Ndipo mawu awa sangatchulidwe osayenerera: ndithudi, nthawi zonse amakhalabe limodzi, pomwe palibe ziwonetsero za nsanje, ndi zifukwa zomwe zimachitika - misa, sivuta kwa aliyense. Ndipo, ngakhale zili choncho, chizoloŵezi cha kugwirizana kwa ubale pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi sichinyalanyaza: pafupifupi kampani iliyonse pali zitsanzo zingapo za chikondi chomwe chinachitika pakati pa antchito a dipatimenti imodzi.
Ndi mavuto ati omwe angakhalepo?
Kuvuta kwakukulu pazochitika zoterezi sikuyenera kunyalanyaza ndi kuwonedwa kwa wina wa anzako ndi mnzake. Ndipo ngati mayi mu ofesi angathe kuchita mwamseri, osapereka chifundo kwa wogwira ntchitoyo, zochita za wokonda ku ofesi zingaoneke ndi maso. Nchiyani chimasiyanitsa mwamuna ndi anzako anzake, kumangomvera chisoni munthu wogwira ntchito yokongola?
Choyamba, kudziwa kuti mwamuna mnzanuyo ali m'chikondi mosavuta, ngati mumamvetsera nthawi imene iye akutsatira. Pa maphwando apagulu, iye adzakonzedwa kuti aziwona nkhani ya kubuula kwake, kapena mwachindunji pafupi ndi icho. Pa nthawi yomweyo adzayesetsa kuti asamasonyeze maganizo ake momveka bwino: sangathe kumuitanira kuvina, koma iye adzakhala woyamba kudzaza chikho chake cha gentlemanly. Kuti awononge mkazi wake wokondedwa kunyumba, nayenso sangaitanidwe, koma ndithudi adzaonetsetsa kuti abwera kunyumba popanda chidziwitso. Ngati adziwa kuti mtima wamtima wa mtima wake sukupita kumapeto kwa phwando lotsatira, ndiye kuti tsiku lotsatira adzawoneka movutikira kwambiri muofesi. Pokhapokha ngati sizichitika mwadzidzidzi m'mabwalo a usiku omwewo monga momwe amachitira kale ndi matsenga a chisangalalo, adzatha kuwonetsa kwa mnzakeyo momwe amamvera mumtima mwake.
Kuwonjezera pamenepo, ngakhale pambuyo pa kupsompsonana kambirimbiri kapena kukambirana momveka bwino, mwamuna wokonda kuofesi akuopa kufotokoza maganizo ake kuntchito. Ubwino wamwamuna uyu nthawi zambiri unachititsa kuchedwa pachiyambi cha ubale wolimba komanso wa nthawi yayitali. Vuto sikuti usiku usiku mu gulu lomwe munthu amangowonongeka ndi mnzakeyo. Zomwe anakumana nazo zimakhala zovuta kwambiri: kukhala nthawi zonse kuyang'aniridwa ndi mamembala omwe ali ndi njala zochitika zochititsa chidwi, amangofuna kusunga malo ake, omwe amachititsa chikondi kukhala chovuta kwambiri. Apa zonse zimadalira mkaziyo mwiniwake: ngati adziwona yekha kuti wogwira naye ntchito amamvetsera mwachidwi, kuyang'anitsitsa zinthu zake ndi chikhumbo chofuna kukhala pafupi ndi iye, ndiye kuti ubale uyenera kuchita chinthu chimodzi chokha: kulankhula naye, kuyambira ndi Kumvera chisoni kapena kutsutsa kwa iye.
Ndipanso chinanso chosiyanitsa munthu woteroyo ku kampani kuchokera kwa anzako anzake?
Ndi zophweka: nthawi zonse amakhala wokhudzidwa ndi chinthu chaching'ono, chokhudzana ndi moyo wa wosankhidwa mtima wake. Makhalidwe a mwamuna wokondana ndi ofesi nthawi zambiri amalembedwa ndi zinthu zomwe iye mwiniyo sanaganizirepo. Choncho, sizingatheke kuti amatha kubisa maganizo ake pagulu. Chimodzi mwa zizindikiro zochititsa chidwi kwambiri za chikondi cha munthu woteroyo ndi chidwi chake: nthawi zonse amamufunsa mnzanuyo momwe tsiku lake lapitira, funsani zomwe zikutsatira polojekiti yake. Ndipo, pokhala wokondwa, wogwira naye ntchitoyo adzadziŵa bwino ntchito zonse za wogwira ntchito amene wamusangalatsa ndi kuyesetsa kumuteteza momwe angathere kukhumudwitsidwa. Kwa iye, sangathe kulankhulana molimba mtima ndi malangizo oyenerera, komanso kuthandizira kwambiri. Mwamuna wokondana sali wosangalatsa kuposa kukambirana naye pa ntchito inayake, samadziyimira yekha. Koma apa pali vuto: ngati chinachake chikulakwika pa ntchito, zotsatira zake zingakhale zosadziŵika - kuchoka kwathunthu kwa chidwi pa gawo lake, kusintha kwa chikondi chofunda kumtentha wozizira, kudana kwambiri.
Zochitika zochepa chabe.
Zochita za mwamuna wokondana mu ofesi zili ndi chidwi osati kwa wokondedwa wake yekha. Poyesa kubisa maganizo ake, omwe amalingalira kuti sungatheke, amasonyeza chidwi chake pazochitika za wina aliyense. Kuti muyese mlingo wa chidwi chowonetsedwa. Inde, sikungatheke kukwaniritsa bwinobwino, koma zidzasokoneza antchitowa podziwa yemwe wothandizira naye akumukonda. Ngakhale sizili zovuta kudziwa momwe zikuwonekera: pakuwona. Munthu wachikondi amakonda kuyang'ana nkhani ya kuusa moyo kwake. Makamaka pamene akuganiza kuti palibe amene akumuyang'ana. Choncho, posankha malo antchito atsopano, iye amasankha tebulo yomwe ili pambali pa wokondedwa wake, ndipo panthawi yopuma ndi anzake adzasankha malo omwe malo omwe amasuta kapena omwe amamwa mowa omwe ali nawo mu ofesi amawoneka bwino.
Makhalidwe a munthu wokondana amakhala oopsya, mosasamala kanthu kuti wokondedwa kapena mlendo wake wokondedwa, akuwona pawindo la basi yodutsa, adzakhala wake. Zili muofesi kuti mantha awa adzawonekera kwambiri ndi owopsa kwa othokoza kwambiri pokhudzana ndi ntchito zabwino. Ndipo sikulengeza zambiri za kukula kwa maubwenzi kapena kuopsezedwa kwa munthu wokondedwa kuchokera kwa anzako, osati payekha. Vuto ndilopangitsa kuti anthu azikaikira nthawi zonse. Kuti muwone mkazi wosirira tsiku lirilonse, kuti adziwe yemwe iye amamukonda ndi yemwe sali, kuti azindikire luso lake ndi moyo wake, ndi kuti kusunga malingaliro a maganizo sikungokhala kovuta-ndikovuta. Ndipo mosiyana ndi mkazi, mwamuna amamvetsa izi mwangwiro. Ndicho chifukwa chake akuchita mantha. Wokonda woopsya nthawi zambiri amachita mosadziwiratu. Amadziwika ndi kuwala kwaukali. Kapena mosiyana - kumwetulira komwe sikuchokera pa nkhope, ngati grin kapena chimwemwe cha mwana pogula chidole chatsopano. Koma kaŵirikaŵiri munthu wokonda ndi ofesi amakhala ndi khalidwe loletsedwa, makamaka kuyesera kuti azilamulira nthawi zonse.