Momwe mungakwaniritsire mnyamata, ngati akufuna kukhala mabwenzi basi

Inde, iye adzakutsatirani mpaka kumalekezero a dziko lapansi, koma inu mukusowa pang'ono, chifukwa chochita ichi chidzapanga zolinga zabwino. Mwa kuyankhula kwina, iye akufuna kuti akhale bwenzi lako basi, koma osati wokondedwa. Chimene sichiyenera kunena, ndipo chikhumbo chirichonse cha ubale wapamtima nthawi zina chimangoyenda kumbuyo pamene zimakhudza kumverera. Ndicho chifukwa chake funso loti munthu angakwaniritse bwanji mnyamata, ngati akufuna kukhala mabwenzi chabe, atha kukhala patsogolo ndipo amakhala chinthu chachikulu chomwe chimatsogolere kuchitapo kanthu kuti apambane mtima wake. Koma zochita zopanda nzeru zingapangitse zotsatira zoipa: palibe mnzanu, kapena wokondedwa. Ndicho chifukwa chake nthawi zonse ndiyenera kukumbukira kuti kulikonse komweko kumayenera kukhala zizoloƔezi ndi zinthu zomwe sizingatheke. Makamaka ngati zikukhudza kugonjetsedwa kwa munthu.

Timapereka chidwi.

Amakupatsani inu ubwenzi wokhawokha ndipo izi ndizo "kuphatikiza", chifukwa muli nthawi yomwe mumadziwira bwino, mumatha kumukonda monga munthu. Ndipo ichi, ndikukhulupirira ine, amatanthauza zambiri. Mumamukonda monga munthu komanso, monga mnzanu. Tsopano tiyeni tiyankhe funso la momwe tingapezere munthu ngati akufuna kukhala mabwenzi chabe? Mwa njira, izi zingatheke mosavuta. Malingana ndi ubwenzi wanu, yesetsani kuti mutsegule nokha momwe mungathere, ndikuganizira makhalidwe anu onse abwino. Muzimasuka kutiuza ife za zozizwitsa, zokonda zanu, mabuku omwe mumawakonda, mafilimu omwe mwamuwonera ndi zina zotero. Pezani nkhani zambiri zomwe zingatheke ndi munthu uyu. Mwa njira, ndibwino kwambiri ngati mumapeza ndi mnzanu watsopano zinthu zambiri zomwe mumakonda nazo ndi zokonda zomwe mungaphunzire ndi kuzigawana mu gawo limodzi kapena kupambana kwanu palimodzi. Musaiwale kusonyeza kuti ndinu munthu wodalirika kwambiri ndipo simungavutike nazo. Dziwani kuti anyamata amakonda atsikana awa. M'mawu ake, pokhala ndi chidwi naye ngati bwenzi, musayimire pamenepo, koma pitirizani, mukukondweretsa mnyamatayo kale ngati msungwana. Ayenera kuwona mwa inu zonse zomwe malingaliro anu angadzutse maganizo mwa iye. Komanso, kukhala ndi ubwenzi wabwino ndi chinthu chomwe mumapembedza, mumatha kupeza malingaliro ake momveka bwino ndi zomwe amalingalira komanso atsikana omwe amakonda kwambiri. Pano muli ndi "makadi onse". Chifukwa cha ichi, mudzatha kusintha mtundu wa fano lake la msungwana wabwino ndikukwaniritsa malo apadera. Komabe, musaiwale kuti ndinu abwenzi, chifukwa chake sakufunikira kudziwa za "pulani yanu".

Timasamalira.

Tonsefe timadziwa bwino kuti ubwenzi ndi chisamaliro cha anzanu pa wina ndi mnzake. Ndicho chifukwa chake musaphonye mwayi wanu kachiwiri kuti mumuthandize munthuyo mu mavuto ake (ndi ntchito, kuphunzira, kunyumba). Izi sizimayambitsa kukayikira kwina kulikonse, koma ndithudi kudzakweza udindo wanu pamaso pake. Koma, ndithudi, musaiwale za malangizo abwino.

Zosangalatsa.

Yesetsani kudabwa ndi mnyamata nthawi zonse. Khalani munthu wogwira ntchito, musakhale waulesi kuti mubwere ndi mapulani osiyanasiyana a sabata. Yolinganizidwa ndi kuti abwenzi ndi anthu omwe angathe kukomana ndi kusangalala nthawi iliyonse, ndipo kukhala pamodzi, ngakhale pokhala abwenzi, ndi zomwe mukusowa. Ganizirani za nthawi yomwe mumagwiritsa ntchito kuti zonse zomwe mukuchita zikuthandizeni kuti muyandikire. Mwa njira, ngati inu nonse munakhala anthu achangu omwe amanyalanyaza kwambiri, bwanji simukudumpha mobwerezabwereza ndi parachute, chifukwa zinthu zing'onozing'ono zoterezi zimakhala ndi "ndondomeko ya chikondi" ndipo zimabweretsa anthu pamodzi.

Timakopeka.

Zomwe sizingatheke kuti amai aziwonekerana kungathandize kukwaniritsa chikhalidwe cha amuna. Kotero, musaiwale za prank ya mayi wamng'onoyo ndi wochenjera. Kumbukirani kuti sizothandiza "peregibat stick." Mudalonjeza kuti mukhale abwenzi, kotero palibe zizindikiro zogonana zomwe ziyenera kuchitika. Koma kachiwiri kukukumbutsani kuti ndiwe msungwana wokongola, ndithudi ndiwotheka. Chitani ndi maso anu, manja. Kwa omwe, popeza simukudziwa zofooka zomwe mnyamata angathe kukhala nazo komanso chifukwa chake sangathe kukana.

Timasonyeza.

Musaiwale nthawi zina, ngati mutsimikiza kuti sikumapweteka, muwonetseni mnyamata amene akutanthauza zambiri kuposa inu. Anam'tamanda, akugogomezera makhalidwe ake abwino. Kutamandidwa kotero ndi kumvetsera kwa munthu wawo kumanyengerera kwambiri kwa amuna ndipo amayamba kuyamikira mkazi yemwe ali momasuka komanso ndi mtima wake wonse akhoza kumuuza kuti ndiwe wabwino kwambiri ...

Kufufuza.

Kufuula mokweza komanso ngati ngati mukudandaula, ganizirani za mutu ngati muli banja. Tayang'anani zomwe anachita, ngati ziri zoipa, zitsimikizirani kuti kunangokhalako nthabwala, zabwino - kusiya mutuwo wotseguka kuti mutha kubwerera kwa iwo nthawi iliyonse. Komanso, musaleke kulankhula ndi anyamata ena. Nthawi zina mumatha kukamba za mnzanuyo. Ndikhulupirire, munthu aliyense ali ndi moyo wa mwiniwakeyo ndipo safuna kuti azikhala naye pachibwenzi, komanso abwenzi ake amamudziwa chifukwa chomuganizira yekha. Kuwonjezera pa izi, osachepera sikuti ndinu wamkulu, komabe mukhoza kuyambitsa nsanje kuchokera kumbali yake. Mwa njira, chifukwa cha izi, mnzanuyo angaganizire mozama maganizo ake kwa inu ndipo amasiya kufuna kukhala abwenzi, kukulowetsani mumtima mwake monga wokondedwa wake.

Kuchokera pa ubwenzi ndi chikondi ...

Ndipo potsiriza, ngati mukufunadi kupeza mnyamata yemwe samakuwonani mwa wina aliyense koma ngati bwenzi, khalani pa ubwenzi umenewu popanda kuganiza ndi kumukonda. Chitani ngakhale ngati simukuwona mwayi uliwonse wa tsogolo lanu lamodzi. Kumbukirani, ngati akufuna kukhala anzanu okha, ndipo izi ndizo zoyamba kumtima kwake ndipo akudziwitsani kale ku buku lake lotchedwa "moyo." Panthawiyi iye adzakhala ndi nthawi yokhala ndi chibwenzi ndi inu, kukudziwani bwino komanso nthawi yochuluka, sizingatchulidwe kuti adzakondana. Kumbukirani kuti "Moscow sanakhazikitse mwamsanga!". Ndichifukwa chake, nthawi zina ubwenzi weniweni ukhoza kukhala chiyambi cha chinthu china chotchedwa "Chikondi"!