Ndipo pambuyo pa miyezi iwiri kapena itatu ya kutopa kwaumtima, wokondedwayo mwadzidzidzi amatha mwadzidzidzi popanda kufotokoza chirichonse. Mukuchita mantha. "Zingatheke bwanji izi, chifukwa ndimamukonda ndi mtima wanga wonse? Chifukwa chiyani? "- pogwiritsa ntchito misonzi kumunong'oneza bwenzi lake lapamtima, yemwe watopa kale kuti amvetsere chinthu chomwecho komanso kuti akuchepetseni. Pali zonsezi chifukwa, pokhala ndi theka lathu, nthawi zambiri timakhala osadziwika ndipo timathamangira "mudziwe ndi mutu." Izi zikusonyeza kuti izi sizingakonzedwe, koma ndiletsedwe. Koma zomwe zimaloledwa ndikulimbikitsidwa kuchita, kotero kuti, pokonda ndi mtima wanga wonse, kuti ndisasokoneze mgwirizano ndi obtrusiveness, tidzakambirana za pansipa.
Kufotokozera kwapadera kwa kusaganizira
Ngati tiganizira za chikondi monga momwe amachitira mankhwala, ndiye kuti mawuwa amatanthauza matenda opatsirana omwe ali ofanana ndi zakumwa zaukali kapena moledzera. Ndipo lolani kutanthauzira sikukudabwitseni inu, chifukwa mawonetseredwe a zizindikiro ndiwonekeratu. Iwe umakhala wodalira ndipo iwe ukufuna kukhala pafupi naye nthawi iliyonse theka la ora, iwe umakhala wamantha pamene iye sakuitana, ndipo inu mwakonzeka kuti muwononge ndalama zanu zotsiriza kuti mupatse mphatso kwa okondedwa anu. Kumverera uku kumakusangalatsani, monga mwana wamng'ono, kukwatulidwa, ndipo nthawizina kumayambitsa kupanikizika kwa nthawi yaitali. Ndipo izi sizosadabwitsa, chifukwa wokonda amataya mutu wake, mwa mawu enieni a mawuwo. Izi zimachitika pogwiritsa ntchito mahomoni, chifukwa chomwe mapuloteni amachepetsa, omwe amachititsa kugwirizana pakati pa maselo a ubongo. Zotsatira zake, zochita zonse zimaletsedwa, ndipo wokonda amasanduka chipatso chomwe sichikhoza kulingalira. Kusankha mwanzeru ndikutengeka, pokhapokha mutayika kutaya okondedwa anu, osakhala konse mwa iwo. Choncho, tiyeni tiyambe kusanthula zolakwa zathu komanso za anthu ena pa mutuwo: bwanji kuti musawononge ubalewu ndi kutaya kwambiri.
Chikhumbo chophatikizana mu chimodzi
Patapita mwezi umodzi wokondana, mumayamba kuganiza kuti mwakumana ndi kalonga woyera pa kavalo woyera. Mukumuona kuti ndi woyenera pa moyo wa banja komanso kubadwa kwa ana. Choncho, kwa mphindi simukufuna kusiya ndi wokondedwa wanu. "Tili bwino kwambiri, nthawi zonse ndimalota za munthu ngati inu! "- musatopa ndi kubwereza mobwerezabwereza mukakhala pamodzi. Ndipo ziribe kanthu, wokondedwayo amavomereza mawu awa ndi kubwereza kapena ayi, ndinu otsimikiza kuti ali wokondwa.
Kuti mukhale theka la lonse, kuti muphatikizidwe mumodzi, mumatenga zofuna za munthu wanu. Penyani mpira ndi iye ndipo mumadziwe mayina a osewera, ngakhale mutakwiya: "Nchifukwa chiyani amuna okongola oterewa akuchita zopanda pake? !! !! "Koma kuyambira pamenepo zambiri zasintha, ndipo tsopano simukudziwa mayina a osewera okha, komanso akazi awo.
Ndipo mumayamba kumwa mowa, zomwe munasanza kale, pambali, mungathe kusiyanitsa kukoma kwa barele ndi tirigu. Ndipo zonsezi mumangopanga zokondweretsa okondedwa anu ndikudabwa abwenzi ake.
Langizo: Zonsezi ndi zabwino, koma zingakhale bwino ngati mnzanuyo apita kuntchito zoterozo. Vuto ndilo chifukwa cha chikondi chanu simukuwona zoonekeratu. Inu mungotembenukira kukhala bwenzi lapamtima la mwamuna wanu. Koma makamaka kale mu nkhope yanu adapeza mzanga wokondana, wachikondi, wachikazi wa moyo. Kuchokera ku mkhalidwe ndi kubwerera kumoyo wakale, zibwenzi, abwenzi. Muyenera kumvetsetsa kuti ngati mulibe zokopa zina kupatulapo iye, posachedwa simudzasangalatsa mwamuna wanu, adzakhumudwa ndi inu.
"Mtima udzanena"
Pamene tigwera m'chikondi, timayamba kukhulupirira zamtundu uliwonse monga "mtima udzanena". Zoonadi, zimangotiuza zomwe tonse timafuna kumva. Mwachitsanzo, mwatha kale kukhala pamodzi ndikulolera kupita kwa wokondedwa wanu. Koma sakufuna kukuitanani nonse. Kenaka mumaganiza kuti akuopa kukuopani inu, kuumiriza kuthamanga ndi mmawa umodzi wabwino kuoneka ndi masutukesi pansi pa khomo la wosankhidwayo. Panthawi yomwe akudodometsa pang'ono, mumapanga njira yopita ku nyumbayo, kufunafuna malo oti maluwa a nyumba azibwera nawo. Mkhalidwe wodabwitsa wa wokondedwa ukuwoneka ngati chimwemwe chosadabwitsa. Ndipo, mosachedwetsa kayendetsedwe ka kusunthira, mumakhudzidwa ndi: "Ndipo gulu langa lidzakhala kuti? "
Langizo: Kumbukirani kuti muli ndi mwayi ngati mutakhala ndipo simukutsutsana ndi theka lina! Pazovuta kwambiri, iwo adzakuwonetsani inu mwezi kapena sabata. Izi ndizo chifukwa cha chikhalidwe cha anthu, ngati mutapeza munthu wosapota, ndiye kuti mukhoza kukhala, koma amphamvu, okwiya amamva kuti akuyenera kupanga zosankha zawo okha. Kupirira kwanu kungapangitse kukwiya ndi kusamvetsetsana, chifukwa sakonda kukakamiza zochitika. Ndipo ngati mumapanga zochitika zoterezi, mukuwonetseratu zovuta kwambiri, ndizotheka kuti wokondedwa wanu adzakuponya, monga bullast yowonjezereka.
"Bukhu lotseguka"
Inu mukuganiza kuti pakati pa okonda apo sipayenera kukhala zinsinsi ndi kumamuuza iye za chirichonse. Kuyambira liti, kwa nthawi yoyamba, amayamba kukondana ndi kutha ndi nkhani yodabwitsa zokhudza kugonana kwawo koyamba. Komanso, ganizirani kuti wokondedwa ayenera kudziwa yemwe angakonde nanu nanu lero.
Ndipo kuti musayambe kugwirizana ndi munthu wokwera mtengo, mutumizeni ma sms angapo pa ola lililonse, ndikufunsanso kubwerera komweko kuchokera kwa iye. Zomwe zimaphatikizapo mauthenga awa a SMS ndi kuchuluka kwake komwe mumaphonya ndikukonda wanu "kitten". Ndiponso, mwamuna wanu ayenera kudziwa mtundu wa mapepala amene mumagwiritsa ntchito, chifukwa ngati mukudwala, muyenera kupita ku sitolo!
Malangizo: Musamanyoze mutu wa munthu wanu ndi zopanda pake. Iye sayenera kungokhala, sasowa kudziwa kuti ndi ndani komanso pamene mumpsyopsyona ndi zomwe mumagwiritsa ntchito. Apo ayi mutha kudzidzimutsa mofulumira kwambiri, ndipo adzakhumudwa nanu.
Munthu Wangwiro
Inu mukuganiza kuti munthu wanu ali wangwiro ndipo ali wokonzeka chirichonse. Pambuyo pa kuyesayesa kwa nthawi yaitali, simungapezepo cholakwika chimodzi. Mumakonda pamene akuseŵera gitala, fries ndi omelette ndi erases. ... Chabwino, zoona kuti dzulo adataya suti yanu mu makina ochapa, m'thumba mwake anali chilolezo choyendetsa galimoto, ndibwino, chifukwa ankafuna kuthandiza. "Chinthu chachikulu ndikuti iye adasamba kutsuka, ndipo chikalatacho chikhoza kubwezeretsedwa," mukuganiza.
Langizo: Pamene akazi amayamba kukondana, amakhala osasamala, amatha kuwonjezera mwakuya mwayi ndi ulemu wa amuna awo. Zodabwitsa, izi zingawononge ubale. Oimira anthu okonda zachiwerewere amakhala okonzeka kugwirizana ndi anzawo, amapanga malingaliro, motero amabisala zolakwa zawo pamaso pawo.