Chowonadi ndi nthano za chiyanjano choyamba

Pamene tinali ndi zaka khumi ndi zinayi ndi abwenzi, tinalota kuti chikondi choyamba, choyamba chogonana, choyamba (iye yekhayo ndi wosawonongeka!) Ukwati umagwirizana ndi ife. Izi sizinagwire ntchito kwa aliyense. Koma pamene tinkakambirana nkhani zathu posachedwa, tazindikira kuti moyo ukuyenda m'njira yoyenera. Kotero, chofunika chotani kukhala mgwirizano wapamtima woyamba? Kodi mwamuna woyamba ndi mkhalidwe umene mkazi amafanizira zonsezo? Kodi ndi bwino kuyamba ndi zaka zingati? Tiyeni tiwatsimikize kapena kutsutsa zokhudzana ndi chiyambi cha chikondi. 1. Chochitika choyamba chimakhudza moyo wokhudzana ndi kugonana.
Zowona, ngati zinkakhala zolimbikitsa, ndiye kuti amayi ali ndi vuto labwino: kugonana ndibwino, kumabweretsa chisangalalo. Mkazi wotereyu amamveketsa mosavuta ndi kuunika, amapeza chisangalalo chogonana. Zomwe zimakhala zowawa, mwachitsanzo, zovuta, pamene msungwana watengedwa ndi mphamvu, amatsogolera ku zosiyana. Mkaziyo ali ndi vuto lalikulu la maganizo. Kawirikawiri amawopa ndipo amawasamala ndi amuna, amadziimba mlandu pa zomwe zinachitika. Ulonda wolimba umatsogolera ku mavuto m'moyo wogonana. Mzimayi wotero nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi vaginismus, ndiko kuvomereza kosavomerezeka kwa minofu ya pelvis ndi umaliseche. Akusowa ntchito ndi katswiri wa maganizo, wogonana ndi akatswiri ena - oyambirira, abwino.

2. Kukoma kwa chipatso choletsedwa ndibwino kudziwa zaka 18-20.
Deta izi zakhala zikutha zakale - panopa nthawi zonse zimachitika kale kwambiri. Ziwerengero zimati: m'dziko lathu, 10% ya ana ndi anyamata kuyambira zaka 9 mpaka 14 agonana kale! Mabanjawa "obiriwira" - chizindikiro cha matenda m'dera.

Mabanja osagwira ntchito, mabodza ochita zachiwerewere, zachiwawa pa TV, m'mafilimu - zonsezi zimapangitsa kuti ana ayesere kuyamba moyo wawo wachikulire mofulumira. Achinyamata 40% amayamba kugonana pachibwenzi kuyambira zaka 14 mpaka 18, 40% anyamata ndi atsikana - kuyambira zaka 18 mpaka 22, ndi 10% - pambuyo pa zaka 22. Malingana ndi anthu ogonana, munthu ayenera kuchita chiwerewere pamene akukonzekera maganizo. Anzanu ofanana ndi chiwerengero sali oyenera. Malingana ndi madokotala, "ichi" chiyenera kuchitika ndi kukonzekera maganizo komanso makamaka pa chikondi. Kuvomereza mgwirizano kwa maphwando ndikofunikira. Osati bwino, mtsikanayo akamatsutsa moona mtima, ndipo mnyamatayo amamukakamiza kwa nthawi yaitali. Ndipo mtsikanayo wapatsidwa kokha "chifukwa akuopa kum'taya" kapena "osaseka ndi anzake." Ndipo Iye ndi Iye ayenera kukhala okonzekera sitepe iyi. Pamene munthu ali mu chikondi, mahomoni a zosangalatsa amaonekera - mapiritsiphini ndi hormone yovutitsa - adrenaline. Mgwirizano wotere wa mahomoni umapangitsa kukhala ndi maganizo abwino. Kukhalabe mmenemo, mtsikanayo amasangalala kwambiri ndi kugonana. Choncho, okhala ndi endorphins osagonana ndi namwali ndi osavuta komanso osapweteka - physiologically ndi maganizo.

3. Amwali atatha zaka 25 akhoza kukhala ndi mutu.
Izi siziri zoona. M'malo mwake, mavuto a maganizo. Mukapanda kukhala wopanda mlandu mpaka zaka 30, zovuta za msungwana wakale zikhoza kukula. Amagulu opatsirana pogonana amalangiza pazochitika zotero kuti athe kuchepetsa zofunikira kwa amuna. Kenako kupeza zovuta kungakhale kosavuta. Pamapeto pake, iwe suli wangwiro. Komabe, pali anthu amene ali mochedwa kuti akule bwino pogonana ndi ena onse. Amayi ndi abambo amenewa amafunika thandizo lachipatala.

4. Zovuta zowonongeka!
Izi ndi zoona. Ndipo kugonana koyamba ndi kovuta kwa mtsikana ndi mnyamata. Kusiyanitsa kumangoganizira chabe zomwe zikuchitika: mkaziyo akufunafuna mwamuna amene watha, ndipo mwamunayo - kuti mkaziyo ndiye woyamba. Kwa amuna, kugonana koyamba kungakhale kofunikira kwambiri. Amamva kuti ali ndi udindo waukulu. Ndiponsotu, usiku woyamba kwa iye - mungathe kunena "mtundu wa mayeso." Ngati zonse zinayenda bwino - ndiwe mwamuna. Ndipo ngati ayi ... Pankhaniyi, akhoza kukhala ndi vuto la erection. Makamaka ngati kulephera kwake kudzaseka. Mnyamata woteroyo, mwina ayenera kupita kukawona katswiri. Choncho, khalidwe la mkazi limakhala ndi gawo lalikulu kwambiri. Ndikofunika kuchita zinthu mwanzeru komanso zokoma kuti mwamuna akhale womasuka.

5. Chiberekero nthawi zonse chimasowa pachiyambi choyandikana.
Kawirikawiri zimachitika. Payandikana yoyamba pali kuwonongeka kwa anthu. Koma zimakhalanso kuti sizinang'ambe, koma zimangotambasula. Iye sangathe kuphwanya ngakhale atapanga kukonda chikondi mobwerezabwereza. Kapena malovu sangathe kudulidwa kwathunthu. Mwachitsanzo, izi zikhoza kuchitika ngati mamembala a mamuna sakulowa kwathunthu, komanso ngati ziwalo za mzimayi zawonongedwa chifukwa cha kupsinjika mtima, maliseche, kapena ngakhale atayang'ana mosayang'ana mpando wachikazi. Atsikana ena (makamaka anyamata ena omwe amawoneka okondweretsa nthawi zina) amawopa kuti pa chibwenzi choyamba kumeneko padzakhala magazi ambiri. Koma izi sizikugwirizana nthawi zonse. Nthawi zambiri magazi amayamba kuchitika ngati anthu akuda kwambiri. Kaŵirikaŵiri kutaya namwali kumayendetsedwa ndi madontho angapo a magazi. Ululu ulipo, koma, monga lamulo, osati wamphamvu kwambiri. Ndipo nthawizina sizikuchitika konse. Mulimonsemo, patatha masiku angapo, m'mphepete mwa hymen amachiritsa ndipo msungwanayo samamva bwino ndi kugonana.

6. Munthu woyambirira ndi amene adanyansidwa ndi mtsikanayo.
Mfundo ndi izi. Koma mtsikanayo akhoza kumverera mosiyana. Mwachitsanzo, pa phwando la wogonana wina, wodwala wina adanena kuti atayika msinkhu ali ndi zaka 17 - pa phwando loledzera ndi bwenzi losadziwika limene sanawone. Koma mwamuna wake woyamba, amaganizira mnyamata wina, yemwe anayamba kukomana naye zaka zingapo chichitikireni izi. Akatswiri opatsirana pogonana amalongosola izi monga chidziwitso chakuti akazi ena amagwiritsa ntchito "kudzidzinyenga." Iwo okha amasankha munthu amene angaganizire poyamba ndiyeno amakhulupirira moona mtima. Ndipotu, kugonana kumagwira ntchito yofunikira kwambiri nthawi zina kuposa thupi lokhazikika.

7. Chochitika choyamba cha kugonana chimakhala chosaiwalika kwambiri.
Palibe kanthu kotere. Mayi adzafanizira amuna ake, osati kuti wokondedwa woyamba adzaima pamwamba pamwamba pamtunda. Wokondedwa yemwe sungaiwalike akhoza kukhala kwa iye osati munthu amene anamwalira ndi namwali wake, koma yemwe adamukonda osati ndi thupi, koma ndi moyo. Mwa njira, zomwezo zimagwirizananso ndi kugonana kolimba. Ena mwa akazi awo amakumbukira amuna onse moyo wawo, ndipo ena sangathe kukumbukira kanthu - nthawizina, ngakhale dzina lawo ...

8. Pa nthawi yoyamba yachikondi kapena yogonana ndilofunikira.
Izi zimachitika m'mafilimu kapena m'mabuku ocheperako: "ndizo zogonana kwake koyamba ndipo adakwera kuchokera kumtendere kupita kumwamba," adamva kuti munthuyo akukhudza "mphukira" yake yoyamba - ndipo thupi lake linadzazidwa ndi chisomo ngati nthawi yomweyo zikwi zambiri za maluwa okongola anaphuka ndipo mamiliyoni a agulugufe adakweza mapiko awo. " Mwamwayi, nthawi yoyamba yotsutsa mwina siibwera, kotero musayembekezere izo pachabe. Msungwana akhoza kukhala ndi chisangalalo kuchokera kumayambiriro a caresses kapena kumaliseche. Chiwalo chingabwere pambuyo pake, ndi kufika kwa chidziwitso cha kugonana. Komabe, zosangalatsa za kugonana - lingaliro ndilololera komanso lokha. Kotero, ngati mwakhala mukukumana ndi chigawenga kwa nthawi yoyamba, ndizo zokha kuti muzisangalala.