Kodi zizindikiro ndi ziti? Chizindikiro ndi chochitika kamodzi kamene chinachitika kwa wina yemwe amamvetsetsa ndi anthu, koma potsiriza anataya tanthawuzo lake loyambirira. Pakapita nthawi, zonsezi zasanduka machenjezo, moralizations ndi zoletsedwa. Zambiri za ukwati wachikale ndi zikhulupiliro zokhudzana ndi chikhulupiliro ndi cholinga chokuteteza mgwirizano wa mitima iwiri yachikondi, yomwe imayesedwa yopatulika kwa anthu onse padziko lapansi.
Mwachitsanzo, ngati m'mawa a tsiku laukwati, mkwati ndi mkwatibwi kapena achibale awo akutsutsana, ndiye izi ndi zabwino. Ndiponso, mvula kapena chipale chofewa, zomwe zinayamba pa tsiku la ukwati, zimalonjeza achinyamata kukhala osangalala ndi chuma.
Kuti ukwati ukhale wokondwa, mkwatibwi akulangizidwa kuyika kalirole kakang'ono pansi pa pillow madzulo a ukwatiwo, ndikuyika nsalu yausiku pambali yolakwika.
Ndani yemwe ali woyamba mwachinyamatayi kulowa mu tebulo mu ofesi ya registry, kufalikira ndi mboni, iye adzakhala mutu wa banja.
Ngati pamsonkhano wapadera mu ofesi ya olembetsa, dzanja lamanzere lamanzere linasokonezeka - kukhala wolemera, ngati labwino - nyumba yake yatsopano idzakhala yodzala ndi alendo.
Achinyamata amaletsedwa kuvala zokongoletsa. Ayenera kukongoletsedwa ndi mphete zaukwati - zosalala, popanda miyala ndi zokopa, kuti moyo wa mkwatibwi ukhale wosalala, wopanda mavuto ndi mavuto.
Asanalowe mnyumbamo, achinyamata ayenera kuswa mbaleyo, ndipo mu ofesi yolembera - galasi, kumene mkaka waukwati umaledzera. Izi ziyenera kubweretsa chisangalalo ndi chitukuko kwa nyumba zatsopano.
Mu nyumba yatsopano mkwatibwi mwamuna wamwamuna ayenera kubweretsa manja. Ngati wachinyamata akukhala m'nyumba ya mkwati, apongozi ake ndi apongozi ake adzakumana ndi okwatiranawo pakhomo. Mlamu wake ayenera kupereka mkwati wa vinyo kapena mowa, ndipo apongozi ake ayenera kuika pie yatsopanoyo ndikuponya mapiko ake pansi pa mapazi ake. Keke obisika "ayenera kudya chimodzimodzi patsogolo pa gome la ukwati, vinyo kapena mowa - zakumwa mowa. Zonsezi zachitika kuti ana akhale moyo wawo wonse m'chikondi, chuma ndi mgwirizano.
Pambuyo pa phwando, pambuyo pa mwambo wa ofesi yolembera, munthu wolemekezeka kwambiri m'banja nthawi zitatu amachititsa anawo pafupi ndi phwando la chikondwerero, kusonyeza ubale wosatha wauzimu pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi.
Kuonetsetsa kuti achinyamata nthawi zonse amakhala ndi ndalama m'nyumba zawo ndipo amakhala ndi chitukuko, amaika mbewu mu nsapato zawo, ndipo atachoka ku ofesi yolembera, amawaza mpunga kapena tirigu, amawuluka, amathira, amawotchera, ndalama.
Pa tsiku laukwati, mkwatibwi ayenera kulira, kuti akwatiwe iye anali wokondwa.
Mabokosi pa bedi la anthu okwatirana amakhala atayikidwa ndi magawo a pillowcases kumbali ya wina ndi mzake, kotero kuti mkwati ndi mkwatibwi azikhala limodzi miyoyo yawo yonse, chabwino.
Atachoka pa nyumba ya REGISTRY OFFICE (tchalitchi), mkwatibwi ayenera kubwezera anyamata osakwatiwa akuitanidwa ku ukwatiwo, ndikuponyera maluwa pamutu pake. Mtsikana amene amapeza maluwa posachedwapa adzakwatirana. Mkwati akuponya kansalu kosakanizidwa kwa mkwatibwi motsogoleredwa ndi makomere ake osakwatira. Mnyamata amene adatenga galasi posakhalitsa akukwatira. Ngati mukufuna kukwatira mwamsanga, mudzathandizidwa mwa kukhudza mphete zaukwati za achinyamata.
Masiku abwino a ukwati ndi Loweruka ndi Lamlungu, ndipo nthawi yabwino ya tsikulo ndi theka lachiwiri la tsikuli.
Simungapereke ukwati pa 13. Ndiponso ku zizindikiro zoipa ndizo: mphete yoonongeka ya ukwati, galasi losweka, magalasi otayika, kavalidwe kaukwati kakang'ono kwambiri pamilingo. Yesetsani kuti musalowe m'kati.
Achinyamata sangathe kujambulidwa padera paukwati, wina sayenera kupereka mphete yake yachikwati kwa wina aliyense. Sungathe kuvala nsapato pa ukwati, komanso zodzikongoletsera (zokongoletsera zokhazololedwa), musamve ngale - kumalira. Patebulo, yesetsani kusamala, yesani kuti musatayike chilichonse. Pali chizindikiro chakale kwambiri: Panthawi ya phwando, okwatiranawo ayenera kupotola miyendo yawo kapena kuika mapazi awo pamtunda - kotero kuti m'moyo wa banja khungu lakuda silikuyenda pakati pawo. Pachifukwa ichi, achinyamata ayenera kukhala molimba momwe angathe.
Simungalole abwenzi anu kusamba mbale paukwati (lolani antchito okonzanso achite).
1. Mkwati ndi mkwatibwi akadzabweretsedwa ku khonde la tchalitchi, ayenera kugwira ntchito yaikulu ndikumanena kuti: "Chisoni ndi matenda athu onse asapite ndi ife ku korona, koma tikhalebe ndi inu." Mwa anthu iwo amakhulupirira kuti chitsulo chimatulutsa zinthu zonse zoipa, kupereka tsogolo labwino kwa okwatirana kumene.
2. Nkhokwe zikavala zachinyamata, ndipo wansembe adati: "Kapolo wa Mulungu amavekedwa zotere," ndipo mkwati adayenera kudutsa yekha ndi kunena mwakachetechete kuti: "Ine, mtumiki wa Mulungu (dzina), ndine wokwatiwa, koma zofooka zanga siziri."
3. Ndi ndani mwa anthu omwe angokwatirana kumene pa kandulo laukwati omwe amatha kukanidwa, ndiye oyamba kuchoka pa moyo.
4. Ndikoletsedwa kuyang'ana mkwati ndi mkwatibwi pa nthawi yaukwati, ndipo ngati akadali kuyang'ana (makamaka m'maso) - sakondana wina kapena wina adzachita chiwembu m'banja.
Alendo sayenera kupereka okwatirana zinthu izi: rosi yofiira, mafoloko, zikho, mipeni, zovala zamkati. Simungabwere ku ukwati wa zovala zakuda, kuwoloka msewu wopita kwa achinyamata pamene amapita ku ofesi yolembera kapena ku tchalitchi. Ngati mwawona kukwatira kwaukwati mumsewu - m'malo mogwira pa batani - mwachangu.
Musaiwale kuti zimatenga zambiri ndipo sizingatheke kuzisunga. Kumbukirani kuti chizindikiro chofunika kwambiri chaukwati ndichoti ngati maso a mkwati ndi mkwatibwi akuwala ndi moto wamtendere, ngati nkhope zawo zimatembenukira kwa wina ndi mzake, ndipo chilichonse chozungulira chikuunikiridwa ndi chikondi chachikondi, ndiye, mwatsoka, palibe zizindikiro zomwe zingakhale zopinga.