Zonse zimadalira, pamlingo waukulu, kokha pa khalidwe lanu komanso momwe ubale wanu uliri. Ndipo kawirikawiri maitanidwe ndi mauthenga ndi ofanana mofanana ndi mphamvu ya malingaliro anu. Ndikutanthauza chiyani? Anthu okhawo amene amakondana wina ndi mnzake amakhulupirira wina ndi mnzake. Ndipo musayitane maminiti khumi ndi anayi kuti mufufuze zinthu zowonongeka, kuti pambuyo pake mu mitima yanu mufuule: "Wosalidwa", osamvetsetsa kumapeto kwa foni. Koma izi sizikutanthauza kuti anthu achikondi samaitana konse. Amangochita izi mosasamala, ndi chisamaliro chenicheni ndi chisangalalo, ndipo izi zimawapatsa chimwemwe chokha. Mafoni onse akufuna kupitiriza kwamuyaya, ndipo kuchokera ku uthenga uliwonse m'mitumbo, magazi amatha.
Koma ngati ubale wanu sunayambepo panthawi iyi, ndipo mukuzunzidwa ndi funsoli: kodi muyenera kudzikumbutsa kangati za mnyamata?, Kenako ganizirani za khalidwe lanu. Ndi zophweka kwambiri: ngati ndinu "moto wazimayi", wokonda, wotentha komanso wansanje - ndiye kuti mumayenera kudzisunga nokha. Popeza chikhalidwe cha chilengedwe chidzakukakamizani nthawi zonse kuti muimbire foni, phunzirani, funsani, mudziwe. Akazi oterewa amakonda kulankhula zambiri, motalika komanso mokweza, amayesetsa kusunga zochitika zonse ndi zochitika zomwe zimachitika mwa mwamuna wake. Mwachimodzimodzinso, iye amayeseranso kupeza yemwe chibwenzi chake amathera nthawi, makamaka iye amasangalatsidwa ndi chiwerewere. Zomwe, zenizeni, sizodabwitsa, koma kwa munthu - zosakhutira kwambiri ndi zokhumudwitsa m'malo.
Msungwana wansanje ndi wachisoni ayenera kudziletsa yekha kufunafuna mauthenga a mauthenga ndi kuyitana, chifukwa zochuluka zodzikumbutsa za mnyamata ziri zopanda pake. Makamaka ngati chibwenzi chikuyamba kukula. Kawirikawiri simungathe kuika malire osiyana siyana pa mayitanidwe ndi makalata, koma mkazi wansanje ayenera kuyamba ndi izi. Muwerengeni kangati tsiku ndi tsiku mumamutcha munthu wanu? Ndipo molimba mtima kudula nambala iyi ngakhale theka. Choyamba, poyamba zidzakhala zovuta kwambiri, chifukwa inu mumakonda kufotokoza chidwi chanu ndi chisamaliro mwanjira iyi. Komabe, ganizirani za momwe mwamuna wanu amamvera pamene maminiti khumi ndi asanu foni yake ikuyitana podnadoevshy mwadongosolo ndipo chinsaluchi chikuwonetsanso dzina lanu. Ayi, mumamupatsa chimwemwe ndi chimwemwe, komabe, muyese kuchuluka kwa chisangalalo chimenechi! Ndipo musamulole kuti achite zambiri, koma ndibwino kusamutsa zonse zomwe mukufuna kumuuza pa foni, m'moyo. Izi nthawi zambiri zimakhala zosangalatsa kwambiri, mumavomereza! Kuphatikiza apo, kuphatikiza pa ubwino waukulu womwe umakupatsani kuyankhulana kwabwino, palinso mwayi wina wa zokambirana: mukhoza kusamala zomwe mnyamata wanu amachita. Pa mawu achikondi, pamaganizo osavuta, komanso pa nkhani za moyo. Koma pa foni kuti mumvetse - momwe zimakhudzira ndi izi kapena zomwe zimamveka, ndizovuta kwambiri. Taganizirani izi nthawi iliyonse mukatenga foni. Tsopano inu mumuwuze iye nkhani yotsatira, iye_kapena adzakondwera kapena ayi, koma inu simudzaziwona izo. Ndipo potero muzidzipatula nokha mwayi woti mumvetsetse: kodi iye anachita chiyani pa nkhaniyi. Pamene mutha kuyembekezera - ndipo madzulo, mu chibwenzi, muyankhulane naye maso ndi maso, muyang'ane zomwe zimachitika. Izi ndi zofunika kwambiri pamene mukufuna kunena chinachake ... chofunika, chowona mtima.
Chithandizo china chimabwera ndi kanema kochititsa chidwi momwe amuna amalankhulira pa foni ndi atsikana omwe akuyesera kunena chirichonse komanso zambiri. Kumbukirani momwe mzerewu ulili ndi yankho lachilendo la amuna "Eya, eya, eya" idaperekedwa kuchokera m'manja ndi manja pamene mwini wake weniweni anapita kukadzipanga yekha sangweji? Tangoganizirani kuti izi ndizochitika pafupipafupi komanso nthawi zambiri. Izi zidzakulepheretsani kusaka kwambiri, kukumbutsani mnyamatayo za inu nokha.
Koma palinso mtundu wina wa atsikana - makina osiyana. Atsikana oterewa samadzimva chisoni tsiku lonse. Kawirikawiri anyamata amatenga chifukwa cha kusowa kwa malingaliro, kutentha koteroko ndi kusokonezeka. Komabe, simukusowa kukhala osiyana kwambiri. Mwina, kwinakwake mu moyo wake, msungwana uyu amadziwa kuopsa kovuta ndipo amangoopa kukuvutitsani?
Ngati mwadzionera nokha kuti mnyamata wanu nthawi zambiri amachitira mwano ndi mkwiyo: chifukwa chiyani simunamuitane pambuyo pa msonkhano wake wapadera kapena chifukwa chiyani simunamufunse za vuto lake pamene adagona kunyumba ndi chimfine, ali makamaka ku gulu lachiwiri la atsikana. Izi ndizo kwa iwo amene amafunikira nthawi zambiri kunyamula foni, kukopera nambala yosirira ndi osachepera kulankhula, kukamba za chikondi, momwe anasowa, momwe masikawo anadza ...
Pano mungagwiritse ntchito njira zomwezo, zomwe tinalangiza atsikana omwe amalankhula nawo. Dzipangireni nambala yina ya mabelu ndi mauthenga omwe mungapange kwa okondedwa anu. Ayi, simukusowa kudzikakamiza - ngati simukudziwa chomwe mungayankhule naye panopa - koma musatchedwe "chifukwa cha chongani". Komabe, ngati mukungowopa kuti mumuchotsa kuntchito zofunikira - kulavulira! Lembani mantha anu, ndipo molimba mtima dinani chiwerengero, lankhulani za chirichonse chomwe mumafuna kunena tsiku lonse, koma simunayese. Mnyamata wanu ndithudi adzakonda "kupambana" kumeneku.
Chabwino, ndi zina zonse ndikumvetsa: nthawi zambiri kapena kawirikawiri mumatha kukumbutsa mnyamata wanu za iye mwini mumamuuza mwiniwakeyo. Ndipo musamamuimbire mofulumira kukambirana. Adzakuuzani, ngati muli ovuta kwambiri. N'zosatheka kuti sanganene kuti alibe mawu okwanira pa tsiku lovuta!
Inde, ndipo inu nokha muyenera kumvetsa nthawi yoti muyitane, ndipo pamene-ayi. Ngati mnyamata wanu walankhula za msonkhano wofunika kwambiri wa ntchito yake kuyambira madzulo - bwanji osamuimbira pambuyo pomaliza maphunziro ake ndikufunseni - Kodi chochitika chofunikachi chikupita bwanji? Ndipo panthawi imodzimodziyo, zikuonekeratu kuti izi zisanachitike kapena, chofunika kwambiri, panthawi yomwe akuyitana sikofunikira konse - mumayendetsa munthu kumtima, kutaya mawu onse ndi kusokonezeka.
Choncho, mvetserani osati mtima wanu wokha, womwe ukufuna kuti muzimva mau ake maola 24 patsiku, koma komanso kumvetsetsa, zomwe sizikulolani kuti mukhale wovuta kwa munthu wanu.