M'nkhani ino tikambirana zolakwika zomwe amayi amapanga podziwa ndi amuna, ndipo tidzakambirana funso la momwe tingakhalire ndi mkazi tikakumana ndi munthu ndi ndi zolakwika ziti zomwe ziyenera kupeŵedwa. Ndiko mafunso ovuta, osakhala otetezeka kapena amanjenje, akutsutsa zoyenera zanu, ndi zina zotero. Inde, chisangalalo pamsonkhano woyamba kapena tsiku loyamba ndi zomveka, makamaka ngati mukukhala ndi chidwi ndi chidwi cha munthu. Koma kuwonetsa kwakukulu kwa iwo kumakhudza kwambiri maubwenzi. Amuna samakonda amayi achibwana amantha ndikuyesera kuwapewa. Inde, mukhoza kukhala ndi zifukwa zolingalira, koma ichi si chifukwa chokhalira mwamantha kupweteka kwa zala zanu, kusuntha phazi lanu, kapena kupotoza tsitsi lala pa chala chanu.
Siyeneranso kumanga pamsonkhano woyamba wa mapulani a nthawi yaitali, ndipo chofunika kwambiri ndikuwaponyera pamutu wa mnzanu watsopano. Makamaka ngati zolingazi zikugwirizana ndi munthu wake wodzichepetsa. Mwamuna akhoza kuopa ntchito yanu yowopsya pa nkhaniyi, makamaka popeza anthu amatha kupanga chisankho ndi kulinganiza. Aloleni iwo akhulupirire kuti iwo ndi iwo, ndipo osati inu mukuyang'anira njira ndi maubwenzi.
Kuwonetsa koipa kwambiri kwa mwamuna, ndipo kawirikawiri iwo omwe ali pafupi naye, amalankhula mawu olakwika, mawu ovuta kapena kuseka kosayenera. Sikuti mumangosonyeza malingaliro anu otsika, mumakhalabe ndi maganizo a munthu wothandizana kwambiri omwe amachepetsedwa kuti azivala, zovala zaukhondo, manicure ndi kupuma kuzilumba zakunja. Lingaliro lofala lomwe amuna samakonda akazi anzeru ndi nthano. Ndipotu, amuna amakonda, amayamikira ndi kuyamikira akazi ozindikira, amayi okhawo amawopa pamene mkazi akuwonetsa kuti ali pamwamba pa mwamuna mwa zovuta, kuwerenga, ndi zina. Ndipo izi ndi zomveka, mumavomereza, kwa munthu aliyense, mosasamala kanthu za amuna, Zimakhala zosasangalatsa akamamuyika ngati wopusa kapena wopusa.
Pochita zinthu ndi mwamuna, musagwiritse ntchito chidwi chake pa inu, musamasewere ndi anthu komanso musamachepetse ulemu wake waumunthu - palibe amene akufuna kumverera ngati chidole m'manja mwa wina. Ngakhalenso mwiniwake wa manja awa ndi wofunika komanso wonyengerera.
Mayi, nthabwala zabwino, kumwemwetulira ndi kuseka kumayambitsa vutoli bwino, koma cackling yakutchire mukugwira ntchito kwa atsikana osalimba amawoneka osayenera ndi osowa.
Kulingalira kwambiri kumakwiyitsanso mwamuna. Ndithudi, kukoma mtima kwanu ndikumvera kwanu zidzakhala nthawi zonse, koma kudandaula za imfa ya galu wanu amene mumakonda zaka 10 zapitazo kapena nthabwala yoipa pa wina kumamupangitsa kumva kumangodabwitsa komanso kusokonezeka. Kumbukirani, misonzi ya amayi ndi chida champhamvu kwambiri kuti muigwiritse ntchito pazinthu zosafunika. Apulumutseni bwino pa milandu yowopsya kwambiri, kuti abambo asapitirire pa nthawi imeneyi.
Kukhumudwa kumachititsa munthu kupfuula kwakukulu, mantha, kuponyedwa kwa makiyi, ndi zina zotero. Amatsenga otere amachotsa mwamuna ku chiwonetserochi, kusonyeza kuti simungathe kukhala ndi khalidwe labwino ndikukhala mwamtendere ndi mkhalidwe wosasangalatsa.
Musagwiritsenso ntchito mwa munthu aliyense ndikugwirizana ndi malingaliro ake onse - kusowa kwa malingaliro aumwini kumakukhudzani inu ngati munthu wakhanda ndipo mumachepetsa chidwi cha amuna. Pankhaniyi, mudzawoneka ngati chidole chokongola kwa iye, osati munthu yemwe ali ndi malingaliro pa moyo ndi dongosolo la makhalidwe abwino. Koma, pofotokozera malingaliro anu, pewani kuikakamiza anthu ena. Kumbukirani anthu angati - malingaliro ambiri.
Musamangokhalira kukumbukira ndi munthu watsopano wa anyamata ake apamtima. Amuna ndi eni ake, ndipo kutchulidwa kwa ena, ngakhale kwa omwe kale ankakhala nawo mpikisano, kumawachita, monga mtundu wofiira pa ng'ombe yamphongo ya ku Spain. Ngati mufunse poyera, munganene kuti izo ziribe kanthu, chifukwa zonsezi ndizochitika kale. Pankhani yowonjezera mafunso okhudza nambala yawo, mwatsatanetsatane muwonetsere lingaliro lodziwika kuti panali ochepa ogonana nawo m'moyo wanu kuposa momwe analili.
Musakweze mau anu pa mwamuna. Lamulo la lamulo ndiloyenera kuyanjana ndi oyang'anira okha, osati kwa wokonda, kotero peŵani mazenera m'mawu anu mukumvera. Ngati mupempha munthu kuti akuchitireni inu - tengerani madzi, mutsegule mpweya wabwino, etc. - musaiwale kuwonjezera mawu amatsenga "chonde", komanso mumthokoze chifukwa cha utumiki woperekedwa.
Madly besyat amuna ndi kuitana kawirikawiri ndi abwenzi, kukambirana nawo pafoni pa tsiku, papepala, ndi zina zotero. Pankhaniyi, munthuyo amayamba kudzimva kuti ndi wopanda pake komanso wosakhudzidwa, ndipo wataya chilakolako chopitirizabe kudziwana naye.
Khalidwe labwino kwambiri pozindikira mwamuna ndilo chidwi chenicheni kwa munthuyo komanso kukambirana momasuka, kunyalanyaza kwambiri pano n'kopanda phindu: Amuna ambiri amanena kuti manyazi amodzi mwa mkazi nthawi zambiri amadziwika ndi iwo ngati khalidwe lokondweretsa komanso lachiwerewere, ngakhale kukhala chete ngati fano sikunayanjanenso ndikofunikira.
Samalani ndi malo anu pa zokambirana - momwe thupi la thupi likuyendera kwa wogwirizanitsa limawonedwa ngati chidwi, ndi kugawidwa - monga nkhanza ndi kuwonetseratu kupambana. Mzimayi nthawi zambiri amakhala okongola kwa wokondedwa wake akakhala pamtendere ndi manja ndi miyendo yosagwirana. Kusamvana ndi chizindikiro chosadziwika cha mantha ndi kupeŵa kukhudzana.
Ndipo pamapeto pake, malangizo othandizira kuti azitha kuchita zinthu ndi amayi akamakumana ndi munthu: Ikani nokha ngati mkazi wachikondi ndi wokhoza kusangalala ndi moyo (amuna samakonda akazi omwe ali odwala ndi akazi omwe amazunzidwa), yesetsani kuwoneka okongola (mkazi wokongola mwamsanga akuukitsa munthu m'maso mwake), musasonyeze chilakolako chanu chokwatira, kukhala ndi ana ndi kukonzekera moyo waumwini, musamangomangika chitukuko cha chiyanjano chanu, samvetsetse kuti simungakwanitse (musiyeni mwamunayo akugonjetseni), muwoneke kuti muli osakondweretsa, koma moyenera, yang'anani kulankhula kwanu ndi kuganizira.