Tiye tingonena kuti mkazi yemwe nthawi zonse amadandaula za moyo wake ndi mkazi wosayenerera. Monga lamulo, zolinga zathu zonse zokhudzana ndi moyo ndizofunika kuyesetsa kuti zikhale zabwino. Tikufuna kuyang'ana bwino, kuvala bwino, kupeza bwino ndikupuma bwino. Komanso, tikufuna mwamuna wabwino, wangwiro. Koma, popeza padziko lapansi palibe kanthu kena kalikonse, ngakhale ife, ndi choonadi pamaso, sizowoneka bwino, sipangakhale mwamuna wabwino.
Choyenera ndiyakeyake, yomwe ayenera kuyesetsa. Kungakhale muyezo wa kukongola, khalidwe labwino ndi, ndithudi, muyezo wa mwamuna. Mwamuna woyenera, wojambula ndi malingaliro anu, ndilo khalidwe la mkati, deta yapansi yomwe mnzanuyo ayenera kukhala nayo pamoyo. Kwa atsikana ambiri amakono, mwamuna wabwino komanso mwamuna wabwino ndi munthu wotetezeka. Kotero chirichonse chiri chosiyana, chifukwa aliyense ali ndi zopempha zawo za amuna "90-60-90".
Koma, pambuyo pa zonse, simuyenera kumanga ziwonetsero ndikuyang'ana kalonga wamtendere, kuzungulira apo pali amuna ambiri okhala ndi zolakwika zawo zazikulu ndi zazing'ono. Kukhudza kwambiri, ngakhale ndi mwayi wosankha, mukhoza kukhala wopanda kanthu. Ngati mubwera ku sitolo, komwe kuyesedwa kudzachitika, ndipo mutasankha nthawi yayitali, mukhoza kukhalabe ndi kanthu. Pali nthawizonse wogula wogula amene amadziwa zomwe akufuna, ndipo panthawi yomwe mukuganiza kuti adzasangalala ndi kugula kwake. Ndipo ndi anthu. Pali nthawizonse yomwe imawona mwa osankhidwa anu kukhala phwando loyenera ndipo, ndithudi, sichiphonya.
Makhalidwe abwino a mwamuna woyenera
Ndipo tsopano tidzakambirana makhalidwe abwino omwe mwamuna wabwino ayenera kukhala nawo. Koma, ndikufuna kudziwa kuti mkazi aliyense ali ndi zofunikira ndi zoyenera, ndipo ena ngakhale abwino ndi munthu wodziimira yekha yemwe ali ndi ufulu wochita chiwembu. Mwachidziwikire, mkazi amasankha mwamuna womukondweretsa, ndipo ngati akusowa ufulu wa ubale m'banja lake, amafunanso mwamuna wake kuti akhale ndi moyo komanso makhalidwe abwino ofanana. Koma, monga lamulo, pambuyo pa zonse, mkazi amafuna kuwona mwa mwamuna wake kuti ndi banja lokhulupirika, losavuta komanso lodziwika bwino.
Choncho, mwamuna wabwino ndi awa:
- Munthu amene amakukondani komanso amakukondani. Ndikuganiza kuti ndemanga sizikufunika pano.
- Munthu yemwe alibe zizoloŵezi zoipa, ndi zofunika kuti asamwe kapena kusuta.
- Banja lokhulupirika ndi lodalirika. Theka lachiwiri, adatchedwanso mwamuna kapena mkazi. Onse pamodzi ndi amodzi. Mwamuna woyenera nthawi zonse amathandizira mu mphindi yovuta, kupeza mawu olondola, onyoza - osati gawo la munthu wabwino.
- Mwamuna wokongola ndilo loto lalikulu kwambiri la atsikana ndi amayi ambiri. Inde, nthawi zonse ndibwino kuganizira munthu wokongola, makamaka ngati ali wochepetseka komanso wokonzeka bwino. Koma mbali iyi ya chisankho chanu sayenera kutsogolera. Nthawi zina kumbuyo kwa kukongola simungakhoze kuona zolakwa zazikulu. Mzanga wina atavomereza kuti ankakonda mwamuna wake, mawonekedwe okongola. Koma ukwati unasintha zinthu zonse, mawonekedwe anagwera kumbuyo, chofunika kwambiri chinali umunthu wamkati wa munthu, umene sunawalitse.
- Kugonana ... Mwamuna wabwino ayenera kukhala pabedi, zabwino kwa inu. Zomwe anganene, koma osakhutira, sipangakhale ubale wabwino. Ndipo osati chinthu chachikulu mwa kuchuluka kwa ulemu wake wamwamuna. Chinthu chachikulu ndichokuti mwamuna akufuna kukupatsani chisangalalo, ndipo ngati akufuna, ndiye kuti zonse zidzatha.
- Zingakhale zabwino ngati mwamuna ndiye adzalandira bwino m'banja. Koma mwamuna si ATM, ndipo musamuikire iye, ngati lero sangakuloleni chirichonse chomwe mukufuna. Kutsutsidwa kungasokoneze ubwenzi wa banja. Mkazi kwa mwamuna wake ndi yosungirako zinthu, ndipo sanamwe, kumbukirani izi. Ukwati ndi kuwerengera, mwinamwake, wodzisangalatsa "mgwirizano", koma osati chikondi. Koma, monga ndinanena, aliyense ali ndi zake. Ngati izi ndi zabwino, ndiye yesetsani kulimbikira.
Chabwino, ndipo potsirizira pake. Mayi amene akufuna kumuwona mwamuna wabwino ayenera kulingalira za makhalidwe omwe mkazi wabwino ayenera kukhala nawo. Ngati "mutenge" ndipo musapereke, ndiye kuti mwamuna woyenera akhoza kukhala mwamuna wopanda ungwiro komanso mosiyana.
Ngati mukufunafuna mwamuna wamtsogolo, yang'anani ndikuyesera zabwino, koma musamalota ndi kalonga wamatsenga, chifukwa mumasowa mwamuna ndi mphamvu zake zonse ndi zofooka, osati chinyengo. Kodi ndinu kale mkazake? Sindikuganiza kuti mungakwatire ndi munthu wosakhala wabwino. Mipikisano, mikangano, kusamvetsetsana - iyi ndi sitepe yowona, koma osati kukhumudwa. Yang'anani mwatcheru, pezani mmalo mwazophatikiza zambiri pakati pa minuses yambiri, ndipo mwinamwake, pangani njira yoyamba yopita kumalo abwino ndikudabwa mwamuna wanu. Ndiyenera kukhala mwamuna wabwino yemwe mumamudziwa kale, choncho nthawi zonse mumakhala ndi chinachake choyenera. Ndipo musanyoze amuna anu, ngakhale iwo sali chomwe inu mukufuna kuti iwo akhale. Kutamandidwa ndi kuvomerezedwa ndizolimbikitsa kwambiri pakufunafuna moyo wabwino.