Vutoli likuwoneka ngati izi: Mnyamata wanu wokondedwa, nthawi iliyonse yabwino komanso yosasangalatsa, amayesetsa kukugwirani pa bondo, ndipo amachitira pamalo pomwe anthu alili (cafe, square, park). Kapena apa pali vuto lina - amakupsompsani nthawi zonse pamilomo pamaso pa wina aliyense, motero amasonyeza kuti aliyense akumva. Ndipo izi mwachidziwitso mwachikondi zimakhoza kuchitika mwangwiro pa nthawi yosayembekezereka. Ndipo, chofunikira kwambiri, chikupitirira tsiku ndi tsiku. Inde, mumamvanso. Koma khalidwe lake mwachidziwitso limakupangitsani inu kuganizira za zinthu zambiri. Ndipotu, pamene wokondedwayo akuwonetsa chikondi chake padziko lonse, sizidzamveka bwino kwa atsikana ambiri. Mchitidwewu ukhoza kusokoneza chikondi chenicheni mu ubale wanu. Choncho, ngati anyamatawa amasonyeza bwino mmene amamvera, asungwana ambiri sawakonda.
Kotero, nchifukwa chiyani atsikana sakonda pamene mnyamata alibe tsankho ku malo ammudzi. Tiyeni tione zinthu zazikulu zomwe zimakhudza maganizo anu olakwika pa ufulu wake. Choyamba, atsikana ambiri amawopa ndi amanyazi kuti panthawi imeneyi amatha kuwona ndi achibale, anzako kapena akuntchito kuntchito. Ndiye, monga akunena, mafunso osayenera ndi nkhani zokambirana sizingatengedwe. Chachiwiri, asungwana, poyamba, aganizire momwe amaganizira za iwo. Ndipotu, anthu ambiri angakuzindikire, monga kupezeka mosavuta kapena osasunga miyambo yonse ya chikhalidwe cha chikhalidwe. Ndipo, chachitatu, atsikana sakonda kusonyeza ubale wawo ndi anthu ena. Amakhulupirira kuti poteteza maganizo awo kuchokera ku "maso a wina," iwo adzawathandiza. Ndipo nkulondola, pali anthu ambiri omwe amadana ndi nsanje komanso okhumba zoipa. Kuwonjezera pa zonse zomwe tafotokozazi, muzochitika zotere msungwana sangathe kumasuka ndikumvetsetsa zonse "zokoma" kuchokera kumpsomps ndi kumaphatikizana ndi wokondedwa. Ndipo onse chifukwa pambuyo panu pa mphindi yotere, ambirimbiri, kapena ochulukirapo, a anthu akuyang'ana.
Koma, ngakhale ziri zonsezi, ambiri a ife tikupitirizabe kuvutika, pamene mnyamata wokondedwayo amachitira motere. Apa tikuyenera kuzindikira kuti munthu, poona kuti simukupereka ndemanga, akupitirizabe kusonyeza maganizo ake, osasintha machenjerero a khalidwe lake.
Inde, abwenzi anu amkazi amakuuzani za momwe mulili mwayi ndipo chibwenzi chanu chimakukondani kwambiri ndikuchiwonetsa momveka bwino. Ndipotu, malingaliro awo, khalidwe limeneli limasonyeza chilakolako chonse ndi chiyanjano cha ubalewu. Koma zoona zake zonse ndizolakwika. Tiyeni tiyese kupeza chifukwa chake anyamata nthawi zambiri amasonyeza maganizo awo kwa mtsikanayo.
1. Pali amuna amene nthawi zonse amakhala owonetsa moona mtima. Choncho, nthawi zonse amafuna kukopeka ndi anthu ake "owonetsa, akulakalaka zosangalatsa." Kotero amasonyeza malingaliro mwanjira iyi, ngati kuti akugwiritsa ntchito "kakang'ono" kake.
2. Braggart wanu wosankhidwa, ndikuwombera tidbit (ndikukutanthauza inu), kuyesera kusonyeza aliyense zomwe msungwana wake wokongola ndizochita naye. Mwa njira, chifukwa ichi chiyenera kukhala chokoma mtima kwa inu.
3. Theka lanu lachiwiri ndi munthu woopsa. Amaganizira zinthu zosayenera zomwe zimayambitsa adrenaline. Ndicho chifukwa chake amachitira zinthu m'malo amodzi, akuyesera kupeza ndemanga za wina kapena zonena zake. Mnyamata wanu amayesetsa kuti adziwitse mitsempha yake, atalandira chenjezo lodzudzula kuchokera kunja. Amangotenga zowopsya ndipo, chifukwa cha izi, akukumana ndi chiwerengero cha khalidwe lake lochititsa mantha. Komanso, wokondedwa wanu amachokera kwa anthu ambiri ndipo amanyadira kwambiri.
4. Munthu wanu wochepa kwambiri alibe mphamvu zodziletsa yekha ndi zilakolako zake, zomwe zimamugwedeza ndikumangokhalira kumuchotsa ndi fungulo. Choncho, sangakwanitse (ndipo safuna kutero) dikirani nthawi yomwe mudzakhalebe tete-a-tet ndipo palibe amene angakulepheretseni. Kulimbikitsidwa ndi kukhudzika, osadziwa kuti, mnyamata wanu "amangokudyetsani", pomwe sakuzindikira konse maonekedwe akukwiya a anthu odutsa.
5. Iye amayendera ndi kumverera kwachisangalalo kuchokera ku kuti banja lanu silili ngati wina aliyense. Apa mfundo yonse ndi yakuti mwa kusonyeza ufulu wanu kumalo ammudzi mumayang'ana momveka bwino kumbuyo kwa okondedwa ena ndipo, motero, yesani.
Pano iwo ali_zifukwa zazikulu zomwe zimamupangitsa mnyamata wanu kutero. Mwa njira, mvetserani kuti zonsezi zifukwa zisanu siziyankhula konse za kuti wosankhidwa wanu ali ndi chikondi cholimba kwa inu kapena simusamala za iye konse. Choncho, kuti muzimenya mabelu onse ndikufuula kumanzere ndi kumanja kuti inu ndi iye muli ndi mavuto, sikuli koyenera. Mwa njira iyi, amasonyeza tsankho komanso zovuta zake. Kawirikawiri mnyamatayo amasonyeza maganizo ake chifukwa chawonetsero, ngati ali ndi chidaliro mwa iyemwini. Chifukwa chake, chifukwa cha chikhalidwe chododometsa, amayesera kuti adziyese yekha. Mchitidwe wamtundu uwu ukhoza kupitilira ngati mwamuna sakukula m'maganizo. Ndipo ngakhale izi sizinachitike kwa iye, iye adzakhalabe wodzikonda ndi wopasuka, amene amafunika kusamala nthawi zonse, wachikondi ndi chikondi, komanso panthawi yomweyi ndi malo.
Ngati mukuda nkhawa kwambiri ndi vutoli, kumbukirani kuti anthu onse akhoza kuthana ndi kulera. Choncho, nthawi zonse mungayese kuphunzitsa wokondedwa wanu khalidwe labwino komanso lodzichepetsa komanso luso loti nthawi zonse muziganizira maganizo a ena. Ingolankhulani naye mwachindunji ndikuuza zomwe mumamvadi panthawi imeneyo. Makamaka pamene muyenera kuyang'ana pamaso pa anthu omwe posachedwapa ayang'ana chiyambi chanu ndi kukupsompsona, mwachitsanzo, paki pa benchi. Ndipo ngati akukukondani, ndithudi adzaleka kuchita izi.