Aliyense amafuna kukonda ndi kukondedwa. Ndipo alole akaziwa kunena nthawi zikwi zambiri kuti iwo samasowa amuna, pamtima, mkazi aliyense akulota kuti ali wofunikira, wofunidwa, wopambana komanso wodabwitsa kwambiri. Inde, ndizochepa komanso zophweka, mwinamwake, zatha. Koma pambuyo pake, akazi onse anali kamtsikana kakang'ono, omwe anakulira m'nthano za akalonga. Amuna okongola kwambiri, okoma mtima ndi omvetsa bwino omwe angakukondeni kamodzi ndi moyo wonse, ngakhale kamodzi popanda kuchiwona. Inde, moyo ndi chinthu cha pragmatic. Sipadzakhalanso kuwala komanso kochititsa chidwi, ndipo pakati pa anthu amakono sitingathe kukomana ndi kalonga. Zoonadi, kwinakwake zonse-zitsanzo zosiyanazi, koma zimakhala zosavuta kwambiri m'maganizo athu, monga nkhumba ndi tiger-toothed tigers. Amuna amakono samaganizira za chikondi. Iwo anakhala achinyengo ndi pragmatic. Ndi chifukwa chake, nthawi zambiri atsikana akudzifunsa okha: chochita chiyani kuti mwamuna azikonda kwambiri?
Monga sikuli zowawa kuvomereza, koma anyamata amakono ayenera kusunga. Pali mayesero ambiri m'dziko lathu lapansi, ndipo iwo, amuna athu, amakhala okonzeka kwambiri kuti musakhale ndi nthawi yowunikira diso, monga kale sililizungulira. Ndicho chifukwa chake, kuti musunge munthu amene mumamukonda (ndipo mumamukonda, chifukwa palibe amene angasokonezeke chifukwa cha osakondedwa ndi zosafunika) pazochita zanu zonse ndi zochita zanu, mumayenera kulankhulana ndi chikhalidwe chawo choyambirira.
Munthu aliyense mu solo ndi msaki. Ndipo mkazi kwa iye, iyi ndi yemweyo yemweyo, imene iye anali kuthamangitsa mapiri ndi dales zikwi ndi zaka zikwi zapitazo. Ndipo atangomulandira, atangosiya, nthawi yomweyo, chidwi chinatha. Choncho ndi akazi. Ine ndinalibe nthawi yoti nditsegule izo, khulupirirani, ndizo zonse. Iye ndi wotopetsa, wosasamala, ndipo akuyang'ana kale nyanga yatsopano. Chomwe tingachite kuti munthu azikonda kwambiri - iye amasangalatsidwa ndi owerenga athu
Ndicho chifukwa chake, lamulo loyamba losalembedwera likuti: musatsegule okondedwa anu kwathunthu. Simukusowa kumuuza zonse biography, dziwani za sitepe iliyonse, yang'anani zokambirana zonse foni. Zoonadi, izi sizikutanthauza kuti muyenera kusewera achinsinsi, kubisala foni yam'chipinda chosambira ndikuyankha mafunso onse mwamtendere. M'zinthu zonse muyenera kudziwa chiyeso.
Nthawi zina siziyenera kutchula chilichonse, musayambe poyamba kukuuzani zomwe zinachitika tsiku lina. Inde, ndi chubu, mwa njira, simungathe kutenga. Nthawi zina. Kupsya mtima kwa nsanje sikungasokoneze. Okondedwa wanu ayenera kukukhulupirirani. Koma panthawi yomweyi, musakhale otsimikiza ndi mtima wonse kuti mudzakhala kosatha ndipo sichidzasintha kanthu.
Ili ndilo lamulo lachiwiri: musapereke kwathunthu. Simukuyenera kubwereza tsiku ndi tsiku kuti ndi moyo wanu, mpweya, chakudya ndi madzi. Simusowa kutsimikizira wokondedwa kuti mudzakwaniritsa pempho lililonse. Ngakhale kuvulaza kwake. Ngati mwawonekeratu kuti popanda izo simungakhalepo, ngati simunayambe mwadzidzidzi, potero mutaya chidziwitso chanu, ndiye mutangokhala chinthu chake. Ndipo ngakhale zinthu zomwe mumakonda zimakhumudwitsabe. Ndipo pamene akusewera inu, ndichedwa kwambiri kulira ndi kufunsa: choti muchite kuti munthu azikonda zambiri. Chifukwa chikondi chachoka kale.
Mwa njira, za chikondi ndi mawu ake. Funso limeneli lingakhale lolamulira atatu. Sindikufunikira kupeza mafunso awa: "Kodi mumandikonda?", "Ndiuzeni chifukwa chiyani mumakonda kulankhula za chikondi?", "Sindikukufunani?", Choncho, psychology ya amuna ndi yosiyana kwambiri ndi yazimayi. Anyamata amatsimikizira maganizo awo ndi zochita kusiyana ndi mawu. Ndicho chifukwa chake, samangomvetsa chifukwa chake kunena zonse zikaonekera. Ndipo kuthamanga kwanu kumangowakwiyitsa.
Ndipo ife titembenuka kuti tilamulire zinai: musati mulole. Musamangokakamiza chikondi, musamapangitse maganizo, musamangokakamiza. Makamaka oyang'anira. Mukudandaula ngati akuvala bwino, kaya adya bwino, am'gulitsire tekesi, kuti achoke ku phwando lomwe anali nawo ndi abwenzi ake. Kodi mukudziwa kuti ndinu ndani? Ndiwe amayi. Kodi mukufunikiradi mwana wamsinkhu wamkulu yemwe sangakhale wamtengo wapatali, akukonzekera masewero ndikukuchititsani inu, podziwa kuti mudzamukhululukira? Ayi ndithu.
Muyenera kukhala mfumukazi, yomwe imateteza, zomwe amadandaula ndi zomwe akuopa kutaya. Kumbukirani: amadandaula za munthu wokondedwa wake, ndipo kumudalitsa ndi zinthu zosiyana kwambiri. Muzinthu zonse muyenera kukhala ndi golidi wotanthauza. Chimodzi chimene timayankhula mu lamulo lachisanu: kuletsa. Maganizo anu onse akhale ngati nyanja m'nyengo yabwino, pamene mphepo yamkuntho imayambitsa mafunde ang'onoang'ono kumbali. Ndipo ngati mafundewa akulowa mu mthunzi wachisanu ndi chinayi - liwuzani langizo. Chifukwa mwamuna wanu akumumenya kale mu mabelu onse. Anyamata samayimirira ndipo amawopa kuwonetsa maganizo. Kaya ndi chikondi, chimwemwe, mkwiyo kapena misonzi. Khalani anzeru. Mukufuna kutsegula amatsenga - bwino kuchoka m'chipindamo, kuyenda, kuchita chilichonse kuti chisoni chichoke. Amuna ali ndi nkhawa kwambiri chifukwa cha bata, bata. Koma kulira kwanu kukukhumudwitsa ndikuthandizira kutembenuza zonse. Dzikumbukireni nokha kuti zingati zonyansa zoterezi zinayamba ndi mfundo yakuti iye anali wolakwa, ndipo pomalizira pake, munali olakwa kale. Choncho zindikirani.
Ndipo ingokhala dona weniweni. Mkazi yemwe akulangizira, koma sakunena, amathandiza, koma samapsereza, amamukonda, koma sagwirizana ndi chikondi chake.
Wosaka wanu ayenera kudziwa kuti nyerere imatha kutheka pamtengowo. Ayi, iye sakukonzekera kuchita izi, ndipo samamuwopa iye. Koma iye akhoza. Chifukwa iye ndi mkazi wamphamvu ndi womasuka. Iye akhoza kusunthira moyo, ali ndi mphamvu ndi maluso kuti akwaniritse zambiri. Ndipo iye sadzatayika konse ngati iye atakhala kuti ali yekha. Koma pa nthawi yomweyi, ayenera kumverera kuti mukufunikira kuthandizidwa ndi kumvetsetsa kwake, okonzeka kupanga zotsutsana ndi kuthetsa mavuto. Koma simudzakhala chidole chopanda nzeru m'manja mwake.
Amuna enieni amakonda akazi enieni okha. Ndipo ngati mukufuna kuti chikondicho chisati chizimitsidwe, nthawi zonse khalani mfumukazi yanzeru. Pambuyo pake, mkazi ndiye, choyamba, nzeru. Kotero khalani anzeru muzochitika zonse, ndipo simudzasowa kumva zowawa.
