Kawirikawiri akazi amakhala ndi wokondedwa wawo ndipo zonse ndi zabwino, koma mgwirizano wawo umatchedwa kuti ukwati. Nchifukwa chiyani amuna amakwatira ndi banja? Bwanji osayesa kupita ku ofesi yolembera ndikulembetsa ubale wanu mwalamulo? Kodi amuna amawopa chiyani? M'nkhaniyi, tikambirana zonse zomwe zingayambitse mantha a boma.
Palibe chomangira
Mwamuna yemwe amakhala pabanja, chirichonse chimagwirizana. Amakonda kukwatira ndipo nthawi yomweyo amodzi. Alibe sitampu mu pasipoti, ndiye, kwenikweni, ndi mfulu. Mukhoza kuyang'ana atsikana ena. Ngakhale atatchula mkazi wake wokondedwa, iye sanagwirizane ndi iye udindo uliwonse. Nthawi iliyonse, akhoza kutsekera chitseko, chokani. Iye sayenera kulemedwa ndi njira ngati chisudzulo.
Izi zimachitika kuti amuna ambiri omwe ali muukwati wa boma, a registry office, nayenso, anatenga nthawi yawo. Chifukwa chiyani? Izi zikhoza kufotokozedwa ndi mfundo yakuti sipadzakhalanso ufulu, koma mosiyana, maudindo ena. Ngakhale ali wosakwatiwa, akhoza kugwiritsa ntchito ndalama zomwe amakonda, kugula zomwe amakonda, osati zanachek. Ali ndi malo ambiri omasuka.
Kawirikawiri mu nthawi ya candy-buketny, mkazi amazindikira kuti akufuna kuyanjana ndi munthuyu moyo wawo wambiri. Mwamuna amafunikira zaka zambiri kuti apite kumapeto. Ndipo sizowona kuti amasankha kukwatira kapena ngati sakufuna kudzimanga yekha, ndiye chaka chimodzi, kapena awiri kupita ku ofesi ya registry pamodzi naye sagwira ntchito.
Maganizo a akatswiri a maganizo
Zifukwa zambiri zomwe sizikufuna kukwatira ndi:
- Ngati mnyamatayu anali mboni ya chisudzulo cha makolo ake, zikanakhudza anthu ake. Kwa moyo, iye adzakhala ndi chikhutiro chakuti ukwati wokondwa ndi wokhalitsa sungatheke. Chifukwa chiyani kumanga maubwenzi omwe adzalandidwabe.
- Chimodzimodzinso maganizo omwewo amachitika ndi mwamuna amene kale anali ndi banja losapambana. Palibe yemwe akufuna kuti ayende pamtambo womwewo.
- Amuna ambiri amaopa kusintha kwabwino kwa okondedwa awo, atakhala mkazi womveka. Choncho, ambiri amakonda kusiya izo monga momwe zilili. The Temsam amupatsa mkazi mwayi wosonyeza kuti anali wabwino ngati bwana, mbuye.
- Oimira ena ogonana ndi amuna amphamvu amakhulupirira kuti n'zotheka kulembetsa mgwirizano wokhazikika pokhapokha ngati uli wolimba komanso wolimba. Ndizofuna chuma. Anthu oterewa amasankha kuthana ndi mavuto awo okhaokha, osati pamodzi kuti apambane ndi theka lachiwiri.
- Zambiri zimadalira mtundu wa munthu, ndiko kuti, chilengedwe chake, amene amamuuza. Mwinamwake ali ndi anzake ogwira ntchito, omwe adasankha okha kuti asalowe muukwati wawo. Kwa iwo tanthawuzo la moyo ndi moyo wosangalatsa komanso wamasiye. Misonkhano ndi abwenzi, kuyang'ana mpira, kukhala mu bar, kumwa mowa ndi zina zotero. Ndipo ngati wina atasiya malamulowa, adzakwezedwa kukaseka, koma adzatengedwa kuchoka kumudzi wa anzake.
- Ndipo chifukwa china - munthu ndi wopanduka mkati ndipo sakufuna kukhala ngati wina aliyense, yendani njira yachikhalidwe. Munthu woteroyo adzakhala ndi wokondedwa wake, akhale ndi ana ake ndi kuwaphunzitsa, kulandira, kuwongolera banja limodzi, koma osakwatira kapena ngati akufunsa funso lakuti "Chifukwa chiyani", Iye adzayankha "Chifukwa chiyani"? Ali ndi zifukwa zonse zosadziwika kuti ndi zabwino kuti ife tikhale ndi moyo, chifukwa ichi sitimayo sichifunika mu pasipoti.
Simungapereke malangizo nthawi zonse. Mkazi aliyense akuyembekeza zabwino. Amakhulupirira mu kuya kwake kwa moyo wake kuti pali chiyembekezo cha kukula kwa maubwenzi. Ndipo ngati izo siziri, zingakhale bwino kuyang'ana mozungulira.