Kusungulumwa kwa amayi ndi zifukwa zake

Mwapang'onopang'ono munayamba kuona kuti munasungulumwa, muli ndichisoni pamtima, palibe amene angalankhulane ndi kugawana nawo. Koma vuto ndi chiyani? Nchifukwa chiani ichi chinachitika? Pambuyo pake, zinkawoneka kuti zonse zikuyenda momwe ziyenera kukhalira. Tiyeni tonse tipeze chifukwa chokhalira osungulumwa. Tsoka, amayi ambiri amadziwa vuto la kusungulumwa. Iwo mwina sanakwatire konse kapena kusudzulana ndi kulera mwana wopanda bambo ndipo samapeza ngakhale nthawi yokomana ndi amuna ... Izi ndi zomvetsa chisoni, monga mkazi yemwe wasiya thandizo ndipo chikondi chachimuna chimakhudza mwathupi ndi mwamaganizo. Malinga ndi momwe amayi amachitira akazi, omwe alibe moyo wapamtima amavutika ndi matenda a mahomoni, zoopsa kapena zosautsa m'mimba. Ndipo ponena za kukwiyitsa ndi kulankhula sikofunika, zimawoneka pa khalidwe lanu - kukhala wamanjenje ndi zoipa, mumakankhira anthu kutali ndi inu.

Nchifukwa chiyani pali chiwerengero cha amayi omwe sali pa banja omwe sanathe kukumana ndi moyo wawo? Ena amakhulupirira kuti amuna ndi ang'onoang'ono, ndipo omwe sagwirizana ndi zizoloŵezi zoipa. Kotero zimakhala kuti mukuyang'ana munthu woyenera, kuti athe kuphika chakudya chamadzulo, ndikukumana ndi ntchito, komanso amapatsa maluwa opanda chifukwa. Simukusowa kukhala osowa kwambiri, kuchotsa magalasi obiriwira, chifukwa palibe anthu abwino. Mukhoza kufufuza moyo wanu wonse, koma simungaupeze, ndipo mukakalamba mumadandaula za kutha kwa nthawi.

Simumvetsa chifukwa chake zonse zili chimodzi, ndipo palibe china chilichonse, chifukwa muli nacho chilichonse ndi inu: kukongola, luntha, maphunziro apamwamba, ntchito yabwino, koma mulibenso mwayi uliwonse ndi anthu ogwira ntchito? Ndipo mukuyang'ana madona ena, monga akunena, "palibe nkhope, palibe khungu," palibe nzeru zamtundu ndi ndalama, ndipo khamulo kadzaza. "Pang'onopang'ono, kaduka ndi kusamvetsetsana zimayamba kukumeza:" Cholakwika ndi ine? "

Kawirikawiri, amayi osakwatiwa amakhala ndi makasitomala ambirimbiri omwe ali ndi amatsenga komanso amatsenga. Koma ngati izo sizinathandize? Nanga, chiyenera kuchitanji? Choyamba, muyenera kumvetsa chifukwa cha kusungulumwa kwanu.

Chifukwa choyamba ndi chofunikira kwambiri ndi mantha a mkazi, wolimba komanso osamvetsetseka kuti amawopa ndi ubale wapamtima ndi mwamuna. Ndi mantha osazindikira kuchokera pa ubwana. Ngati amayi anu akubwerezabwereza kwa inu kuti alimi onse ali ofanana ndi mavuto okha, ndiye kuti ali mnyamata, mtsikanayo adzanjenjemera ndi mwamuna, chifukwa amapezeka kuti akhoza kukhala oopsa ndipo ndi bwino kukhala kutali ndi iye. Choncho, mkaziyo amachita zonse, komanso osadziŵa bwinobwino, osati kukomana ndi mwamuna, kusokoneza maubwenzi ake ndi kukhala yekha. Pambuyo pa zonse, zikuwoneka kuti muli chete ...

Chifukwa chachiwiri ndi masomphenya apamwamba a moyo wa banja komanso zofunikira kwambiri pa osankhidwa anu. Monga lamulo, zosiyanazi ndizofala pakati pa akazi omwe anakulira m'banja popanda bambo. Zolemba zawo zabwino za munthu zimachokera m'mafilimu kapena m'mabuku okhudza chikondi. Ndi chifukwa chake munthu wamba amadziwika ndi mkazi monga mwamuna ali ndi zolakwa zambiri. Akazi oterewa amawayerekeza amuna awo mosamvetsetseka, ndipo kenako amakhumudwa.

Pali amayi omwe, mosiyana, amayang'ana pa hafu yawo yachiwiri, kutenga ubwino wake wonse ndi kuipa kwawo. Iwo amazindikira mosamala kuti amusankha munthu wotero, koma safuna kupereka nsembe iliyonse kuti akhale achimwemwe m'banja. Kwa iwo, ufulu, ntchito ndi chuma chambiri chimabwera poyamba.

Pendani bwinobwino zolephera zanu, dziwani zonse zomwe zingayambitse ndikuyesera kuzipewa. Sinthani maganizo anu pa zonse zomwe zimachitika - musamangokhala osungulumwa, koma mukondwere nazo! Dzifunseni nokha: "Chabwino, ndi liti pamene ndingakwanitse kuchita zomwezo tsopano, ndikusangalala mpaka usiku mu klabu ya usiku, nthawi iliyonse kuti ndilowe mu ulendo wamalonda wokondweretsa kapena kupumula ndikudzipangitsa kuti ndidzipange momwe ndingathere?". Banja lidzawonekera nthawi yayitali, ndiyeno mutha kukhala ndi zofunikira kwambiri m'moyo, kotero pamene chiwonongeko chimakupatsani mphindi zamtengo wapatali kwambiri - muzizigwiritse ntchito mokwanira, kukhala ndi moyo wonse. Ndiyeno chimwemwe chidzabwera.