Kodi amuna ngati mawere aang'ono?

Atsikana onse amafuna kukonda anyamata. Koma masiku ano magazini a pa televizioni ndi mafilimu amapatsa miyezo yosakwanira ya kukongola. Kukula, kulemera, mawonekedwe a maso ndi milomo, kukula kwa thupi - zonsezi tsopano zangomangidwa mu chipembedzo. Zikuwoneka kuti ngati palibe kukula kwa 180 ndi pamwamba, chodziwika bwino cha 90/60/90 - moyo unalephera. Imodzi mwa makina akuluakulu a girlish ndi kukula kwa chifuwa. Izi sizosadabwitsa: ngati kukula pang'ono kungakhale "kobisika" ndi zidendene zapamwamba, mothandizidwa ndi zodzoladzola kuchoka kwa msungwana wamba kuti akhale wokongola, ndiye palibe chomwe chingakhoze kuchitika pa bere. Atsikana ambiri akuda nkhawa ndi izi, ena akuchita opaleshoni kuti akule. Koma apa muyenera kukumbukira kuti endoprosthetics (opaleshoni yopatsa maere) sizingatheke ngati muli ndi chotupa, ngakhale chiri chosaopsa. Ngakhale atachotsedwa, sikungatheke kuchita ntchito zoterezi. Kusakhutitsidwa ndi mawonekedwe awo ndikowopseza miyoyo ya atsikana ambiri. Koma kwenikweni, ndi bwino kufufuza: koma kodi amuna ngati chifuwa chaching'ono? Pambuyo pake, ndi iwo omwe timagwiritsa ntchito zizoloŵezi zotero monga kupanga ndi zidendene, ndipo ena amasankha pa opaleshoni. Choncho, sizingakhale zofunikira kudzimana koteroko? Kapena ndi bwino kuti mudzivomereze nokha momwe muliri, ndikuchotsani zovuta za bere?

Nthaŵi zina, ndibwino kuti mfupa ing'onoing'ono kapena ayi, kufufuza kwambiri kunagwiritsidwa ntchito. Ndipo chifukwa chake, zinadziwika kuti, ambiri, amuna samasamala za kukula kwa mawere anu - oyambirira kapena asanu ndi limodzi. Chinthu chachikulu ndicho kudzidalira nokha, kuthekera kudzigonjera nokha. Inde, zonsezi zimadalira munthuyo, koma amuna ambiri amaganiza kuti chifuwa chaching'ono ndi chokongola kwambiri. Ena amati chinthu chachikulu ndi mawonekedwe, osati kukula. Ndipo nthawi zambiri anthu amabwereza mawu a Tolstoy, amene ananena kuti chifuwa - ichi ndi chomwe chikugwirizana ndi dzanja lanu. Izi ziridi, palibe vuto - amuna ngati mabere a kukula kwake, chinthu chachikulu - kuti chinali chokongola, popanda kutambasula. Ndipo kukula ndi nkhani ya kukoma.

Komanso, ndikufuna kunena mawu ochepa ponena za chifuwa chopangira. Chifukwa cha kafukufuku womwewo, adawululidwa kuti, mosiyana ndi zomwe anthu ambiri amakhulupirira, amuna ngati chifuwa osati zizindikiro. Owerengeka kwambiri amafuna kuti msungwana wawo akhale ndi bere lopangira lachisanu ndi chimodzi kapena kuposa. Amuna ngati chibadwa ndi mabere achilengedwe - ngakhale ang'onoang'ono. Amanena kuti chifuwa chosakondweretsa kukhudza, ngakhale ena akufuna kukhudza - chifukwa cha chidwi. Koma ngati mukufuna kusankha pakati pa chifuwa chaching'ono ndi chachikulu chachikulu, amuna amasankha njira yoyamba.

Komanso, musaiwale kuti mabere akuluakulu amachititsa kuti mtsikanayo asokonezeke kwambiri. Simungathe kugona m'mimba mwanu, musadumphire ndi chimwemwe, musayambenso kuyenda. Kusewera masewera ndi vuto lalikulu. Kuonjezerapo, amakhulupirira kuti mawere ambiri, mkaka wocheperako umapangidwa mmenemo. Omwe amakhala ndi nthawi yaying'ono amakhala ndi vuto lodyetsa. Ichi ndi chifukwa china chodzikondera nokha kuti ndinu ndani. Omwe ali ndi mabere aang'ono ndi osavuta: mukhoza kuchita chilichonse chimene mukufuna popanda kumva zovuta zina, mungathe kuchita popanda chiwopsezo chilimwe chilimwe, chomwe chili chosavuta.

Chinthu chofunikira kwambiri ndi umunthu. Palibe munthu amene adzakhale ndi mtsikana chifukwa cha kukula kwa mawere ake, kupatulapo ngati akufuna kugonana basi. Koma kodi simudzakumana ndi munthu woteroyo? Choncho, yesetsani kukhala munthu wokondweretsa, womvetsetsa, mtsikana wokoma mtima komanso wachikondi. Werengani mabuku aluso, khalani ngati munthu, fufuzani ntchito zomwe mumakonda. Phunzirani chinachake chatsopano komanso chosangalatsa, chidzakopeka ndi inu ambiri omwe akuimira amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kusiyana ndi zomwe mumakonda. Ndipo mudzakumana ndi munthu amene adzakukondani ndi kuyamikira makhalidwe anu auzimu, osati mabere anu okha. Ndipo mwa mtsikana wokondedwa zonse ziri bwino, kotero sipadzakhalanso nkhawa, amuna ngati mtsikana woyamba.

Choncho, chinthu chachikulu ndicho kudzidalira, osati kukula. Inde, muyenera kudziyang'anira nokha, kusamalira thupi lanu, kusewera masewero - mwachidziwikire, dzipangire nokha. Koma, ngati mabere anu ali aang'ono, ichi si chifukwa cha zovuta zatsopano. Ndikofunika kuchotsa maofesiwa. Ngati simukukondwera nokha, zinthu sizingapulumutse zovala zodzikongoletsera kapena kupanga zokhazokha. Kusatsimikizika mwa inu nokha sikunyozedwe, ndipo ngakhale kukula kwachisanu ndi chimodzi cha mabereko msungwanayo sadzawoneka wokongola. Ngati mtsikanayo akuphatikiza makhalidwe monga kukoma mtima, ubwino, kuseketsa ndi chiyembekezo, osangodzisangalatsa yekha komanso kusangalala ndi moyo - ziribe kanthu kukula kwa mabere ake. Msungwana wotero adzakondedwa chifukwa cha makhalidwe ake auzimu, ndipo chifukwa cha ichi mawonekedwe ake adzawoneka kuti ndi abwino kwambiri padziko lapansi.