawa, adamuuza kuti asadzatuluke tsiku lonse, koma adati: "Ndiloledwa, ndikupita kukawedza! Ndikusowa anyamata! ". Posakhalitsa anasonkhana, akuimba mluzu, anapita kumalo omwe akupita. Ndipo izi nthawizonse ...
Yang'anani kuchokera kumbali. Gwirizanani, kodi muli ndi "zokondweretsa" zachikazi zanu? Iwo amangokhala osasangalatsa. Koma ngati mukuyandikira malonda a nthawi yopatula yochepa, nthawi yomwe mumakhala mutha kukwanitsa kuthetserana wina ndi mzake - kukwera mumsewero - kuthamanga, kusaka - kugula, kugula nthawi ndi abwenzi, phwando la nkhuku, kukumba mugalimoto - SPA njira. Ndipo vuto liri pati?
Zosangalatsa zamtundu
Masiku ano "magulu ankhondo" amavuta zida zawo ndipo amadziwonetsa okha masewera, koma magulu a magetsi ali ndi chilakolako chachikulu pang'onopang'ono ndondomeko yawo.
Nchiyani chikukutsani inu ? Ovomerezeka a zochitika zachilendo "zachikhalidwe" nthawi zonse amafuna kukhala ndi "ophunzira" ndi "otsatira". Pa chifukwa ichi, mudzaitanidwa mwamphamvu kuti mutenge nawo mbali.
Kuyang'ana kuchokera kumbali . Ngati mugawana malingaliro a chibwenzi, chizoloŵezi chake chodabwitsa chingakhale chanu. Ndipo ngati malingaliro a wokondedwa wanu sakukulimbikitsani inu nonse, muyenera kudzikonzekera kuti posachedwa ubale ufika pamapeto awo.
Adrenaline zokondweretsa
Mafilimu a karting, speleologists, climbers ndi ena onse oimira kwambiri ndi olimbika mtima, okondana, koma amakonda nthawi zonse ndikuchoka kwawo.
Nchiyani chikukutsani inu ? a) kupezeka kwa nthawi yaitali ndi nthawi yaitali kwa wokondedwa; b) kupezeka kwa "okondwa" ndi "abwenzi" akunyamuka, etc; c) kuthekera kwa kuvulala kwa zovuta zosiyanasiyana.
Kuyang'ana kuchokera kumbali. Njonda yoteroyo ndiwowona weniweni kuti uwonetsere kwa anzakazi ake: Ambiri oterewa amatha kukhala ndi zofalitsa zosiyanasiyana. Koma kupezeka kwa telefoni nthawi yayitali kungagwiritsidwe ntchito phindu lanu nokha ndi thupi lanu kapena kukhala ngati maphunziro ena. Mfundo "b" ikhoza kuthetsedwa mwakumakumana ndi okondedwa omwe akukondedwa kwambiri ndi kumpsompsonana komanso nthawi zonse kumuthandiza mwachikondi.
Zosangalatsa zokha
Magalimoto a magalimoto, ndege, kusaka photo, kuswana maluwa, nsomba za aquarium, ndi zina zotero. Nthaŵi yokhala yekha ndi nthawi yochita masewera olimbitsa thupi amapeza mpumulo weniweni wamtima.
Nchiyani chikukutsani inu ? Iye mwa njira zonse zotheka amaletsa "kulowa" kudziko lake. Izi zimapangitsa kuti mukumva kuti mwasiyidwa ndipo mumasiyidwa.
Kuyang'ana kuchokera kumbali. Aliyense ali ndi ufulu wodzisuka kwanu! Ndipo ndi zoona! Mwa njira, tsiku limodzi lokoma, zosangalatsa zake zingasanduke nkhani ya moyo, kubweretsa ndalama zabwino kwambiri.
Kusewera kwa pakompyuta
Malingana ndi akatswiri a zamaganizo, ndi zachilengedwe kuti dziko lapansili likhale ndi zinthu zambiri zomwe zimachititsa kuti munthu adzipangitse moyo wake, kuyambira pa ludzu la chiopsezo ndi chidziwitso. Ndipo ponena za masewera a pakompyuta, awa ndi aluntha omwe ali ndi gulu lalingaliro laling'ono.
Nchiyani chikukutsani inu ? Ngati mulibe "okondana" ndi makompyuta, chigawo chanu chokhalapo chidzawoneka ngati "dzenje lakuda" lochititsa mantha, limene madzulo onse osankhidwa anu amapeza.
Lingaliro lochokera kumbali . Njira yothetsera vutoli ndi yosavuta: musawope kusonyeza chidwi chanu mu kompyuta yake yowonongeka - mutenge nawo mbali zosangalatsa zake, pitani ndi masewera ake, kusinthana mfundo zosangalatsa pa malo, ndi zina zotero. Ndikhulupirire, pokhala "wogwiritsira ntchito" sizosangalatsa, koma ndiwothandiza.
Ndipo potsiriza, ziyenera kukumbukira kuti ngakhale kukopa kopanda phindu kwa chibwenzi chanu kungakwaniritse ntchito yothandiza: iye amalekerera "misala" anu. Ndipo njira zako zopumula kuchokera kwa iye sizidzapangitsa kutsutsana ndi kutsutsidwa. Ndipo pamene mukusowa ndalama kwa ana anu, mumakhala ndi mkangano waukulu - chiwerengero cha zero (ngakhale pafupifupi) chomwe wokondedwa wanu amachigwiritsa ntchito pazochita zanu.