Zoonadi, chochitika cha chiyanjano choyambirira pakati pa mnyamata ndi mtsikana sichidzatha ndi ukwati, zikondwerero zadziko komanso kubadwa kwa ana. Kawirikawiri amathera phokoso, chifukwa achinyamata sakhala okonzeka kutembenuza miyoyo yawo madigiri 180 ndikuyambanso mwatsopano, ngati kuti kuchokera ku slate yoyera. Winawake sanapite, wina sakanatha kuchita zozoloŵezi zachilendo za theka lake, wina sadakhutike ndi kuti ubale weniweni unachotsa ufulu wake wamtengo wapatali - ndipo adafunanso kumasula. Koma uwu ndiwo moyo, ndipo ubale woyamba ndi wofunika kwambiri, kuti apatseni lingaliro la moyo, udindo, ndi momwe izi zingakhudzire chikondi (ndipo zingatheke?).
Izi ziri m'moyo mwanu mphindi yabwera pamene simukukhutira ndi kuyenda pansi pa mwezi masiku atatu, pamene tsiku lomwe mumakonda limakupatsani nthawi. Nabili nosminu makoswe a chokoleti, omwe analandiridwa mwakhama pamisonkhano yawo yoyamba ndi misonkhano. Kutopa ndi kugona tulo, kumangirira mtsamiro, wokha, pabedi lozizira. Otopa asanagone kuti alembe mauthenga ambirimbiri za chikondi chake chosatha. Ndipo kotero inu mukufuna kukhala pafupi nthawizonse, kumakomana naye kuntchito, mukamukonzere iye chakudya chamadzulo. Funsani zomwe zinamuchitikira tsiku lino, kuti muwone momwe akumira mozama ku sofa pambuyo pa ntchito yovuta ya tsiku. Muzimupaka misala yotsitsimula ndikukambirana za mtundu wa mnyamata yemwe muli naye, wamphamvu ndi wanzeru. Pewani tsitsi lanu ndi manja anu, kupuma mpweya wanu wokondeka ... Ndipo musanagone, musalembere mapemphero aatali, koma modzichepetsa muwagwedeze m'kamwa mwanu, mukumva kuti mtima wanu umagunda mofulumira komanso mofulumira ndi mawu anu. Kuti amve yankho lake losaoneka mwa njira yomwe iye amakulowetsani mmanja mwake, akuphimba nkhope yake ndi kupsompsona ... Inde, amabwera mu moyo wa aliyense wa ife mphindi yomwe nthawi zambiri mumangofuna izi ndipo ndizo.
Mukuona mosangalala zomwe anachita - ndikuganiza kuti ndi wokonzeka kukhala pachibwenzi, amadziwa kuti sangakhale ndi moyo popanda inu komanso tsiku, ndizovuta kuti achoke pakhomo panu. Nthawi zambiri amakuitanani yekha, kuti mukhale naye usiku wonse, komanso mutadziwa makolo ake. Kapena kubwereka nyumba ndikukhala mosiyana ndi aliyense, mu ngodya yanu yakumwamba, yokondwa ndi yotsitsimula. Ndipo iwe umapereka kuvomereza kwako, osati kukayikira, chifukwa iye amangomveketsa zomwe inu mwakhala mutalota kale!
Ndipo tsopano inu mumapeza chisa choyenera ndikusunthira mmenemo, wodzaza ndi chiyembekezo cha tsogolo losangalatsa. Inu, ndithudi, mukudziwa kuti ubale weniweni pakati pa mnyamata ndi mtsikana ndi siteji yatsopano pakukula kwa chikondi chanu, kutsogolo kwakukulu, kukhala ndi udindo komanso osati ana. Ndipo inu, zikuwoneka, ndi okonzeka kuchita izo, ndinu otsimikiza za mphamvu zanu komanso kuti chikondi chanu chidzathetsa zopinga zonse zomwe zingayime pa moyo wanu.
Poyamba mumakhala moyo mumtima, yesetsani kuti musalole kuti moyo wanu udye chikondi chanu. Mumayeretsa palimodzi, tsiku lililonse mumapambana kukhitchini, kukondweretsa okondedwa anu ndi chakudya chosayembekezereka. Iye samayiwala kukupatsani maluwa ndi kubweretsa khofi kugona, iye akugwirabe mwachidwi mawu anu okhudza chikondi ndipo samatopa ndi kutsimikizira maganizo ake. Kwa Loweruka ndi Lamlungu mumachita masewera olimbitsa thupi ndipo simukhala pakhomo, koma yesetsani kukhala ndi nthawi yokondweretsa komanso yopindula. Kamodzi pa sabata, abwenzi anu onse amasonkhana m'nyumba mwanu kuti akonze phwando lokhala phokoso ndikufika kumapeto.
Ndiye pang'onopang'ono kusangalala kwanu kumakhala kosasangalatsa. Ngati mwezi watha iwe sungathe kukhala mu makoma anai, koma tsopano ndiulesi kwambiri kuti ukhale palimodzi penapake. Zikuwoneka kuti zonse zomwe mungakhale nazo - mwaziwona kale. Mu cafe simukufuna. Mu kanema - nayenso. Kotero iwe umangogona pabedi, kukumbatirana, ndi kuwonera TV. Kapena muzisinthana mutakhala pa kompyuta. Kapena ... kawirikawiri, pali zambiri zomwe mungasankhe, koma onse ndi apakhomo.
Ndiye inu mumakhala okhumudwa ndi zonyansa zotere mu moyo, inu mukufuna kuti muzisangalala ndi anzanu abwenzi momwe inu mumayendera kuyenda mu usiku usiku, ndipo kenako mukakumana ndi mdima wonyezimira pa gombe. Akufuna kukonzekera shabashka mumng'oma wa abwenzi, kuchuluka kwakumwa mowa ndi kusewera bowling kapena mabilididi. Koma simungakhoze kuzindikira maloto anu, chifukwa panyumba inu mukuyembekezera kuyeretsa, pali phiri la zovala zonyansa mudengu, ndipo palibe china chokonzekera chakudya. Iye samapita kukakwera ndi abwenzi kuchokera ku mgwirizano.
Zimatengera nthawi yambiri, mumayamba kukhumudwitsa kwambiri ntchito zapakhomo. Pa nthawi yomweyi, munthu wokondedwa nthawi zambiri akamaliza ntchito amakhala ndi abwenzi mu cafe kuti athetse mavuto pambuyo pa ntchito ya tsiku. Mumabwezera chibwenzi chanu, amakatengera botolo la vinyo pamodzi ndi inu - ndipo mumakonzekera zokambirana za psychoanalysis, zomwe zikuphatikizapo zodandaula zovuta za "moyo woterewu." Chibwenzicho chimakugwiritsani chifundo ndikukutsanulirani mochulukira, mofananamo kufotokoza za momwe dzulo adayambira ndi atsikana usiku. Ndipo inu mumadzigwira nokha mukuganiza kuti ndinu achisoni kwambiri ndi ufulu wa kuyenda kwawo. Ndipo iwe umasankha, popanda kuchitapo kanthu pa chirichonse, pita kukayenda.
Pamene munthu wongopeka akubwera kunyumba ndipo sakupeza pomwepo, amayamba kuitana, ndipo mukamva kuti muli mu klabu ya usiku, mwakachetechete mukukwiya ndi kunyalanyaza kwanu kwa iye: mungathe bwanji, chifukwa ndilibe chakudya? Kulimbana kumayambira, komwe kukupitirira pamene mukuyendetsa pakhomo la nyumba ... Ndipo ngati mutalola zinthu kupita okha, posachedwa mudzatayika ubale umenewu, zomwe mungadzanong'oneze nazo chisoni.
Izi, ndithudi, ndi imodzi mwa njira zomwe mungapangire moyo wanu mukatha kusankha chisankho cholimba. Chilichonse chimakhala chosiyana kwambiri, makamaka ngati anthu ali okonzekera zomwe akuyembekezera. Mulimonsemo - chibwenzi choyambirira sichoncho chiyeso cha chikondi cha mphamvu, komanso kuyesa kwenikweni m'moyo, mutatha kunena kuti ndinu munthu wamkulu komanso wochenjera, kuti mwakonzeka kufunafuna zinthu zina zovuta ndikupirira nthawi zina , phunzitsani wokondedwa wanu ndi kusintha nokha, ngati zinthu zikufunika.