Mantha ali mu mphamvu.
Amuna nthawi zambiri samamva bwino akamakumana ndi mtsikana wodziwa zogonana? Iye samakonda kwenikweni pamene bwenzi lake limasonyeza zonse zomwe iye akugonana ali pabedi. Pali phobias ina yamphongo yomwe imawachotsera potency. Kuopa uku kumachitika pamene munthu akuwopa kutaya mphamvu, kapena akuwopa kuswa chikhalidwe chovomerezeka. Ndipo munthu akuwopa nsanje ndi kumverera kochepa.
Ndani ali ndi udindo pano?
Mwamuna sali wokondwa kwambiri kulankhula ndi mtsikana yemwe ali ndi chidziwitso chogonana. Zomwe munakumana nazo, komanso chofunika kwambiri - kuyesa kugonana kungakhale koopsa kwa "mwamuna wake". Zikuwoneka kuti "chida chopanga" chachikulu ndi chake, ndipo mukutsogolera pabedi! Ankagwiritsidwa ntchito podziwa kuti nthawi zonse anali woyang'anira. Kenaka zimapezeka kuti iye ndi "mfuti" yake akhoza kusuta pambali, chifukwa poyerekeza ndi inu - ndi saladi basi. Kodi muyenera kuchita chiyani? Ngati mtsikana ali ndi chidziwitso sakonda, ndiye kuti mumubwezeretsanso mphamvu ndi ufulu. Pewani sewero "Kodi mbuye wanga akufuna chiyani?". Adzasangalala kuti mumadziwa mmene mungagwirire thupi lake!
Kutsutsana ndi malamulo.
Zochitika zanu zogonana zimatsutsana ndi chikhalidwe chokhazikitsidwa. Amakhulupirira kuti, pamene anyamata amapindulitsa chuma cha chidziwitso chauchilendo, asungwana amakhala pansi mwakhama ndi kumanga mapepala a lace. Inde, tsopano anthu ochepa okha amalimbikira kukhalabe oyera pamaso paukwati, koma pansi penipeni pansi pa cranasi mulibe zovuta zofanana. Malingana ndi iwo, mtsikana amene ali ndi chidziwitso chogonana sangakhale "wabwino". Zimene mungachite: funsani munthu wanu kuti akhale mphunzitsi wanu. Muloleni iye asonyeze zomwe iye amakonda ndi zomwe sali. Kenaka musinthe maudindo: muloleni adziwe momwe angakubweretsere chimwemwe.
Otsiriza mu mzere.
Zochitika ndi luso lanu pa bedi kumatsogolera munthu kuganiza kuti ena amuchezera kuno. Iye novoobrazhena ophunzira anzake ndi anzake, omwe mumamusangalatsa. Kukhala wochulukira pamzere wa kugonana kwanu kugonana ndi kosasangalatsa. Ankaganiza kuti amuna apambana, komanso atsikana - amadzipereka kuti agonjetse. Zimene mungachite: nsanje sizitsatiridwa. Ngati munthu ayamba kuganiza za anzanu omwe kale anali naye, yesetsani kumutsimikizira kuti iye ndi wabwino kwambiri, wofunika kwambiri, wodabwitsa. Ndipo mfundo yakuti ndinu mtsikana wodziwa bwino ndi yabwino kwa nonse awiri. Sanagwire ntchito? Musiyeni iye yekha ndi kusinkhasinkha. Munthu wamba sakhala wansanje zapitazo.
Mpikisano Wapamwamba.
Wokondedwa wanu akhoza kuopa kuti mumamufananitsa ndi okondedwa anu akale ... Mukumuyang'ana ndikuganiza kuti: "Kuno Vasya udindo wa mmishonale unali wabwino kwambiri, ndipo Peter sanali woyipa kwambiri poyambirira. Mukuchita chiyani? "Zomwe mungachite: chifukwa ndinu msungwana wodziwa zambiri, mumamuyamikira, mumakondwera ndi luso lake, kuti muzisangalala ndi kuyenda bwino konse. Aloleni kuti aone kuti, ndi zomwe munachita pa kugonana, mumakhutitsidwa nawo! Izi zimamupatsa chidaliro.
Njira yovuta.
Zochitika zokhudzana ndi kugonana sizikutanthauza kusonkhanitsa machitidwe abwino ogonana osati a chiwerengero cha okonda, koma ndi kuchuluka kwa momwe mumadziwira ndikumvetsa thupi lanu ndi momwe mungathe kumusangalatsa. Ndipotu, mayi wodziwa bwino, ngati amamvera chifundo chake, ndi mphatso kwa mwamuna. Ndipo ayenera kukhala wokondwa ndi mphatso yoteroyo.