Mwachizoloŵezi, vutoli lidziwike mwachidule: "Mwamuna wakhala wosasunthika" (ngati muli mkazi) kapena "tsopano ndikudandaula" (ngati muli mwamuna). Izi zikhoza kuchitika kwa munthu aliyense, mosasamala kuti ali ndi chikhutiro chotani ndi moyo kapena kukhala ndi banja lachikondi ndi ntchito. Njira zothandizira zimasiyana, mankhwala ali payekha. Komabe, tiyeni tiyese kupanga dongosolo lochiritsira.
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Ambiri ali ndi amuna. Wokongola kwambiri, wogwira ntchito molimbika, osati wokondedwa kwambiri komanso ndi zofooka zawo: kawirikawiri, monga "adakulumikizira" muunyamata wawo ndipo amakokera pansi pa msana. Mumakhala nawo chaka chimodzi kapena ziwiri kapena khumi ndikudzidzimutsa kuti pakufika pa zaka 40, iye wasintha kutali ndi zabwino. Poyamba, anali ndi udindo ndi kuyesetsa, ndipo tsopano akuvutika maganizo , akugwa pa sofa pambuyo pake, amayamba kudandaula za moyo wake ndi kuyesa kutsutsa ulemu wa kugonana komweku. Chifukwa cha kusangalala maganizo kumatengedwa kutopa, nthawi zina amamuuza kuti amusiye yekha kapena akufuula ana ndi inu.
Komabe, izi sizipitirira nthawi zonse. Mukangometa misonzi yanu, mukanong'oneza kuti muwafunse amayi anu pa foni ngati sakubweretsamo chipinda chanu m'nyumba yaunyamata, mugone, monga mwamuna akudumpha mokondwera ndi mphamvu. Iye ndi wokondwa, wokhutira ndi wodzaza mapulani akuluakulu: kukhala woyang'anira banki, kumanga dacha, kutsegula Galaxy yatsopano ndikupita ku zisudzo ndi ana. Inu, ndithudi, mukondwere: "Zonse, zidapititsa kuvutika maganizo!" Koma ayi, tsiku lotsatira mudzapezanso amayi omwe ali osauka podula pa bedi ndi malingaliro a kuwonongeka kwa kukhalapo. Chifukwa psyche yake imakhala yosasintha.
Ndipo amuna ovuta nthawizonse amavutika . Ichi ndi chimodzi mwa zizindikiro zazikulu za mavuto pakati pa amuna. Pa nthawi yomweyi, ma paws amamveka ndipo mchira umangogwera m'maganizo ake. "Pangani ziwalo - makamaka, nyamakazi; mutu umapweteka pang'ono-posachedwa kupweteka; Mtima wanga umagunda mwamphamvu - imfa yanga imayambitsa matenda a myocardial infarction, "mwamuna wanu akhoza kunena. Ndipo amapita kwa madokotala, akuyang'ana pakhomo la Malakhov ndikugula mavitamini mumitsuko yonyezimira. Kuwona khalidwe lomwelo la mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu, mopanda kukokomeza, munganene kuti wathanzi ngati ng'ombe ikudulidwa, kuopa kukalamba.
Kuonjezera apo, chifukwa chakuti ali ndi zaka 30 amuna ambiri salinso achichepere, amayamba kuwoneka achichepere . Choncho, ngati tsiku lina mumamvetsa kuti mkaziyo akuyeretsa tsitsi, adagula galimoto yofiira, atsegula makutu a golide m'makutu anu, mungathe kunena "hello!" Pakatikatikati mwa moyo. Amuna omwe ali achichepere amakhalanso akutsutsana kwambiri. Amakonda kunena momwe iwo anali okongola ndi anzeru pamene anali aang'ono, komanso kuti asonyeze ludzu la moyo, zomwe si zachilendo kwa zaka zawo - mwachitsanzo, wokonza nyumba akugwedezeka, zakumwa zakumwa ndi abwenzi pakhomo, ndipo mwamuna wamodzi ndi wodzichepetsa amatsata mlembi wa bwana.
Zoonadi, chimodzi mwa ziwonetsero zowawa kwambiri pakati pa zaka za pakati pa zaka ndi amuna ndizo kuti amuna ovuta amayamba kusakhulupirika . Monga akunena, pali vuto lililonse kwa mkazi aliyense, komabe simudzadya chotupa chimodzi, komabe, ganizirani zovuta za amuna ndikuyamba "kulowetsa" zoumba ndi kilogalamu. Pambuyo pa zonse, ndithudi, ngati ndinu wamng'ono, ndiye mwamsanga pa chilichonse: yesani zovala, nyumba, galimoto ndi mkazi. Ndipo komabe, izi ndi zonyansa, mkazi amadziwa kuti "sali kutali kwambiri komwe adaliko kale", pomwe aang'ono, osadziŵa nzeru komanso zovala zina, amamupeza atagwira ntchito. Mwamwayi, kuyesa kwa mwamuna kuyesetsa kukonza njira zowononga zoposa banja limodzi.