Kodi ndi makhalidwe otani amene mnyamata ayenera kupeza mwayi wodzikweza pamutu - "wangwiro"?
Malingana ndi akatswiri a zamaganizo, munthu wokongola m'masiku amakono ayenera kukhala ndi mgwirizano wogwirizana wa anthu, olemekezeka nthawi zonse, monga mphamvu, masculinity, nzeru, malo omveka bwino, udindo, "ndondomeko yachitsulo". Koma komanso mwamuna wabwino ayenera kukhala wofatsa, wofatsa, wosamala, - makhalidwe oterewa amapezeka kwambiri kwa atsikana.
Kuwoneka ndi kwa njira imodzi yowonjezereka pofufuza zoyenera. Ndipo si zokha za maonekedwe ndi mawonekedwe okongola. Mnyamata ayenera kukhala ndi kukoma kwabwino, atha kutenga zovala ndi zothandizira nokha, kudziwa kudziyang'anira nokha. Ukhondo, kudzikongoletsa ndi kumwetulira kokongola ndizofunika kwambiri za kukongola kwa kunja. Lesu ya palada, tsitsi la shaggy ndi chiputu cha masiku atatu akhala kalekale.
Maphunziro, nzeru, maphunziro m'nthaŵi yathu ikugwirizananso ndi fanizo la mnyamata yemwe amati ndi "wabwino padziko lonse lapansi". Wosangalatsa wa erudite interlocutor amene amadziwa kupereka uphungu wothandiza, munthu yemwe amadziwa zolinga zake m'moyo ndipo amadziwa momwe angakwaniritsire izo, adzangowonjezera gawo la munthu wabwino.
M'dziko lamakono la pragmatism ndi kuwerengera kovuta, chikondi ndi abwenzi ndizofunikira kulemera kwa golidi. Ndi mtsikana uti amene samangokhalira kuchita zinthu zopanda pake kwa wokondedwa wake, maluwa okongola mamiliyoni miliyoni kuphatikizapo? Nthawi ya maluwa, mapemphero, kupsompsona, kuyenda pansi pa mwezi ndi zizindikiro zina za mafilimu okondana ayenera nthawi zonse kumagwira ntchito ndi munthu woyenera mu dziko lamakono.
Mwamuna woyenera ayenera kukhala moyo wa kampaniyo. Wokondwa, wokonda, wodzisangalatsa, wosavuta kuyankhulana - awa ndi makhalidwe omwe mwamuna yemwe amatchedwa "wangwiro". Mukhoza kuseka, ndipo mwangwiro muli mtsikana. Chophweka "mdierekezi", kukwanitsa kumangirira chinthu kapena kuponyera fumbi mmaso ndikuvomerezedwa ndi zina zachiwerewere.
Makhalidwe omwewo monga kudzikuza, kunyalanyaza, molingana ndi atsikana ambiri, sizinaphatikizidwe muzofunikira za mnyamata woyenera. Kulemekezedwa kwina, kukwanitsa kuchepetsa maganizo awo, mantha amantha pokambirana ndi mtsikana, makamaka kumayambiriro.
Mtsikana aliyense payekha amalingalira munthu aliyense ngati atate wa ana ake am'tsogolo. Kuyambira pano, munthu wabwino ayenera kulimbikitsa, koposa zonse, chidaliro ndi chidaliro. "Muzimumvera ngati khoma lamwala" - ndilo loto la atsikana ambiri. Choncho, munthu wabwino masiku ano ayenera kukhala wopambana, wodzidalira, wolemekezeka, woona mtima, wokhulupirika. Atsikana ambiri amafuna kuwona chibwenzi chawo, mwamuna yemwe angathe kuyankha chifukwa cha zochita zawo ndipo amatha kuthandiza pazochitika zilizonse.
Zikuwoneka kuti m'maganizidwe omwe tawaona pamwambapa pangatheke kuti apange fano la munthu woyenera m'masiku ano. Koma kugwirizanitsa makhalidwe onsewa ndi mphamvu kuli kutali ndi aliyense. Ndipo kodi ndikofunikira? Kwa msungwana aliyense ndi mnyamata amene amamukonda - abwino. Ngati mumakonda, n'zosavuta kugwirizanitsa ndi zofooka zina, ndipo ulemu uliwonse umakhala wofunika kwambiri. Palibe anthu angwiro. Chinthu chachikulu mwa munthu ndicho kukonda ndi kulemekeza wokondedwa, chilakolako chokonzekera, ndiye chithunzi cha zabwino sizingakhale kutali!