Kodi vuto la ubale wamakono ndi chiyani? Ubwenzi sulibenso mtengo kwa anthu. Ambiri amakonda kuchepetsa kugwiritsira ntchito mphamvu zolimbitsa thupi moyenera: malo ogulitsira, maofesi, malo ochezera a pa Intaneti. Ndipo apo: ndemanga kwa zithunzi ndi zojambula, kusekerera, makina ochezeka ndi nthawi zina kutulukira maulumikizowo okondweretsa. Ubwenzi weniweni, mwachisangalalo, sungagwirizane ndi mafelemu okongola kwambiri.
Kodi ndi chifukwa chanji ichi chodabwitsa? Inde, pali ntchito yamba ndi chigamulo chodula cha moyo. Koma komanso kusintha kwa zofunikira za zochitika ndi zochitika kuchokera ku moyo weniweni mpaka ndithu. Chochititsa chidwi kwambiri tsopano chikuchitika pa intaneti, pa malo amtundu, ku LJ ndi mazamu ena omwe amacheza nawo. Zotsutsana za moyo wa intaneti woterezi zimasintha khalidwe lonse la munthu, ndipo tsopano ali kale ndi webusaiti ya zibwenzi muzingwe 229. Apa, ndiye, pali kusiyana kwina kofunika pakati pa abwenzi enieni ndi enieni: inde, ubwenzi weniweni umadya nthawi ya wosuta ngati chitsulo chosungira. Pang'onopang'ono kumayankhula ndi mawu osalankhula ndi zochita zina, bwenzi lenileni limasokoneza "bwana" wake, "kumukakamiza" ku mpando ndi kuyang'anira. Uku ndi kulankhulana kopanda pake, palibe chomwe chimapatsa munthu. Chinthu china ndi ubwenzi mu moyo weniweni. Zili ndi maonekedwe osiyanasiyana, zimatifuna ife ndi kuthandiza ndikugawana chimwemwe, kudzipereka ndi kudzipereka. Simungathe kuzimitsa mnzanu mpaka mawa, simungathe "kusokoneza" mosavuta, popanda chifukwa.
Ndondomeko yaubwenzi.
Kapena, mu Chirasha, momwe tingapezere abwenzi (mmalo mwathu mu dziko lenileni). Mabwenzi m'moyo weniweni ndi ofunikira. Awa si othandizira okha, otonthoza ndi anzathu. Ubwenzi kumatithandiza kuti tidziwonetsere, kumatipatsa mpata wokhala ndi mtima weniweni, kuti tidziwe kuthekera kwa umunthu. Kukumva kukondana kwa uzimu, kusamalira anzako, chifundo chosasangalatsidwa kwa wina amamuyesa munthu. Nzosadabwitsa kuti ubwenzi unali wofunika nthawi zonse komanso pakati pa anthu onse.
Koma musanayambe kupeza anzanu, dzifunseni nokha funso limodzi: Kodi mukufunadi izi? Ganizirani zabwino ndi zamwano, chifukwa sipadzakhalanso njira yobwerera.
Khwerero 1.
Lekani kudziyesa nokha kuti ntchito ndi kuyesetsa kuti mupulumutsidwe kudya nthawi yanu yonse ndi mphamvu zanu zonse. Izi sizili choncho nthawi zambiri. Mudzamvetsa chinyengo mukangodziyang'ana masana. Kodi mumagwiritsa ntchito nthawi yochuluka bwanji pa intaneti? Tsiku ndi tsiku zambiri, sichoncho?
Khwerero 2.
Tangoganizirani fanizo la mnzanu ndikuyerekezerani nokha - kodi mungathe kukhala mnzanu wabwino komanso wokondedwa? Ngati sichoncho, ndiye yambani kudziyesa nokha, yesani zochita zanu ndi zochita zanu, yesetsani chitukuko. Izi sizikutanthauza kuti mpaka mutakwaniritsa zolinga, musayambe ubwenzi. Pogwiritsa ntchito zofuna za ena, ganizirani momwe mungakwaniritsire zofunikirazi. Thandizani wina mwadzidzidzi, chitani ntchito yabwino basi, gwiritsani dzanja la munthu mu mphindi yovuta, khalani omvetsera mwatcheru, perekani wina nthawi yanu yaulere. Zotsatira zidzakhala.
Inde, sikuti anthu onse adzakhala mabwenzi anu, wina angayamika chifukwa cha thandizo lanu, wina akhoza kukuthandizani. Koma kupyolera mumng'oma wawung'ono wa alendo, mbeu imodzi yokoma, yofesedwa ndi inu, ingachedwe. Kumbukirani, nthawi zina kuganiza kwakukulu kumapangidwa ndi khalidwe lachifundo, lopanda dyera. Munthu wotero amaoneka kuti ali wolimba komanso wokongola pamaso pa ena.
Khwerero 3.
Yang'anani pozungulira. Osati kwenikweni mlendo wosadziwika yemwe amachokera ku fumbi pa nthawi yowonongeka yamadzulo adzakhala mzanga. Nthawi zina sitidziwa, kudziletsa, kutizungulira pathu palinso anthu ambiri, osungulumwa omwe angakhale okondwa kugawana ndi wina maminiti a miyoyo yawo. Wina akhoza kukhala bwenzi chabe kwa yemwe mungatenge nthawi yokambirana ndi mtima kapena kapu ya tiyi; bwenzi lakale, osaiwala mopanda pake; mnansi pa khonde, komwe mungathandizire kukonza galimotoyo kapena kukhala ndi mwanayo. Pali njira zambiri ndi moyo nthawi zambiri zimatiponyera nthawi zovuta kwambiri, chinthu chachikulu ndikutengera mwayi wawo.
Khwerero Chachinayi.
Komabe, ngati zotsatirazo zakhala zikuwonekera kale, musathamangire mu dziwe la ubwenzi ndi mutu wanu. Monga Omar Khayyam adati: "Ndibwino kukhala ndekha kusiyana ndi kukhala ndi anzanu. "Ngati munthu sakukukondani, ngati mukuchita manyazi ndi makhalidwe ake, ngati" akupukuta "mapazi anu ndikukugwiritsani ntchito mochokera pansi pa mtima. M'madera omwe muli ndi munthu wotere, nthawi zonse mumakhala osasangalatsa komanso osasangalatsa, kapena mungathe kuvutika.
Khwerero zisanu.
Chiyembekezo choposa! Ngakhale mutakhala wodetsa nkhawa, yesetsani kusokoneza bwenzi lanu ndi chisoni chonse. Tengani moyo osati ngati zovuta, kupeza nthawi zabwino ndipo nthawi zonse muzisunge pamutu mwanu. Nthawi zina timangoyenera mawu okondwa, olankhulidwa nthawi yovuta.
Khwerero 6.
Kupeza mdziko la abwenzi enieni ndi theka la nkhaniyi. Musaiwale za iwo, kuwapatsa nthawi, kuzikonda. Kumbukirani kuti samangokuthandizani pokhapokha, koma amakupatsanso mwayi wakuchita zabwino ndikukhala bwino.