STEPI 1: Kukonzekera
Choyamba, sikupweteka kupanga mndandanda wa onse omwe mukufuna kuti musangalale. Poganizira za munthu uyu, kumbukirani ndi kulemba mbali zina za khalidwe lake, ntchito, ntchito, zokondweretsa. Mawu ochepa awa adzakuthandizani kuti mufufuze ndikuthandizani kupanga mphatsoyo yomwe ingakhudze icho.
Musaiwale kuti oimira chigawo cholimba cha umunthu samangokhala anzeru, otsimikizika, okhumba kwambiri komanso olakalaka, komanso anthu omwe amawakonda kwambiri. Munthu wamakono salinso wankhondo kapena wosaka, koma munthu wopambana ndi chisangalalo ndi chisangalalo. Ndipo iye sadzakondwera osati ndi mphatso yokhayo, komanso momwe idzafotokozere. Amuna enieni samachita manyazi kulandira mphatso kuchokera kwa mkazi. Mzimayi weniweni nthawi zonse amasangalala kuwapatsa.
GAWO 2: Zogula
Mphatso ndizovomerezeka, zomwe timapereka kwa antchito, akuluakulu ndi omwe amadziwika kuti ndizochita mwambo wina, komanso zomwe timapereka kwa achibale athu ndi okondedwa athu. Zitha kugawidwa m'magulu angapo: zothandiza, zophiphiritsira ndi zokumbutsa.
Mphatso zothandiza ndi zinthu zomwe zingagwirizane ndi munthu aliyense kuti azigwiritsidwa ntchito panyumba, m'moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku kapena kuntchito. Choncho, zipangizo zosiyanasiyana za fano ndi njira yosamalira mawonekedwe ndi chizindikiro cha udindo wa munthu wamalonda ndikuwonetsa kuyamikira kwanu makhalidwe, ntchito, udindo wake. Ndi singano atavala, ovekedwa - mwamuna weniweni wotere amalemekeza ena.
Ngati mupereka zinthu zogwirira ntchito panyumbayo, zimasonyeza munthuyo kuti mumalemekeza njira yake ya moyo kapena mukufuna kuthandiza kuti nyumbayo ikhale yosangalatsa. Zinthu zokhudzana ndi chizoloŵezi cha munthu (tikukamba za oyendetsa galimoto, asodzi, oyendayenda) adzalandiridwa mokondwera, chifukwa sikuti ndizofunikira, komanso amasonyeza chifundo ndi kuthandizira pazochita zake zodzikongoletsera. Musati muyiwale kuti ngakhale munthu wothandiza kwambiri sangayembekezere kukondwera ndi masokosi, nsalu, mugugu, ndudu. Mu mtima wa chirichonse - chikondi ndi kuyembekezera holide, chozizwitsa, chiwonetsero cha chikondi. Ndipo izi zonse zimaphatikizapo mphatso zeniyeni, osati maganizo enieni.
Ngati simunapeze chilichonse choyenera kuchokera m'gululi, ndiye kuti musagonjetsedwe ndi zomwe mukuganizazo: onetsani nkhani zanu nokha kapena zithunzi, mukonzekere kapena muwerenge kuwerenga, kapu kapena ndondomeko yoyenera pamoyo wanu pamodzi kapena mu ntchito yake . Zinthu zotero kwa amuna enieni ndizofunikira kwambiri kuposa omwe adagulidwa mu sitolo - amanena kuti mayiyo adayandikira njira yosankhira mphatso. Ndipotu, mtengo ndi wamtengo wapatali kwa mwamuna yemwe amamuuza zomwe amachita. Kusankha mphatsoyo ndi tanthawuzo, ganizirani zomwe mukufunadi munthu amene adzalandire. Kawirikawiri, gulu ili limaphatikizapo mafano ndi mafano, omwe ali ndi tanthauzo losabisika. Amaimira mwayi, chimwemwe, chikondi, ubwenzi, kuchuluka, kukhazikika. Mwachitsanzo, mafanizo a chikopa, chikopa chimakhazikitsa nzeru, zolemera - chilungamo. Mpaka pano, mphatso ndi kupitiriza ubale wanu ndi mlatho m'tsogolomu, yesetsani kuiwala za izo. Ndiponsotu, ziribe kanthu kuti mphatso yamtengo wapatali yotchulidwa muzinthu zakuthupi, mu ubale waumwini, kukumbukira nthawi yabwino yokhala pamodzi ndi yothandiza kwambiri. Choncho, monga maulendo, ulendo wopita kumapeto kwa mlungu, kugwira nsomba kapena kudutsa m'mapiri a ku Crimea ukhoza kuchitika.
STEPI 3: Zakudya zabwino
Kwa munthu weniweni, zimakhudza amene adapereka mphatsoyo ndi momwe adachitira. Ngati mumagula ngakhale chinthu chofunika kwambiri, koma mutengeke poyamika, muiwale kunena mawu ochepa ofooketsa kapena kupsompsona (ngati chikhalidwe ndi chilolezo cha chiyanjano), ndiye zotsatira zake sizingakhale zomwe inu mukuyembekeza. Ndikofunika kupereka mphatso payekha - kuchokera m'manja ndi manja, osasamutsidwa ndi thandizo la wina. Ikani izo mwakamodzi, kuwoloka kumalo kwa chipindacho. Pankhaniyi, nenani pang'ono, koma moona mtima muthokoza.
Chimodzimodzi pa chandamale
Pali mwambo wa tsiku ndi tsiku wofala kwa anthu onse. Ndipo iye ndi mmodzi mwa ofunika kwambiri. Gwirizanitsani, chifukwa pamene m'mawa akuyamba, kotero tsiku lidzadutsa, mwatchutchutchu, ngati mthunzi, ndipo adzamva. Pamene nkhope ikuwoneka yathanzi komanso yokonzekera bwino chifukwa cha zodzoladzola bwino, mwamunayo sakuvutika, kudzidalira kwake kumawonjezeka kwambiri. Choncho, mankhwala apamwamba musanameta ndevu kuchokera m'manja mwa mkazi wokondedwa adzakhala amtheradi weniweni kwa amuna. Adza "kulankhula" ponena kuti mulibe chidwi ndi zanu zokha, komanso maonekedwe ake! Ndipo mbali inayo, ndi ndani ati adzasamalire mwamuna, ngati si ife, akazi?
Dziike wekha mu nsapato za wokondedwa wako ndikuganiza zomwe kumeta ndekha - tsamba kumaso kwako! Kwa nthawi yaitali izi zimachitika kapena mwamsanga, koma panthawiyi khungu la munthu limavulazidwa, kuchepa kwakung'ono kumachitika, ndipo kumapsa. Chifukwa cha zinthu izi, zinthu zambiri zothandizira khungu zimapangidwa. Ngati mumalankhula momveka bwino, simungakhoze kuchita popanda gel osakaniza khungu. Amachepetsa mapesi, amapereka tsambalo mosavuta pakhungu, amaletsa kudulidwa ndi kukhumudwa.
M'nyengo yozizira, khungu limawonekera ku zotsatira zovulaza za chilengedwe: chisanu ndi zotentha zimakhala zouma kwambiri. Ndipo ngati khungu limanyowa madzulo onse ndipo m'mawa, pamene kumetedwa kumachotsedwa, ndiye kuti adzamva chitonthozo. Wothandizira kwambiri pa izi ndi khungu lokometsetsa khungu, lomwe limachotsa nthawi yowuma, kutentha kwambiri. Mphatso iyi ili ndi zotsatira ziwiri. Munthu wabwino amayesetsa kulemekeza ena: amakupatsani chidaliro, ndipo inu-kumadzikuza pa iye. Musaiwale, kupatsa munthu wanu weniweni mphatso yeniyeni, kumpsompsona pamasaya atsopano.