Simukusowa potion chikondi, koma pamalo pomwe panthawi imeneyo kutamanda angamupangitse kukhala wankhondo wamphamvu ndi zovuta komanso ngakhale kupsa mtima. Koma chifukwa chakuti amuna athu sangakhale ndi moyo popanda recharge yathu, kuyamikira kwathu.
Amuna amatha bwanji kutamandidwa, mwatsoka si amayi onse omwe amadziwa za izo? Amuna oyamikira amakupatsani mpata wokhala apamwamba komanso ofunika kuposa amuna ena. Amawasiyanitsa ndi gululo ndipo amatha kupanga amuna apadera. Kuwathokoza ndi luso, osati kusokonezeka ndi luso - kuimba nyimbo zotamanda ndi mawu okondweretsa omwe amachitika mu ulamuliro wa mafumu ndi olemekezeka. Lolani panthawi yathu kuyamika sikukhala yowongoka kwambiri chifukwa chonyengerera, koma ayenera kuchita mwanzeru.
Kufunika kwakukulu kwa kuyamikiridwa ndi mau omwe kutamandidwa kumatchulidwa. Ndipotu, kuyamikira ndi sayansi yonse. Mulimonsemo mungathe kutchula munthu wokhala ndi chidziwitso chachikondi, chaubwana, ndibwino kwambiri ngati mau a mawu anu ali otsika kwambiri.
Sakonda kukondwa kopanda pake, komabe sikuyeneranso kutulutsa makhalidwe awo poyamikira, ndi bwino kuganizira zambiri. Ngati mumaphunzira kuyamika moona mtima, izi ndizobisika ndipo mwamunayo nthawi zonse amafuna kukuthokozani. Mulimonsemo sitiyenera kulola kunyalanyaza komwe tiri nako, mwa amayi nthawi zambiri m'moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku. Mwachitsanzo: "Ndikumvetsera, ndipo sindinadziwe kuti ndiwe wokoma kwambiri ndipo ukhoza kuphika supu, ndipo mbaleyo ili yonse ndipo zala zako zilipo!" Mwina sindikanakhala ndi chisangalalo chotere, koma zinkakhumudwitsa kukhuta kwamuyaya. Munthu wodabwitsa, yemwe ali ndi chisangalalo, adzabwezera ndalama yomweyo.
Cholakwika china chofala, amayi ambiri amapondereza ndi kuyamikira, kuwabalalitsa kumanja ndi kumanzere. Monga "simungathe kuwononga phala ndi mafuta" - izi ndi zoona, koma sizimagwiritsidwa ntchito pothokoza. Kuthokozedwa, monga maswiti, kuyenera kuperekedwa chifukwa cha kuchuluka kwa mayamiko omwe angataya mphamvu zawo ndipo amangosiya kukhulupirira.
Kuti muthokoze mwamuna, mumagwira ntchito kuti mudziwe zizoloŵezi ndi khalidwe la munthu yemwe alembedwera. Chofunika kwambiri ndi kufufuza kwa makhalidwe omwe ndi ofunika kwambiri kwa wothandizira. Mwinanso zimakhala zovuta kuti apambane msomali, koma mwinamwake izi ndizo bizinesi ya moyo wake wonse: "Ndi wanzeru bwanji komanso zomwe manja ake a golide ali nazo." Pakuti munthu aliyense ndi wofunikira kwambiri pofufuza za makhalidwe ake. Ngakhale nthumwi ya ntchito yolimbika kwambiri imafuna mawu kuti akhalebe ofunikira komanso ulamuliro wapakati: "Kodi mumadziwa bwanji zambiri? Ziri zochuluka bwanji mmutu mwanu! Ndiwe wanzeru bwanji! "
Zotamanda zimakondedwa ndi anthu ndipo zingatheke popanda mawu, zokwanira kungogwira dzanja la wokondedwayo pa nthawi yoyenera ndikuyang'ana m'maso ake ngati mwachindunji, ndi kumwetulira, kapena kumupsompsonona pamasaya.
Zotamanda ndi zabwino ndipo zimapereka zotsatira zabwino za kulankhulana kwanu. Lankhulani iwo nthawizonse, koma mpaka pamfundo. Iye, yemwe adzam'tamanda mwamuna wake ndi nzeru komanso mwakhama amapeza mwayi woposa akazi ena, chifukwa kuti ndiwamphamvu kwambiri padziko lapansi, ndikofunikira kuti akhale ndi mkazi yemwe ali bwino kwambiri.
Ngati mwamuna ali patsogolo panu, ndipo mumamva kuti mumamukonda - mumatha kumuyandikira momasuka ndikumuuza za izo. Chabwino, bwanji ngati iye sakukhala kalonga wanu, koma padzakhala anthu oposa osangalala padziko lapansi, ngakhale kwa mphindi imodzi.