Kodi pali ubwenzi pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi?

Amakhulupirira kuti kugwirizana pakati pa abambo ndi amai sikutheka. Kodi ndi choncho? N'chiyani chingakhale chophweka kusiyana ndi kupanga anzanu? Zili zoipa kwa inu - ndipo mumayimba nambala ya foni yomwe mumaphunzira ndi mtima ndikulira mu chubu, funsani kuti mubwere, kapena mutengeke ndi kupita panjinga limodzi, ndipo mwinamwake palibe wina woti apite ku cinema, ndiye mnzanu akubwera kudzakuthandizira. Inde, ubwenzi ndi chinthu chosasintha, mosasamala kanthu za nthawi ya chaka ndi nthawi ya tsiku. Ndipo mu ubale pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi zonse zikanakhala ziri zofanana, ngati sizingakhale za "koma" - sizikhoza kukhala zamuyaya, malamulo a chikoka cha dziko lonse amasonyeza kuti ali amphamvu kuposa chiyanjano chophweka. Kaya pali chibwenzi pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi ndizosamvetsetseka.

Pali zikhalidwe zoyambirira za ubale wa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha:

• zofuna zodziwika - anthu amalankhulana wina ndi mzake, chifukwa ali ndi chidwi pamodzi, amakhala ngati zokonda, zosangalatsa, zosangalatsa, nthawi zonse amakhala ndi chinachake chokambirana;

• khulupirirani - mungathe kunena chilichonse chimene chimabwera m'maganizo anu popanda mantha kuti simungamvetsetse;

• Kusiyanitsa moyo - abwenzi amathera nthawi yambiri palimodzi, koma ali ndi zolinga zosiyana za moyo.

Kodi mfundo zonse zikugwirizana ndi ubwenzi pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi? Ndipo mpaka liti? Tiyeni tikambirane zosiyana.

Maloto a ana

Pafupifupi msungwana aliyense anali ndi bwenzi la mnyamata, yemwe ankathamanga naye pabwalo tsiku lonse, akusewera ndi kufunafuna, kukwera mitengo, kapena kukhala pa desiki ya sukulu, kugwira ntchito zapakhomo palimodzi ndikuyenda mozungulira sukulu panthawi yopuma. Zosiyanasiyana zingatheke zosiyana, koma mu sukulu ya masewera, masewera a masewera kapena sukulu - bwenzi lenileni motsimikiza kuti muli nalo. Inu munali abwenzi naye, ndithudi! Ife tinasewera palimodzi, tinaseka, chirichonse chinali momwe ziyenera kukhalira. Kodi ndibwenzi chabe? Akatswiri a zamaganizo amanena kuti mu 70% ya ubale wamwamuna pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi pali kukopeka kwa thupi, koma ana okha sadziwa izi, koma mwachibadwa amakondana wina ndi mzake, amakonda kumakhala pamodzi. Zoonadi, ubwenzi wapamtima wa ana ochezeka wa anawo umayamba kukondana pakati pa zaka zaunyamata, ndipo izi zimathetsa maubwenzi ochezeka, kukhala ndi chiyanjano chachikulu ndi kusamvetsetsana zikwi zambiri pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi. Ngati chitukukocho sichiti chichitike, ndiye kuti amaletsa kukhudzidwa kwa chikoka cha kugonana ndipo posachedwa kapena pamapeto pake akhoza kutha. Nsanje yodalirika komanso wochuluka wothandizana nawo. Ndipo zochitika zingasinthe, monga mu filimuyo "Ukwati wapamtima wapamtima," kumene bwenzi la bwenzi limamveka ngati mpikisano. Ndipo izi ndizochitika zachilendo, pambuyo pa zonse, kwa nthawi yaitali ndikulankhulana ndi munthu, podziwa zokonda zake ndi zofuna zake, timayamba kuzinena popanda kuzizindikira. Taganizirani zomwe mungachite ngati mnzanu akufuna kukwatira kapena kupita kumzinda wina?

Khalani pafupi

Mu mavoti 95 mwa ma 100 pa mgwirizano waubwenzi pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi, wina amamverera bwino kwambiri kuposa munthu wachifundo, ndipo akuyembekeza m'tsogolo kuti akhale pachibwenzi. Ndipo tsopano, mpaka bwenzi (kapena chibwenzi) atayamba kuganiza, mwina akhale pafupi naye, kumudziletsa, ndipo nthawi yomweyo kuti atsatire moyo wake, kupereka uphungu, osati nthawi zonse. Mnzanu amachedwa kukupewani, chifukwa ndani amakonda kumva "cap"? Kotero ndibwino kuti musiye vutoli, mudzipatse nokha ufulu wanu - choncho posachedwapa amvetse kuti popanda inu palibe ponseponse.

Mwina buku?

Kuti mumvetse momwe mumamvera za mnzanu wamwamuna, yankhani mafunso angapo: 1. Kodi mwakonzeka kutseka maso anu ku zolakwa zambiri za mnzanu? 2. Kodi ubale wanu ungasinthe ngati ziwalo zake zakunja zinali "osati mu kukoma kwanu"? 3. Podziwa kuti mnzanuyo ali ndi chibwenzi, amalemba mwakachetechete SMS-ki? Ngati munayankha mosakayikira limodzi la mafunso awa, ndiye kuti bwenzi lanu ndilolowetsa chikondi.

Kusinthanitsa kwa Mphamvu

Akatswiri ambiri oganiza zamaganizo ndi ogonana amatsutsa kuti ubwenzi pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi sizowonongeka, chifukwa mulimonsemo timayamikirana monga chinthu chogonana. Mphindi yoyamba yothetsa chibwenzi mwamuna amamvetsera zozizwitsa za mkazi, amamva fungo lake ndikukhudza. Ndi kovuta kukana kukopa, ndipo mwinamwake mudzatha kuletsa chilakolako kanthawi. Pafupifupi chinthu chomwecho chikuchitika ndi amayi okongola. Ndipo, mwa njira, ubale wina uliwonse pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi ndiwopambana mphamvu yeniyeni, ngakhale onse awiri omwe ali nawo pachibwenzi akunena kuti izi ndi mabwenzi okha. Koma amakumana mosavuta. Mphuno imatuluka, masaya kutembenukira pinki, pali kuwala pamaso pa onse, kuseka kumawopsyeza - awa ndi malamulo a chirengedwe, palibe chomwe chingakhoze kuchitidwa pa izo. Choncho, akatswiri pankhani ya maganizo amanena kuti posakhalitsa ubale uliwonse pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi umathera pachibwenzi. Ndipo onse mwangwiro amamvetsetsa izi mosapindulitsa kuchokera mu maminiti oyamba omwe akudziwana nawo, ngakhale ngati sakuvomereza izo.

Mwa mgwirizano

Pali china chimodzi chotheka chosiyana ndi chibwenzi chosiyana. Ndipo, panjira, khola lalikulu ndilo pamene anali okonda kale, mwavomerezano omwazikana, koma sanafune kuletsa kuyankhulana kwauzimu kapena bizinesi. Ubwenzi wotero ndi wowona mtima komanso womasuka, palibe zinsinsi kapena masewera pakati pa zibwenzi. Zoonadi, monga gawo lanu lachiwiri lidzayang'ana paubwenzi wotere - uwu ndi funso lina! Kumvetsetsa zomwe zimakhala kumayanjano osiyana-siyana ndizosatheka ngakhale mabwenzi. Masewerawa nthawi zina amakhala okondweretsa, nthawi zina owopsa. Chisankho ndi chanu!