Miyambo ya Ukwati ndi miyambo

Ukwati uliwonse umatsatira miyambo yosiyana siyana, yomwe yasintha kwa zaka zambiri kwa anthu osiyanasiyana, koma yapulumuka kufikira lero. Tidziwa zambiri zokhudza miyambo ya ukwati: dipo la mkwatibwi, kuvina koyamba kwa okwatirana kumene, kusinthanitsa mphete, diresi loyera la mkwatibwi, kudya mkate, kuponyera mkwatibwi ndi mkwati, kufalitsa maluwa (mpunga, maswiti kapena ndalama). Mndandanda wa miyambo yaukwati ikhoza kupitilira kwa nthawi yayitali ndipo aliyense mwa iwo mungapeze chinachake chomwe chingakondweretse banja lanu. Lero tikukuuzani za miyambo yowonjezereka ya ukwati yomwe siinatayike zachikhalidwe zawo ndi zofunikira pambuyo pa zaka kapena zaka zambiri.

Chochitika chachikulu kwambiri, chotchedwa ukwati, nthawi zonse chimalonjeza kuti chidzakhala chowala komanso chokwanira. Malingana ndi umodzi wa miyambo ya ku Ulaya pali chochitika china chochepa - "chakudya cham'mbuyowo", chomwe chinkawonekera kwambiri ndi okwatirana apakhomo. Mgonero waukwati ndi msonkhano pakati pa mkwati ndi mkwatibwi, makolo awo, achibale ndi mabwenzi apamtima, kuti adziwane wina ndi mzake chisanachitike chochitika chachikulu, pambuyo pake mabanja awiri omwe ali achilendo kwa wina ndi mnzake adzakhala pafupi ndi okondana wina ndi mzake kwa bwenzi. Kodi mukufunikira kudziwa chiyani ngati mutasankha kugwiritsa ntchito mwambo watsopanowu?

• Choyamba, nthawi ndi malo a chakudya chamadzulo. Chochitikachi n'chosavomerezeka, kotero sikofunika kuchigwiritsa ntchito mu lesitilanti. Mukhoza kukonza picnic, kuchoka kunja kwa tauni kapena barbecue pakhomo. Mgonero wokongola kwambiri usanakonzekere masiku angapo asanakwatirane, chifukwa madzulo, padzakhala nkhaŵa zambiri pamaso pa tchuthi lalikulu.
• Ndani ayenera kukonza chakudya ichi? Pulogalamuyi ikhoza kukhazikitsidwa ndi makolo a mkwati ndi mkwatibwi, achibale kapena abwenzi. Chilichonse chimadaliranso ndi gulu la anthu omwe akuitanidwa kuchithunzichi, kapena ndi tchuthi kwa achibale ndi abwenzi apamtima, kapena tchuthi kokha kwa achibale, kuti adziwane.
• Kodi mungachite chiyani kwa alendo pa tsiku loyamba la ukwati? Ichi ndi chimodzi mwa zinthu zofunika kwambiri. Pamene chochitika ichi chikugwirizana ndi kugwirizana, ndiye kuti mukhoza kuganizira chilichonse, chirichonse. Mwachitsanzo, abwenzi kapena achibale akhoza kupanga zokambirana za zithunzi mothandizidwa ndi zithunzi za omwe angokwatirana kumene, asonyezeni zithunzi zawo. Achinyamata akhoza kufotokoza nkhani ya anzawo, kuvomereza chikondi chawo, kupereka malonjezo awo omwe amalembedwa wina ndi mzake. Mukhozanso kuzindikira thandizo la makolo pokonzekera ukwatiwo ndi kuwapatsa mphatso zochepa. Mukhoza kukonza masewera - amene amadziwa bwino mkwati ndi mkwatibwi. Ndipo mungathe kuyankhula ndi anthu apamtima, kambiranani zosiyana za maanja (makamaka opambana). Mulimonsemo, ndi bwino kuti okonzekera chakudya ichi agwirizane pazinthu zake, kuti asagwidwe.

Mwachitsanzo, m'mayiko ena a Kumadzulo, chakudya choyambirira cha ukwati chimatchedwa kukwaniritsidwa kwathunthu kwa mwambo waukwati, ndipo nthawi zina ngakhale phwando lotsatira.

Tsopano tidzakambirana za miyambo ndi miyambo ya ukwati pa tsiku lapadera.

• Kuponyedwa kwa maluwa achikwati ndi chimodzi mwa miyambo yosangalatsa komanso yokongola ya ukwati. Mkwatibwi amapereka mwayi kwa bwenzi lake losakwatira kuti akwatirane chaka chomwecho. Mkwatibwi ena amaponya maluwa pambuyo paukwati, ena amakondwera kuchita izo panthawi ya phwando, ndipo ena ena ali mu nsalu ya chochitikacho.
• Garter wa mkwatibwi - mwambo umenewu wabwera posachedwapa, umene uli wotchuka kwambiri paukwati. Apa zonse zimachitika ngati maluwa, koma pakadali pano, garter amachotsedwa ndi mkwati ndikuwaponya kwa abwenzi ake osakwatiwa omwe angagwire, adzakwatirana chaka chino.
• Kunyumba - miyambo yaukwati imeneyi imatengedwa kuti ndi Old Russian, chifukwa nyumbayi inkayidwa kale. Lero, nyumbayi ikuyang'aniridwa ndi amayi a mkwati ndi mkwatibwi, potero amasamutsa miyambo, chiyanjano ndi chidziwitso cha mabanja awo kwa achinyamata. Ndipotu izi zimachitika poyatsa makandulo.
• Kuvina koyamba kwaukwati, poyamba, sikumangofanana ndi mwambo, zikuwoneka kuti izi ndi chabe zowonetsa zovala ndi kuvina. Ndipotu, kuvina koyamba kwa okwatirana kumene, mgwirizano wawo, mgwirizano ndi kugwirizana zimasonyezedwa.
• Vuto lachikwati, kapena khungu lake loyera, ndilo mwambo wabwino wakale. Pambuyo pake, mtundu woyera, monga mukudziwa, ndiwo mtundu wa chiyero, mgwirizano, wopanda chilema. Posakhalitsa, akwatibwi amakono akukambirana miyambo yokhazikitsidwa ndikupanga kusintha kwa mwambo umenewu, posankha mitundu yosiyana, nthawi zina ngakhale "yopanda ukwati": kuchokera ku pinki, kirimu, minyanga ya njovu (mitundu yachibadwa ya kavalidwe ka ukwati) zofiira kapena zakuda (zomwe ziri zochepa zachilengedwe, koma ali ndi malo oti akhale).

Ndipo kumbukirani kuti tsikuli liyenera kukhala losaiŵalika m'moyo wanu ndipo ziri kwa inu kusankha kuti ndi miyambo ndi chikhalidwe ziti zomwe zidzakhala paukwati wanu, kuti tsikuli lidzaze ndi inu zokhazokha.