Zimadziwika kuti chikondi ndi nkhani yovuta. Tonse tikudziwa kuti ndizo. Za iye kulemba ndakatulo, mabuku. Chifukwa cha chikondi, amachita zinthu zonyansa, ndipo zakale, ngakhale nkhondo zabwera chifukwa cha izo. Kotero, chikondi nchiyani masiku ano? Imodzi mwa mitundu yofala kwambiri ndi chikondi patali. Kodi mungasonyeze bwanji chikondi patali?
Sitingathe kufotokozeratu zomwe zidzachitikire, nthawi komanso kumene tikhoza kukomana naye. Zingakhale ngati pamsewu, poyenda, pa tchuthi, ndi zina zotero. Pano, mwachitsanzo, choncho. Tonsefe tikudziwa kuti chinthu chachikulu ndi Webusaiti Yadziko Lonse. Inde pali malo ochezera, malo ochezera, maofesi ndi mablogi, ambiri, malo ambiri kumene mungakumane ndi mlendo wokongola. Ndiwe nokha, iye ndi chophimba cha chinsalu chomwe chimakulekanitsani. Ndiyenera kuchita chiyani? Ndipotu, chiopsezo ndi chachikulu, akhoza kutumiza chithunzi cha bwenzi lake, koma kwenikweni sadayime pafupi ndi Alain Delon. Ndiye pali njira, chinachake monga mauthenga a intaneti, koma si zoona kuti muli ndi mwayi. Ndiye bwanji kukhala ndiye? Choyamba, muyenera kukumana.
Kenaka, mudzawona zofunikira za aliyense wa inu. Muyenera kumvetsetsa kuti chikondi sichiri choyenera, choncho, munthu ayenera kukhala wodekha ndipo chifukwa chake ayenera kukhala wosamala. Pambuyo pake, mudzakumana ndi munthu wosadziwika bwino. Chizindikiro chimodzi - musanapite kukakumana ndi mlendo, dziyang'anire nokha, tengani mnzanu (kapena mnzanu). Ndipotu, ziribe kanthu kuti simunayanjane naye nthawi yanji, kapena simunalankhulane, msonkhano ndi msonkhano. Ndipo palibe amene amadziwa zomwe zili mmaganizo mwake. Gawo lotsatira ndi kukonzekera kwakukulu, kuyambira ku zodzoladzola, kumaliza ndi tsitsi lalitali ndi zovala. Ndani akudziwa, kodi zingakhaledi tsogolo lanu? Ndipo potsiriza, msonkhano. Apa chinthu chachikulu sichiyenera kutayika ndikukhala mwachibadwa. Ndipo pamene zoipa zonse zatha, mukhoza kuwona msonkhano wotsatira.
Tsopano, chinthu chokha chomwe chimakulekanitsani inu ndi mtunda. Inde, izi ndizolakwika. Pambuyo pa zonse, pangakhale zosiyana ndi zovuta. Kodi chiri kuti chikhulupiliro chakuti sipadzakhala kusakhulupirika ndi zina zotero? Choncho, izi ziyenera kuyesedwa moyenera. Kodi mwakonzeka kuti mupitirizebe kukondana, mpaka mutakhala pamodzi.
Palinso vuto lina. Chilichonse chimadziwika kuti chilimwe si nthawi yokhayokha, komanso chikondi cha tchuthi. Ndipo pano inu muli, mwachitsanzo, anakumana ndi mlendo. Maso amdima, oparthy macho, omwe adakupambana iwe poyamba. Zomwe zatsala kudalira zosavuta kapena zolinga zamtsogolo. Pano iwe uyenera kukhala wokhazikika. Ndi malangizo amodzi, kondwerani miniti iyi. Ndipotu, simukudziwana, ndipo patali zidzakhala zovuta kuwoneratu ngati bwenzi lake lidzawoneka.
Chabwino, potsiriza, tiyeni tiwerenge mndandanda ndikuwonetsetsanso zomwe zili chimodzimodzi mu ubale patali, mungaufotokoze bwanji ndipo chifundo chanu chiwonetsedwe?
1 st. Mukakumana patali, simungathe kutopa, kapena kukangana. M'mawu ena, mudzakhala ndi chidwi ndi munthu uyu nthawi zonse. Chinthu chinanso, chidzakhala cholandiridwa kwa inu nthawi zonse, chifukwa chifukwa cha misonkhano yosawerengeka mudzasokonezeka kwambiri.
2 nd. Pano paliponse, koma malamulo a fizikiya amatenga okha - apamwamba kuposa wokondedwa, amene akufuna kukumbatira pamsonkhano. Chifukwa chake, kuyamwa bwino kwambiri kumakhala kotentha kwambiri.
3rd. Mulimonsemo, ubale watsopano ndi zatsopano kwa inu ndi mnzanu. Ndipo izi, zenizeni, ndizofunikira kwambiri.
4th. Chimodzi, komanso chofunika kwambiri ndikuti maubwenzi amenewa adzakupatsani mwayi wodziwa maiko atsopano, anthu, kupita ku mizinda yosiyanasiyana. Mwa mawu, kuti mukulitse. Chifukwa chakuti anthu amakhala m'mayiko osiyanasiyana, nthawi zina misonkhano imakhala yosavuta, kwa inu nonse. Choncho, monga akunena, chikondi patali kukukutsegulirani mowonjezereka ndikukudziwani ndi zikhalidwe zosiyanasiyana, miyambo ndi miyambo ya mayiko ena ndi anthu ena. Mwa njira, ichi ndi chifukwa china kuti muone momwe mumadziwira bwino Chingerezi chanu.
5th. Palibe ndewu zapakhomo, kusagwirizana, kutsutsana ndi chisokonezo pa mutu wakuti: "Chifukwa chiyani simunatenge zonyansa?", "Kodi simunasambe masokosi anga?" Ndi zina zotero.
Ndipo chomalizira, maubwenzi oterewa amawonekeratu okondedwa, kuwalola kumvetsetsa momwe alili okondana kwa wina ndi mzake, ndi kupereka mpata wokomana ndi omwe timawakonda. Choncho, chikondi choterocho - chimangowonjezera kumverera.