Mwinamwake moyo wanu wa banja unali pachibwenzi choyamba, komabe, amadziwika kuti ndi osakhazikika. Ndipo nthawi imabwera pamene muyamba kudzifunsa nokha mafunso, chifukwa chake zonse zimachitika. Ndipo kodi simunadzipatse nokha chifukwa chochepetsera chidwi cha munthu payekha? Wolemba mabuku wina wa ku France ndi katswiri wafilosofi, dzina lake Pierre Boast, anati " akazi sakhala amphamvu ngati atakhala ndi mphamvu zopanda mphamvu."
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Mungathe kukumana ndi amayi ochuluka omwe nkhope zawo ndi zokongola sizingatchulidwe ndipo chiwerengero chawo ndi chachilendo, ngakhale ... Chikazi chawo chimapangitsa iwo kukhala ofunika ndi okongola pamaso pa amuna awo. M'masiku athu, chikazi ndi chozizwitsa. Mkazi wamakono amakhala ndi moyo wokhala ndi moyo ndipo ali wopanikizika pokwaniritsa zolinga zake, kaya kumalo ochita masewera olimbitsa thupi kapena kupita patsogolo pa ntchito. Izi, ndithudi, sizoipa, koma, kodi mwazindikira kuti khalidwe lanu, gait, ndikuwoneka kusinthika? Tiyeni titembenuzire kwa omwe zithunzi zawo lero zikuwalimbikitsa ambiri kuti azitsanzira.
Kumbukirani mfumukazi ya ku Egypt, Cleopatra. Mayi wa ana anayi ndi wolamulira wa dziko lonse - kodi ndi chitsanzo chotsanzira mkazi wamakono? Panthaŵi imodzimodziyo, amadziwikanso kuti wogonjetsa kwambiri mitima ya anthu, ndipo luso lake lokhala ndi ubwino wake lapitirirabe mpaka pano, kumbukirani zolemba za Cleopatra ndi kusamba kwa Cleopatra. Koma kodi iye anali wokongola? Pa chifukwa ichi, pali maganizo osiyanasiyana. Ena amawonetsa maonekedwe ake ndi mphuno yaitali ndi chida cholimba. Zambiri zomwe zatsikira kwa ife kuyambira nthawi zakale zimanena kuti mfumukazi inali ndi malingaliro amphamvu, anali nthumwi wamkulu, ndipo mawu otsika okondweretsa amatha kuwombera aliyense. Kwa zaka zikwi ziwiri dzina lake silinasokoneze malingaliro a akatswiri akuluakulu osiyana siyana, monga Shakespeare, Pushkin, Bernard Shaw ndi ena ambiri. Zithunzi za mfumukazi, zosungidwa pa mafano ndi ndalama - ziri zosiyana ndipo sizipereka lingaliro limodzi la deta yake yakunja. Kukhala mkhalidwe wa chikazi. Cleopatra sichinthu chobisika, ndipo amabisala kwa ife umunthu wake weniweni pansi pa chophimba zaka mazana ambiri.
Ndipo ndi nthano zingati za Mfumukazi ya Sheba? Mubuku limodzi la mabuku a Talmud, Midrash, malingaliro ake ndi kukongola kwake amatamandidwa. Anagonjetsa ngakhale Mfumu Solomo. Iye adakondwera kwambiri ndi mfumukazi ya ku Sheba kuti amaganiza kuti satana mwiniwakeyo anali mchidziwitso chake. Kotero, anabwera ndi njira yochenjera kuti ayesere kulingalira kwake, poganiza kuti mmalo mwa mapazi a mfumukazi pansi pa diresiyo ayenera kukhala mbuzi zamphongo. Panthawi ya kufika kwa tsarina, Solomoni anamanga chipinda chokhala ndi galasi pansi pake pomwe nsomba inadumpha ndipo inapempha kukongola kudutse mu holo. Anadabwa pamene mfumukazi inaletsa zovala zake pamadzi, monga momwe mkazi wina aliyense akanachitira, ndipo pansi pake panali miyendo yachikazi kwenikweni, koma ma curve ndi ubweya, osati wokongola. Kodi mukuganiza kuti pambuyo pake Solomoni anataya chidwi mwa iye? Maonekedwe a mfumukazi, pamodzi ndi gulu lalikulu, aboma awiri ndi maulendo okongola aphati, adamupha pomwepo. Inde, kotero kuti chipatso cha chikondi chawo chinali mwana wawo.
Kodi chikazi ndi chiani?
Ukazi ndi mgwirizano wa chisomo, kukonzanso ndi mapulasitiki. Ukazi umadziwika nthawi yomweyo, kusonyeza kusiyana kwa makhalidwe amphamvu omenyana a munthu. Chifukwa cha mkazi wofatsa ndi wofewa, mwamuna wamapiri ali wokonzeka kutembenuka, akudziyimira yekha kuti ali wolimba komanso wamwamuna. Pambuyo pa zonse, chinthu chachikulu kwa mwamuna ndicho kuzindikira mphamvu zake. Charles Baudelaire ananenanso kuti "mkazi akuitanidwa kuti akondwere."
Kodi mungayang'ane bwanji akazi?
Chinthu chofunika kwambiri ndikugogomezera kusiyana pakati pa iwe ndi mwamuna. Perekani nsalu za amuna ndi mitundu yakuda, komanso zonse zomwe zimapangitsa kuti thupi lanu likhale ngati -magwirizano, zomangira, zovala komanso zinthu zina za zovala za amuna. Ndi bwino kuyesa ngati mutadziwa momwe mungachitire, koma ndibwino kugwiritsa ntchito njira zodziwika zazimayi - zipewa, zipewa, berets, ziphuphu zakuyenda.
Kodi simukuziganizira kwambiri? Maseka bwanji? Kodi mumagwiritsa ntchito makeup moyenera komanso mwaluso? Kodi mumapereka mayamiko kangati? Kodi amasirira chisomo ndi njira zanu? Ngati sichoncho, ndi bwino kuyang'ana nokha kuchokera kunja ndikuganiza. Akazi owongoka ndi ofatsa sakhala okha. Pambuyo pake, choyamba, amuna amayamikira ndi mabwenzi okhaokha.