Kodi munayamba mwamvapo kuti mukusowa munthu amene simunakumane nayepo? Zimachitika pamene mtima ukulota kudzazidwa ndi chikondi. Ndikufuna kukhala ndi chiyembekezo cha chimwemwe, chikondi komanso ntchentche m'mimba mwanga. Pali zizindikiro zodziwiratu msonkhano wotsatira wa chikondi. Yang'anirani! Mwinanso zina mwazozi zikuchitikirani kapena zikuchitika pakalipano, ndikuwonetsa kuti chikondi chiri pafupi kwambiri.
Aroma a chikondi
"Fragrant mirages" imatchedwa chimodzi mwa zowonongeka kwambiri za chikondi. Posakhalitsa chikondi chidzakufika pamtima mwanu ngati:- kumverera kununkhiza mwadzidzidzi, osati kufanana kwa malo, mkhalidwe, nyengo;
- Kununkhira kulibe mayanjano osamvetsetseka;
- iye salinso womverera ndi wina aliyense.
Chikondi kudzera m'maloto
Zizindikiro zambiri za chikondi chomwe chikubwera
- abwenzi onse, ngati kuti akukonzekera, akukulangizani kuti muzimeta tsitsi, kubwezeretsa, kusintha tsitsi lanu, ngakhale kuti iwo adakonda kale. Chizindikiro ichi chiri ndi mbiri yakale. Ikubwerera ku miyambo yakale, pamene mkwatibwi anasintha nthawi yomweyo tsitsi lake kuti likhale lolimba komanso lachikazi pambuyo paukwati;
- anthu oyandikana nawo akuyamba kukudandaulirani kuti mulibe mimba. Zonse chifukwa amalingalira kuti mwakhala wotetezedwa, wokongola, wachikazi, mwadzidzidzi mwalowera mwa inu nokha. Makhalidwe amenewa nthawi zambiri amadziwika ndi amayi apakati. Choncho, anthu amawerenga kuchokera kwa inu zokhudzana ndi "kukhala ndi" chikondi cham'tsogolo;
- osati mwayi wakuchova njuga, choncho mwayi mu chikondi. Nthawi zambiri zimachitika chifukwa chilakolako ndi chikondi zimayandikira mwamphamvu, ndipo ngati mwayi umasintha mmasewerawo, munthu ayenera kuyembekezera kumverera kwakukulu ndi kowala;
- Panali zokongoletsera zotayika. Ichi ndi chizindikiro chotsimikizika cha kuyandikira kwa zochitika zachikondi zamphamvu. Ngati chikondicho chimatha ndi ukwati, ndolo, kulonchiki, unyolo umalonjeza chochitika chosakumbukika chachikondi;
- pali chingwe cha kulephera. Mwachitsanzo: m'mawa nthawi ya alamu sinaimbe, munatentha ntchafu yanu yomwe mumakonda kwambiri ndi chitsulo, chinangwa chophwanyika, chinathyola chidendene, mumayendetsa galimoto ndi matope kuchokera ku chiwongolero, ndi zina zotero. Komanso, zimakhala zowonongeka pamene mkazi sali wokoma mtima kwambiri;
- apulo amatsika kuchokera patebulo kapena kugwa kuchokera mu dengu - chizindikiro chodabwitsa kwa iwo amene akudikirira chikondi. Choyimira cha Adamu ndi Eva chikuyimira chikondi choyandikira;
- pali nyimbo zoimba pamsewu, chikwati chaukwati, mapasa okondeka. Zoonadi, zizindikirozi zimagwira ntchito ndi kuchenjeza za kalata yomwe ikubwera, ngati nthawi zonse mukulephera;
- amapezeka pa kavalo wamsewu. Kupeza koteroko ndi chizindikiro cha ndalama zokhazokha, komanso zimasonyeza chikondi chosangalatsa.
- Zinthu zomwe zikugwirizana ndi chikondi kapena ukwati zili panjira. Mungayambe kuyang'ana pugnacious, ngati mwangozi mwapeza pempho laukwati wa wina kapena zinthu zina zowonongeka ndi okwatirana kumene. Kulumikizana kwa chikondi kumapyozedwa ndipo pini kapena tsitsi lopaka tsitsi likupezeka pamsewu. Kuti chizindikiro chichitike, musawaukitse ndi kuwachotsa;
- anagwira mkwati waukwati wa mkwatibwi - chizindikiro chotsimikizirika kwa zaka, msungwana wosakwatiwa amene amakonda ukwati, umene udzamveka ukwati.