Kotero, inu mwapeza kuti wosankhidwa wanu ndi wokondedwa wabwino. Zidzakhala zikuwonekeratu ngati ali ndi chibwenzi cholimba. Kuti muchite izi, ndikwanira kumvetsetsa udindo umene mwamunayo akufuna kupanga chikondi.
«Amishonale Pose»
Ngati mwamuna amasankha kugonana ngati mmishonale, ndiye kuti ndi bwino kumvetsera. Mwinamwake kugonana kwa chigonjetso ndi malingaliro oopsa a izo ndipo osayitcha izo, koma kuti izo zidzakhala zodalirika ndipo inu mukhoza kuchita kachiwiri - mosakaika. Monga lamulo, amakwaniritsa malonjezano ake, makamaka ngati sakusamalirani, amabweretsa nkhaniyo mpaka kumapeto, ndikukhazikika, sangakugwetseni chifundo. Ndi amayi a ntchito ya kulenga, njira zake kawirikawiri sizikuphatikizapo. Prihotliv mu moyo wa banja, koma sapita mopitirira malire. Afunseni kuti mum'phike msuzi ndi zipatso zowonongeka, monga mayi, koma mbale zowonjezereka sizikufunika. Samasintha maganizo ake, amakonda kukhala mtsogoleri.
«Pose wokwera»
Munthu wotere pafunso - "mumasuka bwanji" nthawi zambiri amayankha - "inde, sindinasokoneze." Ngati pangakhale mawerengedwe padziko lapansi kuti adzilemekeze, mosakayika mosakayikira adzakhala pamwamba khumi. Iye amachedwetsa, amakonda kukonda nthawi kulankhula za mtendere ndi moyo wamba. Osadziŵa kuti chikondi chake pa chatter ndi cholakwika. Wonyada kwambiri, iwe ukhoza kunena, narcissistic. Amatha kukhazikitsa njira zonse (ena akuganiza molakwika kuti ichi ndi chizoloŵezi chachizolowezi komanso chikhumbo chochita zonse mwa njira zawo, koma munthuyo akungoyang'ana njira yaying'ono yothetsera mavuto). Amapeza zosangalatsa zenizeni pamoyo, ngakhale kuti si zabwino. Nthawi zonse amapeza spoonful mu mbiya ya uchi.
«Pose wa supuni»
Mwamuna yemwe amasankha kukondwera mwanjira iyi, nthawi zambiri amazindikira dziko lozungulira iye molakwika. Zikuwoneka kuti onse ndi achiwawa ndipo ali ndi cholinga chobisala mavuto. Mavuto amenewa nthawi zambiri amathetsedwa ndi mkazi, momwe amamukondera ndi kusungunuka popanda tsatanetsatane. Mkazi amamuyimira chitsimikizo, kuti mu moyo uno chirichonse sichinataye, ndipo china chake chikhoza kuyembekezera. Iye sakonda kusonyeza chilakolako, ngati chifukwa chakuti satero nthawi zonse. Zatomozhchina wokonda kwambiri, wokonda pabedi ndi kupitirira ndipo akuwonjezeka maganizo. Maganizo sakonda kulengeza. Panthawi yovuta, mukhoza kumvetsa chisoni, ndikuthandizani kuthetsa mavuto. Komabe, musaganize kuti kukulitsa kukhudzidwa kumamupangitsa kukhala wosatetezeka. Kawirikawiri, mtundu uwu umawerengera zinthu pazinthu zambiri kutsogolo komanso umakhala ndi maganizo oyenera. Amuna amenewa amakhala abambo abwino, kulera ana awo ndi amuna okongola kwa akazi awo, okonzeka kukwaniritsa zosowa ndi zofuna zirizonse za wokwatirana.
"Kumbuyo kumbuyo"
Osati mtsikana aliyense ali woyenera mtundu uwu. Mwamuna amafuna nestolko kugonana, komanso mwayi wakulamulira, kusonyeza kuti iye, mkulu, ndi onse ayenera kuchita momwe iye akufunira. Zosangalatsa zoterezi zimapangidwira kwambiri kuposa cognac iliyonse. Kawirikawiri, akuyang'ana mkazi yemwe ali wokonzeka kukhala mayi wa nyumba ndipo sanganene mawu otsutsana ndi zisankho zomwe wapanga molondola. Nthawi zina zimakhala kuti mkazi sakusowa iye konse, chipewa cha mapazi pa chidzudzulo chake chimadzaza. Munthu wotereyo amakhulupirira yekha, amasunga zonse mwachangu ndipo makamaka mofunitsitsa amatsimikizira nkhani yosamvetsetseka. Ngati mwakumana ndi munthu yemwe mmalo mwa chibwibwi amasonyeza chikondi, makamaka, pamaso panu - munthu wosadzidziwa yekha. Komabe, amayesa kubisa zonsezi molimbika, koma nthawi zambiri samapambana.
Kuimirira (mwamuna atagwira mkazi m'manja mwake, mkazi amaika miyendo yake pamapewa a mnzakeyo ndi zina zotero)
Munthu wotereyo sadziwa chimene akusowa. N'zoonekeratu kuti m'kugonana amafunikira chiwonetsero, koma muzinthu zina za moyo simuyenera kuyembekezera zachinthu chomwecho. Udindo umamufikitsa ku mantha, omwe amawopsya kwambiri. Amakonda kutenga zoopsa, amakhulupirira kuti munthu ayenera kukhala wosangalala. Pa nthawi imodzimodziyo, amatha kuwononga miyoyo ya atsikana osiyanasiyana, chifukwa nthawi zonse "sikumphweka" ndipo "ndi kovuta kufotokoza." Amakonda mavuto ambiri ogonana. Choyamba, iwo amapanga manja awoawo, ndiyeno amasankha mwanzeru. Nthaŵi zonse amakhala ndi ndege yopuma yopanda mpata kotero kuti muli ndi mwayi wobwerera.