Ndicho chifukwa chake amakhulupirira kuti, kuti amutsogolere mkaziyo, ndi kuti amuthandize, kupotoka kwakukulu kuyenera kuperekedwa ku mawu a kuyamikira, kuyamikiridwa nthawi zonse, makamaka ngati apita ku adiresi ya ndondomeko yosaoneka yosadziwika. Koma kawirikawiri khalidwe ili likhoza kuwonetsedwa mochititsa manyazi. Kumbali imodzi, mwamuna amamasulira zizindikiro, monga chisonyezero cha chifundo chake, ndi chikhumbo choyamba mtundu wina wa chiyanjano, kapena osachepera pang'ono. Kumbali ina - nthawi zina manja oterewa angaperekedwe, popanda chidwi chodziwika ndi munthu wake, koma chifukwa cha ulemu kapena chilakolako cha "mafuta". Kawirikawiri zimachitika kuti kunyengerera kumadziwonetsera nokha kumbali ya malo ogwirira ntchito komwe bungwe limagwira ntchito, makamaka ngati alibe udindo wotsiriza. Izi zimachitika kuti wogonjera ali ndi chibwenzi ndi bwana, mofanana ndi kugwira ntchito yowonjezera ntchito, kuonjezera malipiro.
Koma pali njira zingapo zowunikira zolinga za momwe mwamuna amasinthira zizindikilo, ndipo ngati izi zikuteteza mbiri yake.
Makhalidwe anu.
Akazi samakhalanso osamala, kukondana ndi amuna, ngakhale ali antchito, popanda kusiyana, ali okwatira kapena osakwatiwa. Koma khalidwe lotere silili ndi chilakolako choyendetsa zinthu pang'onopang'ono kuposa kungolankhulana. Koma anthu amatha kuzindikira chilichonse mosiyana. Ndipo ilo limakhala chizindikiro cha kuchitapo kanthu.
Gawo loyamba lakutembenuza zizindikiro za munthu limagwirizana ndi chibwenzi chosagwirizana. Amagwira chitseko ndi kumwetulira, mobwerezabwereza amasangalala ndi momwe zinthu ziliri ndi inu, kugwira pa nkhani zogwira ntchito, amayamba kuwamvera, kulangiza, kuyesa kubwera kuchokera kuntchito mofanana ndi inu, kawirikawiri amaperekeza ku khomo la kutsogolo, ofesi kapena galimoto.
Musadalire kuti sichidzakanidwa. Ndipo liwiro lakupuma kwa miseche lidzadalira kwathunthu pa khalidwe lanu ndi momwe mungachitire. Ngakhale mutakhala okongola, yesetsani kuyendetsa mtunda, makamaka pazomwe mukuchita.
Pambuyo pake, amuna amatha kuonetsa zovuta zambiri, amakhalabe ovuta, koma mukuyang'ana kwambiri zomwe mukuona, kuitanira ku utsi, kusakaniza chakudya, tiyi / khofi. Ndipo iwe umangopereka kokha khungu, monga lawi la moto limatuluka nthawi yomweyo.
Ngati mwamunayo sakukondweretsa - amvetsetse izi, kapena anene molunjika. Nthawi yomweyo iye sakhala pansi, koma panthawiyi onse adzakhala ngati kale. Mwamuna adzakukhumudwitsani kwambiri, ngati mutamulola kuti adutse mzere wa ubwenzi, ndipo amakana kupitiriza.
Ndithudi, kumvetsera amuna ndizabwino, koma sikungakhale kopanda pake, ndipo n'kopindulitsa kumvetsetsa kuti ntchito iliyonse ili ndi zotsatira zake.
Makhalidwe ake.
Kawirikawiri, pokhudzana ndi chisamaliro cha anthu, nthawi yogwira ntchito ndi nthawi yoyamba, pamene akufunabe kugonjetsa mkazi. Ndiye kunyada kwawo kumachepa, ndipo chirichonse chimakhala choyesedwa kwambiri ndi wamba. Ngati wothandizira kapena wogonjera, mwadzidzidzi anayamba kupuma mwaufulu kwa munthu wanu - samalani. Malingana ndi chikhalidwe chawo, amuna nthawi zambiri amasonyeza changu chawo mwakuya komanso mwachidule, kapena pang'onopang'ono, koma nthawi yayitali. Mwamuna amene amayamba kukweza mkazi ndi cholinga chodziwikiratu, nthawi zambiri, amayesetsa kuchita mofulumira, kuti asawononge nthawi. Choncho, munthu akhoza kunena kuti vutoli ndilo mlongo wodzikonda. Ngati mumakakamizika, kuchokera kumbali ya mnzanu - sizingatheke kuti mnzanu wakutsitsimutsa malingaliro ake achinyengo kwa inu, makamaka ngati mwakhala mukugwirira ntchito limodzi nthawi yoyamba. Mwamuna, makamaka akugwira ntchito nanu kwa nthawi yayitali, adzafuna njira yochenjera kwambiri.
Mofananamo, munthu sayenera kuchita "kuthamanga", kwa olamulira. Zosokoneza zoterozi zikhoza kukhala ndi zotsatira zoipa pa mbiri yanu, ndipo zingayambitsenso kutulutsidwa. Kawirikawiri, ngati bwana "atayang'ana" pa iwe, umadzipangira nokha. Ndizotheka ndi zosiyana, koma kusintha kwa maganizo pa ntchito yanu ndiyotsimikiziridwa. Mutha kuitanidwa pachitetezo kuti mupereke ndemanga kapena kutamanda chifukwa cha ntchitoyo. Kawirikawiri zonse zimayambira ndi kutamandidwa kawirikawiri, ndipo kenako zimatsatira, "koma mumayang'ana bwanji kukambirana za tsogolo lanu?" Kusamala kumeneku kumayesedwa ndi munthu sikuyenera kunyalanyazidwa, kapena kusunga malire okhwima a akatswiri a maganizo pa ntchito.
Kumbukirani kuti munthu amene ali ndi malingaliro a inu adzakhalanso olemekezeka ndi mbiri yanu monga wogwira ntchito komanso mkazi yekha, sangakupangitseni kukumana ndi zovuta, ndipo adzakulolani kuti mutenge chitukuko cha maubwenzi kusiyana ndi ofesi. Njira yabwino kwambiri ngati nkhani zokhudza buku lanu, idzakhala nthawi yomweyo yokhudza nkhani ya ukwati wanu kapena chigamulo chokhudza kukakhala kwanu. Koma izi ndi zovuta kwambiri kukwaniritsa, chifukwa nthawi zambiri miseche imapita patsogolo.
Kutsiliza.
Monga munthu nthawi zambiri amapereka zizindikiro za chidwi, timayesa kuyang'ana zitsanzo. Koma munthu aliyense ndiyekha, wokhoza kuchita zosiyanasiyana ndi zochitika. Choncho, tikhoza kuyembekezera mwachidwi zochitika zosayembekezereka. Komanso, timakumbukira kuti kusonyeza chidwi kwa munthu sikungokhala kokha pamoyo wake, komanso mu moyo wa ntchito. Popanda izi, palibe gulu limodzi lomwe lingathe kuchita. Kuti mupitirize kulankhulana popanda kupitirira malire, komanso kuti musamapangitse kuti muyambe kuchitapo kanthu, choyamba muzidziyang'ana nokha, komanso momwe mukuwonetseratu bwinobwino. Muyenera kukhala okonzeka kumenyana kapena kupitiliza mgwirizano, malingana ndi zofuna zanu, koma osati pamaso pa ogwira ntchito. Momwe munthu amasonyezera zizindikiro, amatha kuphunzira zambiri za iye, ndikumvetsetsa momwe zidzakhalira mtsogolo, komanso ngati zotsatira zake zingakhale zovuta. Khalani tcheru ndi chidwi, kudalira intuition yanu, ndiyeno mudzapambana.