Malangizo 8 a Kupambana kwa Amuna

Sikuti nthawi zonse mumawonekera ngati mumakhala opambana komanso otchuka pakati pa anthu. Chofunika kwambiri, momwe iwe udziwonetsera wekha, kodi iwe ukhoza kusonyeza ulemu wako. M'munsimu muli malangizo angapo okhudza momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito mwayi kwa amuna.

1. Choyamba, udindo wa mkazi ndiko kukonzekera bwino. Zilibe kanthu kuti mawere anu ndi angati kapena kuti misomali yanu yayitali bwanji - muyenera kusamalira ndi kudziyang'anira nthawi zonse. Khungu liyenera kukhala lofiira ndi labwino, loyera tsitsi, zovala zoyera ndi zoyera, ndi kupanga zachilengedwe. Amuna amakopeka ndi kudzikongoletsa ndi chikazi, ziribe kanthu zomwe mumaganiza za inu nokha. Ndipo ngati mukuwoneka ngati zana limodzi, ndiye kuti mwachidziwitso sichidzadziwika;
2. Werengani momwe mungathere. Mabuku, monga mukudziwira, ndiwo gwero la chidziwitso, zomwe ambiri simukuziganiziranso. Zomwe mwawerenga kale ndi inu, zimasinthidwa ndi chidziwitso chofunikira komanso chothandiza, ndipo chikhoza kuchitika pa nthawi yoyenera pamoyo. Musaganize kuti kuŵerenga ndiko kutaya nthawi, werengani mozama momwe mungathere mabuku - sayansi, luso, zamatsenga. Tikukutsimikizirani, zoyesayesa zanu sizidzakhala zachabechabe, ndipo ngakhale patapita zaka zingapo mumadziwa kuti muli ndi katundu wambiri komanso wofunika kwambiri.
3. Khalani ogwira ntchito momwe mungathere. Musakhale pakhomo pabedi - nthawi ino ingagwiritsidwe ntchito phindu lapamwamba pa chitukuko chakuthupi ndi chauzimu. Lembani ku masewera olimbitsa thupi, kuyamba kuvina, kupita ku mapepala ophika zakudya kapena chinenero china - mwa mawu, yesetsani ntchito zambiri zomwe zingatheke. Kuchokera pa zonse zomwe mwayesera, inu, mwamsanga kapena mtsogolo, mudzapeza ntchito yomwe mumakonda, yomwe mungathe kudzipereka ndi mtima wanu wonse. Ndipo khulupirirani ine, munthu yemwe amadziwa kutengedwera ndi chirichonse, nthawi zonse amachititsa chidwi ndi ena (popanda kungokhalira kutengeka kwambiri) - kulikonse kumene muyenera kupitirira). Amuna sawakonda omwe alibe maonekedwe, amayamikira chilakolako cha amayi;
4. Yesetsani kukhala omasuka komanso ovuta kulankhulana. Musataye mavuto anu kwa mwamuna, payekha - mwamtendere komanso mopanda madandaulo mumupatse malangizo. Inde, pali nthawi pamene mukufuna kulira, koma ndi kofunika kuti mutenge nokha. Sungulani mobwerezabwereza - amuna ambiri amayamba kukondana ndi kumwetulira kwa mkazi. Mkazi amene ali ndi mphamvu zowonjezera amatha kukhala ngati mwamuna. Ngati nthawi zonse mumakhala ndi nkhope yosasangalatsa kapena yosangalatsa, simungathe kukonda chidwi cha amuna. Musasokoneze kukoma mtima moona mtima ndi grin yopanda pake. Muyenera kumwetulira osati ndi milomo yanu, koma ndi moyo wanu;
5. Gwiritsani ntchito bwino - muyenera kukhala okongola ndi okoma mtima. Musagwedezeke, musayese kuthamanga ndipo musamachepetse mutu wanu. Mwamuna aliyense amasangalala kuyang'ana mtsikana amene akuyenda movutikira komanso mosavuta, ngati kuti akuyenda pansi. Gwiritsani ntchito m'chiuno mwanu, pangani kukwera kokongola - kosavuta, koma kofunikira;
6. Amuna ambiri amadziwa kuti nthawi zonse amawakonda akazi omwe ali ndi maso awo, ngati "ziwanda". Ndipo sizikugwirizana ndi kapangidwe ka maso. Ziri zovuta kunena motsimikizika zomwe ziri mu lingaliro limenelo zomwe zimatikopa ife ndi zomwe zikusowa mwa zomwe zimawoneka kuti palibe moyo ndi zowola. Koma kumbukirani kuti maso ndi galasi la moyo. Ndipo usaiwale kukhala wokondwa, wodalirika ndi wolimbika - ndiye iwe udzakhala ndi amuna oterewa;
7. Dziwani momwe mungamvetsere ndi kuyankhula. Ndikofunika kukhala womvera wabwino, yemwe adzatha kumvetsera komanso kuthandizira, komanso wolemba mbiri wabwino yemwe amadziwa momwe angakhudzire mutu wake wosankhidwa ndikuthandizira zokambiranazo. Muyenera kukhala chithandizo chosamvetseka ndi kuthandizira mnzanuyo, pokhala ndi nzeru yomweyo komanso wochenjera, kuti asatope ndi inu;
8. Dziwani mmene mungavalidwe zovala zokongola komanso zokongola. Nthano yofala kuti munthu samasamala zomwe mkazi wavala, ngati atatha kale kumukonda. Sankhani zovala kuti mugwirizane ndi ulemu wawo wonse momwe mungathere, kuti mupeze chinachake chomwe chidzakulekanitsani pakati pa akazi ena, ndipo musawope kusintha ndi kuyesa. Yesetsani kuphatikiza mafashoni osiyanasiyana, kuyesa kukhala osakayikira komanso nthawi imodzi yokongola.