Zochitika zambiri za moyo wathu ndizofunikira kwambiri, koma mwinamwake chimodzi mwazofunikira kwambiri ndizo mwambo waukwati. Patsikuli mtsikana akufuna kuoneka bwino ndi wokongola, kukhala pakati pa chidwi ndi kusamba m'chikondi cha wosankhidwa wake.
Kwa nthawi yaitali chikondwererochi chazunguliridwa ndi zizindikiro ndi zikhulupiriro zambiri. Kusankha chovala ndi nsapato, atsikana ambiri komanso nthawi yathu amatsogoleredwa ndi zizindikiro zingapo. Msungwana aliyense amakonzekera bwino za ukwati umene ukubwerawo, ndipo, ndithudi, posakhalitsa, amaphunzira zizindikiro zambiri, chabwino, kukhulupilira kapena ayi, ndi nkhani yaumwini kwa aliyense.
Akatswiri a zamaganizo amavomereza kuti akwatibwi samangoganizira za zikhulupilirozi ndikupanga zikondwerero zokha malinga ndi malamulo akale, kungosangalala ndi kupeza zosangalatsa zomwe mwachita.
Zizindikiro za kavalidwe kaukwati
Ngati mukuganiza molimbika ndikupeza zambiri, mutha kudzuka kuti ena a iwo amatsutsana, kawirikawiri amagwirizana ndi madiresi, ndi zophimba, nsapato ndi zina zotero.
- Chizindikiro choyamba n'chakuti kavalidwe ka ukwati sungathe kubwereka kenaka n'kubwereka. Primaetonnovyvaetsya zovalazo zimatenga mphamvu za mwini wake ndi sitolo. Ngati muvala kavalidwe kaukwati ndi "mphamvu yoipa", ndiye mkwatibwi akhoza kukhumudwa.
- Omveka akale akuti paliyenera kubwereka chinachake pa chovala cha mkwatibwi. M'masiku akale, amayi a mkwatibwi anamupatsa iye mpango, womwe iye anadzikongoletsa yekha. Kuvekedwa pa icho chophiphiritsira chapadera, chomwe chikuteteza izo. Ndi mpango uwu unali mwambo wopukuta misonzi ya chimwemwe! Kawirikawiri chinthu ichi chinadutsitsidwa kuchokera ku mibadwomibadwo.
Masiku ano, akwatibwi amatenga chinachake kuchokera kwa abwenzi, abambo, ndolo, zofukiza tsitsi kapena china chake, koma zidzakhala bwino ngati ali banja lolowa nyumba. - Malingana ndi mwambo wa Chingerezi paukwati, msungwanayo ayenera kukhala ndi chinachake chatsopano, chinachake chokalamba, chinachake cha ena ndi chokwanira. Choyamba ndi chachiwiri chinthu chikuimira kugwirizana kwa mkwatibwi ndi mwana, nzeru ndi mtendere m'banja latsopano. Ngongole yobwereka ikukumbutsani kuti abwenzi apamtima ndi amayi nthawi zonse amakonzeka kuthandizira. Buluu limaimira kukhulupirika, kudzichepetsa komanso chikondi.
- Zimakhulupirira kuti moyo wamtsogolo wa okwatirana umadalira mtundu wa kavalidwe. Mwachikhazikitso sikovomerezeka kuti muzivala kuti wachikasu, mwinamwake mudzaphatikizana mikangano m'banja. Ofiira adzapanga mgwirizanowu kukhala wosasunthika ndi wophulika. Kukhalapo kwa zinthu zofiira mu diresi kapena maluwa - Mosiyana ndi zotsatira zabwino. Mtundu woyenera wa kavalidwe ka ukwati ndi woyera, umatanthauza kusonyeza chifundo, kusalakwa, ubwino.
- Posankha mphete zaukwati, samalani ndi iwo omwe ali ndi maonekedwe aakulu ndi miyala, ngale. Anthu amakhulupirira kuti ngale zimasuntha kukumbukira, ndipo moyo ndi wokwatirana ndi bwino kuyamba pomwepo.
- Ndi bwino kusankha kavalidwe kaukwati popanda zingwe ndi kupitilira, pamene akuimira moyo wodzala ndi kugwa, zosokonezeka.
- Aliyense ali ndi mphamvu zake, wina ali ndi mphamvu komanso yowoneka bwino, ndipo wina ali ndi mphamvu yoipa yomwe imabweretsa mavuto ena kwa ena, zimayesedwa kuti ndizofunika kusamala ndi anthu otere ndikuchita zimenezi kuti zisakhudze kavalidwe kaukwati wa mkwatibwi ndipo musawasiye iwo mphamvu zake zoipa.
- Mkwati ukatha ukhalebe ndi mkazi wake ndipo musamapatse anzanu kapena achibale ake, makamaka omwe akupita ku chophimbachi kuti akwatirenso.
- Ukwati wa ukwati skorotkoy skirt umaimira ukwati waufupi. Ndizofunika kusankha chovala chachitali, chimaimira moyo wautali wa banja, ndipo izi ndizo zomwe timafuna.
- Ngati padzakhala phwando lachikwati, tsindirani kuti apongozi anu azikwiyitsa. Ngati batani athamanga, onetsetsani kuti mukudula ndi zigawo ziwiri, kotero mutha kugwirizanitsa nokha ndi mnzanuyo.
- Asanapambane, yang'anani pagalasi ndipo musamuwonetse maso kwa mkwati - ichi ndi choipa.
- Vuto lachikwati pambuyo povala kavalidwe kokha patsiku la ukwati, sizodandaulirika kuti musonyeze izi kwa anzako ndikuyendayenda panyumba, chifukwa kuvala chovala chaukwati kumatanthauza kukwatira, ngati muchita izo pasadakhale, ukwati sungakhoze kuchitika.
- Kuvala diresi ndikofunikira kupyolera pamutu. Ngati pali mabatani pa chovala, payenera kukhala angapo.
- Pamphepete mwa kavalidwe kaukwati, nthawi zonse muyenera kulumikiza pini, pansi, kuti muteteze ku diso loipa.
- Ndi ulusi wabuluu kuchokera mkati, pangani zochepa zochepa, kotero mudzadzipulumutsa ku mphamvu zoipa za anthu.
- Malingana ndi mawu akale, ngati kavalidwe kavala kavalidwe ndi okondedwa, ndiye kuti mwamuna adzakonda kupulumutsa mkazi wake moyo wake wonse, kumunyamula m'manja mwake ndikumuzungulira ndi chidwi chake.
- Ngati mtsikanayo akwatirana, ali kale ndi pakati, mimba iyenera kumangidwa ndi nsalu yofiira kwambiri komanso kuvala diresi yake. Potero, mudzapulumutsa mwana wanu ku nsanje ndi maso oipa.
- Ukwati wa pinki umakonda kukonda kwambiri anthu okwatirana. Vuto lachikwati loyera ndilo chizindikiro cha Mulungu. Chisangalalo, kukhulupirika, kukhulupirika.
- Ngati mukufuna kukopa ndalama kwa banja lanu, sankhani chovala ndi golide.
- Mitundu yosasangalatsa ya kavalidwe kaukwati - imvi, buluu, yachikasu, yofiira, buluu.