Magazini ambiri a amayi amapereka malangizo a momwe mungakhalire kuti musunge munthu wanu. Amayesa kukondweretsa mwamuna mwa onse, ndi maonekedwe ndi zophikira, komanso mu zochitika zake. Amaphunzira Kama Sutra, amaphunzira maphikidwe ambiri, amadya zakudya, mwachidwi amapita ku chipinda chamagetsi, komanso ku salons okongola. Ndipo zonsezi kuti mukondweretse okondedwa anu, kuti mukhale ake nthawi zonse yabwino komanso yokha. Mzimayi amapita kuzinthu zambiri kuti athe kuzindikira kuti sangathe kukhala ndi mwamuna wake, sakufuna, amamuvutitsa.
Ndipo mwadzidzidzi amadziwa kuti mkazi amene amamukonda amamusiya mwadzidzidzi. Iye amene adachita zonse kwa iye, anakhululukira zamwano zake zonse ndikumumvera kwathunthu! Kuchokera kwa iye, wabwino, wokoma mtima, kubweretsa nyumba malipiro, mowa komanso osasuta!
Chifukwa cha zomwe mkazi angachoke kwa mwamuna? Kumene mungayang'anire chifukwa chomwe akazi amadandaula ndi amuna komanso momwe angamvetsetse izi? Nchifukwa chiyani akufuna kupita kwinakwake kumanzere? Kodi oimira zachiwerewere ndi choonadi ndi osakhazikika?
Choyamba, mkazi amene ali mmavuto amenewa ndi mbali imodzi yokhala ndi mlandu. Ndipo, ngati munthuyo amadziwa za izo, mwinamwake akhoza kuthetsa vuto ngati kusakhulupirika kapena kuchotsedwa kwa mkazi wake.
Pambuyo pake, amuna amalingalira kuti anamkwatira, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti tsopano akuyenera kuchita zonse zomwe amamuuza kapena kufunsa, komanso za ntchito zapakhomo, ndiye kuti zonsezi ziyenera kuchitidwa ndi iye, chifukwa si ntchito ya munthu kupuma kapena mbale Sambani. Pambuyo pa zonse, amabweretsa ndalama kwa banja, ndiye mwiniwake. Ndipo mfundo yoti mkazi wake amagwira ntchito nayenso, amabwera kunyumba atatopa mochepa kuposa iye ... koma ndani amasamala? Mkazi uyu ayenera kusamalira ndi kugwira ntchito komanso kunyumba kuti achite zonse, kuti agwirizane ndi iwo komanso ana. Ndipo izi zanyalanyazidwa! Ndipo iye akhoza tsopano kumasuka, chifukwa mkazi wake wagonjetsedwa, pali ntchito, ndipo iwe ukhoza kupuma. Amatha kukweza mimba, kuyenda mozungulira nyumba ndi fungo kapena kununkhira kwambiri ndi fodya kapena thukuta, penyani mpira panthawi imene mkazi wake amayesa kumunyengerera, ndi zina zotero.
Ndipo ndi momwe masiku, masabata, miyezi, ndi zaka zikudutsa. Nthawi zonse amayembekeza kuti zonsezi zidutsa, kuti potsiriza adzafuna kupita naye kwinakwake ndi kukondana kuti adye madzulo, kuti nthawi zina adzati "zikomo" chifukwa cha chakudya chamadzulo, kutsukidwa ndi kuchapa zovala, chifukwa cha chikondi ndi chikondi. Amalekerera madzulo ake mowa ndi mabwenzi omwe nthawi zonse amafuula "cholinga!", Ngakhale mwanayo atagona kale. Iye amavomereza kuti amamuona kuti ndi wopusa kuposa iye mwini. Ndipo samamulola kuti aziyankhulana ndi anthu omwe akufuna, ndi kuvala zinthu zomwe amakonda. Mayi ndi wodwala, ali wokonzeka kunyamula zinthu zambiri pa mapewa ake osalimba. Kwa nthawiyo.
Panthawi ina, kusintha kwake kudzabwera pamene iye sangathe kupirira zonsezi, adzakhala ndi kulimba mtima, ndipo sadzaganizira kwambiri zotsatira za zochita zake. Ingopitani ndipo ndizo. Amayi ambiri, amayesera kupulumutsa banja, koma izi zidzakhala ngati ukwati wokhazikika, popanda chikondi, chikondi ndi chikondi.
Mzimayi amayamba kuda nkhawa kuti akhale pulogalamu yaulere ya munthu wake kumoyo wake wamtengo wapatali. Iye sakufuna kukhala pulogalamu ya chakudya, watopa ndi kuchita ngati chidole cha raba, pillow, mipando, kapena chinachake chimene chimamulola mwamuna wake kuti akhale womasuka. Ndipo tsiku lirilonse ndi usiku uliwonse mu mtima ndi moyo wake, chilakolako chotsimikizira kwa aliyense kuti ndinu munthu wamoyo chikukula mochuluka. Kuti mumakhalenso ndi malingaliro, malingaliro, maloto ndi zofuna. Kodi muli ndi dziko lapansi lamkati, losangalatsa komanso lamtundu wanji? Kapena mwinamwake muli ndi luso lomwe nthawi zonse mumalankhula mawu anu opusa monga: "Simumayimba koma mumagwira ntchito" kapena "Amayi anu amavina bwino kuposa inu", "Musayese, simungapeze", ndi zina zotero, e. Ndipo amachita izo kuti akhale ndi mphamvu pa inu osati kukuponyani inu ndi ntchito zanu pamene mukukulitsa talente yanu. Ndipo iye watopa ndi mwamuna wake yemwe safuna kumumva, samangokambirana naye mozama. Pambuyo pake, iye sawona kanthu ndipo palibe wina m'banja, kupatula yekha ndi zosowa zake.
Mwamuna amayenera kuyamikira mkazi wake chifukwa cha zomwe amamuchitira. Ngakhale zikuwoneka kuti iwo ndi opusa kumuthokoza chifukwa cha zomwe ayenera kuchita, kodi ntchito yake yeniyeni ndi iti? Mwachitsanzo, pazitsamba zatsuka, masokso otsukidwa, nyumba yoyeretsedwa ndi zina zonse zomwe amamuchitira iye ndi mabanja awo. Pambuyo pake, zikuwoneka kuti ndizovuta kuti anthu asangalale nazo, chifukwa chake samanena mawu oyamikira kwa akazi awo. Ndiyeno iwo adakali odabwa kuti akazi awo atopa ndi kukhala antchito, ndi antchito, monga amadziwira kulipirira.
Munthu akamasiya kukula kwake, amayamba kukayikira, osamvetsetsa, akukangana komanso amakangana. Iye sangayankhe momveka bwino mafunso ambiri, mu kulephera kwake kumayambitsa mlandu aliyense, kupatula iye mwini. Amayamba kuyang'ana ma TV, kumwa mowa patsogolo pa TV, kusungunula ndi kusonkhanitsa miseche, adzakhala amodzi pa malo olaula. Amasiya kugwira nawo mawonekedwe ake, ndipo amakhulupirira kuti mapepala ake akale, omwe amatha kupangidwira amatha kukupangitsani kugonana, komanso zala zake zomwe zimakhala ngati fodya, mumangofuna kumva pamilomo yanu.
Iye safuna kuchita chirichonse ngati izi sizikukhutiritsa zokondweretsa zake, zosangalatsa zake ndi zofuna zake. Amangochita ndi umunthu wake, palibe wina wofunikira kwa iye. Kenaka, pamene mkaziyu akunyansidwa ndi chirichonse, sangamulepheretse kudzikonda yekha, kumudetsa nkhawa ndikumukonda. Amangomusiya, mwina kwa mwamuna yemwe amamuwona ngati mkazi, ndipo amamukonda ndi kumukonda. Ndipo kuti ndikhale moyo osati kwa ine ndekha, komanso kwa mkazi wokondedwa wanu.
Mwinanso, palinso zifukwa zambiri zomwe zingatheke kuti mwamuna azisokonezeka ndi mkazi. Koma, ndikuganiza kuti mbali zazikulu za funso la kumvetsetsa: mtsikanayo atatopa ndi mwamuna wake, ndinatsegula. Ndikukhulupirira kuti podziwa mayankho osavuta mukhoza kuganizira momwe mungasungire mkazi wanu. Ndipo sachita mantha.