Iwo ndi ndani?
Kutenga (kuchokera ku Australia akunyamule - "kunyamula") - mnyamata yemwe amadziŵa nthawi zonse atsikana osiyana, pokhala ndi zolinga zopanda chilungamo. Cholinga chake chachikulu ndikumunyengerera msanga msanga kapena ngati mwadzidzidzi mutenga nambala ya foni yanu popanda kugwiritsa ntchito ndalama zake (izi ndi zofunika kwa iwo: ndalamazo zimaonedwa ngati zolakwika). Kujambula kumabwera nthawi zonse ndikupanga njira zosiyana zogonana ndi chibwenzi cha atsikana, aliyense wa iwo ali ndi maphwando awo, mawebusaiti komanso maphunziro apadera. Monga nthawi zonse, ndalamayi ili ndi mbali ziwiri. Inde, pali anthu odzichepetsa omwe amapita ku maphunziro osiyanasiyana kuti aphunzire kudzidalira nokha komanso momwe mungamangire ubale ndi okondedwa anu. Koma kaŵirikaŵiri kawirikawiri kawirikawiri pamapakati a mapepala - anyamata omwe, osaphunzira mosamalitsa zofunikira za psychology ya amayi, amadziwana ndi gulu la atsikana mwakamodzi ndi mitu yosauka bwino. Ndipo pambuyo pake, pamodzi ndi abwenzi ake, yerekezerani "catch" ndi kuyika zolemba pa mlingo wa mfundo khumi.
Njira Zopusitsira
Lamulo ndi masekondi khumi.
Olemba mapiko ali ndi lamulo losavomerezeka: Ngati mukufuna kudziwana ndi mtsikana, muyenera kumuyandikira kwa mphindi 10 zoyambirira, momwe lingaliro lija limaganiziramo, ngati palibe chomwe chingasokoneze, ndipo palibe chomwe chidzatuluke. Kotero ngati mwadzidzidzi mwangozindikira mlendo mu disco, amene mwamsanga analowa, mwamsanga anayang'ana pozungulira ndipo nthawi yomweyo anapita kwa inu, ndiye samalani - mwinamwake pali chinachake chodetsedwa.
Kutamanda.
Mawu okongola ndi okondweretsa ngakhale kwa msungwana wodalirika kwambiri, koma pickers ali ndi mayamiko nthawizonse oyambirira. Zokongola zimakuuzani za "maso a mtundu wa chisanu cha m'mawa" ndi "khungu lomwe limakhala lowala kwambiri kusiyana ndi zomangamanga za Nyu York"? Mwinamwake, ziribe kanthu kwa iye ngati inu mukuzikhulupirira izo kapena ayi. Akufuna kuti mumukumbukire.
Bwereranso
Lingaliro limeneli limatanthauza "kusintha" ku khalidwe la interlocutor. Zimakhulupirira kuti zimakhala zophweka kwambiri kuti munthu akhale kwa iye mwini, ngati mutangoyamba kumuyang'ana pang'ono: lankhulani ndi chiwonongeko chomwecho, muyimirire mofanana. Mnyamata wamkulu kwambiri akuyamba mwadzidzidzi, pafupifupi kung'ung'udza, ndi mnyamatayo ndi manja ake - amasuntha manja ake, mawu oti mphero? Tawonani, omwe iwo akunena: mwinamwake, izi sizozoloŵezi zawo.
Kuthamanga.
Pikaperu sakufuna mwezi umodzi kuti akalankhule nanu pa foni, adzayesetsa mwamsanga kuti asamukire ku ntchito yogwira ntchito - kuyitanidwa kukacheza ndi usiku kapena kukufunsani. Mwinamwake, iye adzakhala wotsimikiza, wokakamiza ndipo adzakulonjezani chimwemwe chosatha ndi paradaiso weniweni padziko lapansi. Khulupirirani kapena ayi - bizinesi yanu, koma kumbukirani: simukuwonekeranso.
Kulemba
Ichi ndi Casanova .
Ndikokwanira kumangomunyoza. Real Casanova - kunyada wodwala, amakhumudwa ngakhale pazinthu zopanda pake.
Amakonda atsikana.
Iye amadziwa kwenikweni momwe angagwirizane ndi chikondi. Kawirikawiri. Pafupi kamodzi pa sabata. Ndipo mtsikana aliyense amavomereza moona mtima. Kuti palibe mmodzi wa moyo wanga amene anakumana nayepo. Chochita: Pali anthu otero, kwa iwo atsikana ndizojambula. Lero amakukondani, ndipo mawa adakondwera naye. Kawirikawiri iwo ndi abwenzi abwino: owona mtima ndi okoma mtima. Koma chibwenzi cha mnyamata woteroyo sichikhoza kupambana - kokha ngati kwa masiku angapo.
Woyamba
Kawirikawiri anyamata osatetezeka amayesera kudziwana ndi aliyense kuti akhale ozizira. Amunawa samadziwa momwe angakhalire ndi ubale weniweni, koma samavomereza. Amangofuna kusonyeza anzanu, kukambirana (kapena kungolemba) zochita zawo ndi kuseka naivete a atsikana. Ndi bwino kupewa mkazi woteroyo. N'chifukwa chiyani amadzipangitsa kuti azidziona kuti ndi wofunika kwambiri?
Mnyamata akufufuza.
Uthenga wabwino: ena opanga maloto akulakalaka kupeza munthu wangwiro wokwatirana naye. Ziri zovuta - mukudziwa. Kotero iwo amagwiritsa ntchito njira yosokoneza mpaka atayamba kukonda kwenikweni. Osati woona mtima, ndithudi, koma mungatani. Tangolongosolani mwamsanga kuti simudzagawana ndi atsikana ambiri - ndipo mumulole kuti asankhe chofunika kwambiri kwa iye.
Kodi munapeza chotola?
Kumvetsa.
Inu molimba mtima mumalengeza "Mnyamata wanga ndikutenga!"? Ndipo mwinamwake, winawake yemwe akuwoneka kuti ndiwe wonyenga wonyenga, kwenikweni ndi mnyamata wokondwa ndi wokondana naye? Musamangoganizira mofulumira: onetsetsani kuyankhula kwachoncho, fotokozani zomwe zikukukondetsani. Ngati ndinu wokondedwa kwa mnyamatayo, sangakhumudwitse - chabwino, amatsuka, kwa kanthawi pang'ono. Mwadzidzidzi kukayikira kwanu kuli chabe zizindikiro za paranoia?
Siyani. Ndi zopanda phindu kuyesa kusintha chithunzi chenichenicho, simungakhoze kuyika chithunzi chanu cha dziko pamutu pake. Kwa inu, chikondi si masewera, koma ndi osiyana kwa iye. Ngati mukumvetsa kuti kupatula kwa inu ali ndi "dzuwa" limodzi ndi "Angelo," ndi bwino kusiya kungolankhula. Ndine ndekha mtengo.
Musadzitsutse nokha. Nchiyani cholakwika ndi zomwe inu mumamukhulupirira iye? Ichi ndi vuto lake - samvetsa kuti pali zinthu zofunika kwambiri kuposa mndandanda wa zopambana. Ndipo muli bwino, osakhala ndi mwayi: mukukumana ndi mtundu wosasangalatsa. Musaganize kuti anyamata onse ndi ofooka, ndipo ndinu osowa kwambiri padziko lonse lapansi. Ndiyeno mudzaphonya chimwemwe chanu.
Sangalalani. Mukufuna nthawi yoti mupeze, ndipo mukuyang'ana nkhani yonse mosiyana. Tembenuzani kukhala anecdote, kuseka ndi abwenzi anu. Pamapeto pake, mumadutsa moyo wanu ndi mutu wanu wokhazikika, ndipo wotaya mtima akupitirizabe kutsata aliyense, kuyembekezera kuti penapake sangakanidwe. Chinthu chosautsa.
Gwiritsani ntchito
Mu filosofi ya ojambula ojambula, sizinthu zonse zoipa: chinachake ndi chothandizira kuti muphunzire. Mwachitsanzo, kudzidalira - makamaka chifukwa chodziŵa popanda kunjenjemera m'madondo osati kusakanikirana kumene kumakhala nawo atsopano. Ndipo amawerenganso mabuku ambiri pa nkhani ya psychology ndipo amatha kupeza chinenero chimodzimodzi ngakhale ndi anthu omwe achotsedwa. Ndipo iwo ali ndi malingaliro olemera, ophunzitsidwa pothandizira. Ndipo chofunikira kwambiri - kudziwa ndi njira zamagetsi zosagwiritsidwa ntchito sizingagwiritsidwe ntchito pokhapokha pa chikondi choyambirira. Anzanu abwino, makolo komanso ngakhale mphunzitsi kapena atsogoleri amaperekedwa.