Kupsompsona ndi chimodzi mwa zinthu zoyambirira zomwe zimakhudza zomwe, ngati siziri zonse, zimadalira, ndiye zambiri zimakhala mu chiyanjano. Kodi tchimo ndiloti kubisala, ngati kupsompsona koyamba kusapambane, sikubweretsa chisangalalo kwa onse okondedwa, pali mwayi waukulu kuti msonkhano wotsatira sungakhoze kuchitika nkomwe. Koma kodi wina angaphunzire bwanji kupsompsona bwino ndipo kodi izi zingatheke mwa kuphunzira chiphunzitso chaumaliseche?
Perekani chidwi chachikulu kuchitapo kanthu.
Mosasamala kanthu kuti kupsompsona koyamba kunali luso, koyamba kugompsana kumadalira pa izo, kaya maubwenzi apakati pakati pa anthu apitirizabe kukhala patsogolo. Izi sizosadabwitsa, chifukwa ndi zovuta kuganiza kuti wina wagwirizana kuti apange zolinga za moyo wina Spartner, akupsyopsyona omwe samabweretsa chisangalalo chilichonse.
Koma kuti muphunzire kupsompsona molondola, sikokwanira kuphunzira chiphunzitso kapena kuchita kafukufuku kwa anzanu ndi odziwa nawo. Konzekerani kumasonyeza kuti kupsompsona ndi nkhani yaumwini komanso ngati wina amakonda kukhudza milomo, ndiye kuti ena amakonda kusangalala ndi chipsinjo cha ku France ndikuwona kuti chimakhala cholimbikitsa kwambiri. Koma ngati muli ndi chizoloŵezi chochita izi, koma mukufuna kukonza maluso ena, zinthu zathu zidzakuthandizira izi.
Vuto lalikulu la atsikana ndi anyamata aang'ono ndi mantha omwe palibe chomwe chidzachitike. Mantha ndi chinthu choipa chomwe chingasokoneze ngakhale ubale weniweni pakati pa anthu, kuwatembenuza kuti alowe m'zinthu zovuta zomwe, panthawi yofunika kwambiri, amaiwala zomwe akufunikira.
Pofuna kuchotsa mantha otmniemyh, nthawi zambiri pamakhala mpweya wokwanira. Enanso sali chinthu choipitsitsa - ndikuuza theka lina za mantha awo. Mwinamwake msungwana wanu kapena msungwana akukumana ndi chinthu chomwecho, ndipo inu mukutsimikiza kuti palibe chowopsya mu izi. Ndikhulupirire, ndizosavuta kuthetsa vuto limodzi. Inde, ndipo mutatha kufotokozera mwatsatanetsatane za mkhalidwewo, zikhoza kukudzidzimutsa momveka bwino kuti palibe zovuta-palibe taniki-zonse zimakhala ndi pakati. Kuwonjezera apo, kuzindikira koteroko kudzakuthandizira kulimbitsa chikhulupiriro chomwe chili chovuta kupambana pa masiku oyambirira.
Kupsompsona koyamba iye ndi wofunika kwambiri.
Ngati munthu amene mukumufuna naye, muyenera kumpsompsona kwa nthawi yoyamba, chifukwa chiyanjano ichi ndibwino kusankha malo okondana, omwe mwinamwake mungauze ana anu. Kupsinja kwa nthawi yoyamba pagulu - chifukwa chosavomerezeka kwambiri, ndi ngodya yamphongo, mwachitsanzo, benchi yayitali mu autumn park - zomwe mukusowa.
Ndipo musaiwale kuti ngati sakanatha kulemba ndi kulemba zamakono, ngati sangagwiritse ntchito chipsompsone, sangathe kubweretsa chisangalalo chilichonse.
Ngakhale kuti ena amangokonda chabe, ngati mumakhudza milomo ya mnzanu nthawi yoyamba, ndibwino kuti muzichita khama kwambiri, chifukwa kumangirira ndi kugwiritsira ntchito nthawi zambiri kumayambitsa kugonana kwa gibberish. Ngati simunakonzekeretse zochitikazi, pewani kukhumudwa koopsa.
Kupsompsona koyamba mwachangu ndizochita zokondweretsa-yesetsani kusunga nokha malingaliro anu, iwo ndi ofunika kwambiri. Kuyamba kulakalaka ndikobwino kumakhudza mwachidwi pamilomo ya mnzanuyo, mophatikizapo kukupsyopsyona chapamwamba, ndiye pamlomo wapansi ndi chomwe chimatchedwa kuti "classic version".
Chisangalalo chachikulu chimabwera ndi kupsompsona kochenjeza ndi milomo yosasunthika, pomwe wokondedwayo amatha kumva kukoma mtima kwa nthawiyo. Kupsompsona kumakhala ngati masewera omwe ojambula awiriwa amagawana maudindo ofanana, choncho ndikofunikira kutsata zomwe munthu amachita, kuyesa kumva zomwe akuchita komanso zomwe sazikonda. Ngati muwona kuti zonse zomwe simukuzichita ndizosangalatsa, mukhoza kupita ku caresses zowonjezereka, mwachitsanzo, kugwiritsa ntchito lilime pamene mukupsompsona.
Kukonzekera koyamba.
Patsikuli, chinthu choyamba chimene mumayenera kumvetsa ndi kupuma kwabwino. Ndipo ngati mutatsuka mano anu musanatulukemo, ndipo pambuyo pa theka la ora mungathe kununkhira mowavulaza pakamwa panu, mugwiritsire ntchito njira zamakono monga timbewu ta timbewu tating'onoting'onoting'ono, zopopera zapadera.
Mfundo yachiwiri yofunikira yomwe muyenera kumvetsera ndiyo khungu la milomo yanu. Ngati wouma ndi wosweka, ndiye kuti sikudzakhala zosangalatsa kuti mupsompsone. Pofuna kuti milomo yanu ikhale yokonzeka bwino, zidzakhala zokwanira kugwiritsa ntchito zipangizo zotere monga zamadzimadzi kapena zaukhondo.
Ndizo zonse zomwe mukusowa kuti mupsompsone bwino, popanda zomwe simudzakhala ndi tsiku labwino.