Nthawi yovuta

Anthu onse ndi osiyana - mawu abwino, sichoncho? Koma panthawi yomweyi, ambirife tili ndi makhalidwe ofanana. Mwachitsanzo, ena ndi amawasonyeza mosiyanasiyana wa n'loonadi akuganiza kuti amamudziwa moyo wabwino, kumvetsa bwino anthu, zinthu, zojambulajambula, kugonana, kapena kuphika - si zofunika. Malingaliro a anthu awa pa inu ndi zochita zanu nthawi zonse ndi ofunika, ndipo nthawi zambiri izi sizidasungidwa ndi inu, koma makamaka kufuna kukudziwitsani za izo. Muyenera kukonzekera izi, chifukwa chidwi cha wina aliyense chimakopeka ndi zonse zomwe timachita. Tiyeni tiyesetse kuphunzira momwe tingachitire moyenera ndikutsutsana ndi zosafunika.

Njira 1.
Njira yoyamba ndi yosavuta yodzitchinjiriza ku kutsutsidwa kosayenera ndikumanyalanyaza. Kawirikawiri, kutsutsidwa ndi umunthu wokhawokha, makamaka otsutsa amalankhula mobwerezabwereza. Zimakhala zachilendo ngati simukuzikonda. Musamangomvetsera kwa wina amene amayesa kukupangitsani inu njirayi. Ngati simukugwirizana ndi malingaliro a wina, munthuyo adzasiya kukuyesani.

Njira 2.
Tanthauzira zokambiranazo kupita kwa wothandizira. Kawirikawiri, ngati zochita zanu sizikusowa ndemanga, ndipo simunafunse malangizo, anthu omwe ali ndi mavuto ena amalepheretsa. Funsani ngati chinachake chachitika kwa munthu, kaya akumva bwino, kaya chirichonse chikuchitika pakhomo pawokha kapena kuntchito. Izi zidzagwedeza mdani kunja kwa chiphunzitso ndikupanga zifukwa. Njirayi imagwira ntchito bwino ngati simukuopa kukhumudwitsa munthu wina, chifukwa mwina funsoli lidzagwedezeka.

Njira 3.
Sinthani mapepala a zokambiranazo. Inu mumamvetsera kutsutsa, ndi kumvetsera kuyesera zotsatira. Zimadziwika kuti mu mbiya iliyonse ya uchi pali ntchentche mu mafuta, kotero yesetsani kupanga uchi. Pokhapokha munthu amatha kuona kusinthasintha, mwakuya molunjika ndi moona mtima, pang'onopang'ono - chikhumbo chokhala mosagwirizana ndi kukwaniritsa zotsatira zabwino.

Njira 4.
Musalole kuti kusintha kusandulike. Zochita zathu siziyenera kukhala chifukwa choyesa makhalidwe athu. Izi zikutanthauza kuti ngati mutathyola vaseti, izi sizikutanthauza kuti pali nthawi yoti akutsutseni. Zochitazo sizinali zosangalatsa, koma, mwinamwake, mwangozi. Inu simunakhale oipitsitsa, ndipo izi sizikutanthauza kuti inu munali munthu woyipa.

Njira 5.
Tchulani tsatanetsatane. Otsutsa ndi otsutsa amawongolera, kukulitsa mavuto kapena zoperewera za munthu. Mwachitsanzo, chombo chomwecho chikhoza kukhala chifukwa choti: "nthawizonse mumataika." Musalole kuti generalizations monga, chifukwa zilibe kanthu ndi zenizeni. Mu moyo wathu, aliyense wa ife anaphwanya zinthu zambiri, koma izi sizikutanthauza kuti tikuswa kanthu tsiku ndi tsiku. Ndipo ichi si chifukwa chothandizira malemba.

Njira 6.
Yankhani pokhapokha. Kudzudzula anthu kaŵirikaŵiri sikukamba za mmene akumvera, osati za vutoli. Kuchokera apa, pali zowonjezereka. Mwachitsanzo, mwachedwa kumsonkhano, munthu wosakhala wodwala anganene kuti akukuyembekezerani ola limodzi, ngakhale maola atatu. Yankhulani: "Ndinangotsala ndi mphindi 15 zokha." Izi zidzakuthandizani mdaniyo kuti azindikire bwino kukula kwa "masoka".

Njira 7.
Tengerani mdani wanu ndi kuseketsa. Musangobwereranso kuzinthu zomwe mukuchita kapena simukuzivomereza, koma yesani. Makamaka ndi oseketsa ndi anthu omwe akunyansidwa ndi zinthu zochepa. Yesetsani kukhala chete, ndipo mudzawona momwe munthu yemwe akuyesetsani kukuyendetsa kunja kwake akuwoneka mopusa.

Njira 8.
Kumvetsa chifukwa.
Kudzudzula nthawi zambiri kumayesayesa inu, kuyesa kukwiyitsa mtima. Musalole kuti awakwiyitse, auzeni kuti muchita zomwe mukuziwona bwino. Lembani zochita zanu ndi chifukwa chake zikuwoneka bwino kwa inu. Ndiuzeni kuti muzinthu zina, mbali ya mphamvu ya mdaniyo imatha. Izi ndi zoona makamaka ngati mumatsutsa moyo wanu kapena nokha, osati zochita zanu.

Njira 9.
Funsanso. Nthaŵi zina anthu amaponyera mawu okhumudwitsa ndi okhumudwitsa. Mwachitsanzo, mungamve zotsutsa za tsitsi lanu latsopano. Pachifukwa ichi, zidzakhala zoyenera kufunsa kachiwiri ndikudziwitsani ngati wotsutsayo anali ndi malingaliro kuti tsitsi lake ndiloyendera ndondomeko. Kusamvetseka kwa mkhalidwe uno kudzakuvutitsani mdani wanu.

Njira 10.
Yankhulani molunjika. Musati mubise maganizo anu komanso kuti mumamvetsa chifukwa chotsutsa. Ngati munthu ndi miseche komanso amakonda kukweza mphuno zake m'mabizinesi a anthu ena, muuzeni kuti sakusangalala ndi zokambirana zomwe sizikumukhudza. Ngati munthu akuchita chinachake chifukwa cha kaduka kapena kubwezera, lankhulani mwachindunji mulemba kuti ichi si chifukwa cholankhulana. Powonjezera moona mtima ndi zokhutira kuti mudzakhala, mwamsanga mudzasiya ndewu yopanda pake.

Kuti mukhale wokonzeka kukana pazochitika zotere, kumbukirani momwe munachitira pazochitika zoterozo kuti munasowa zomwe mukufuna kuyankha kwa wotsutsa. Mukasanthula zochita zanu, ganizirani momwe mumakhalira, simungathenso kugwira ntchito ngati zimenezi. Ndipo kumbukirani: musanyoze okha omwe sachita kanthu.