Kumvetsa mkazi wamakono sikovuta kwambiri, monga momwe amuna amachitira kulira. Chifukwa chaichi, sikokwanira kukwera kumutu kwake, kulowa mu moyo wake kapena kulowa pakhomo kufunafuna yankho la zilakolako zachinsinsi ndi zikhumbo zake. Zokwanira kungoyang'ana pa azimayi ndikupitilira mitu. Nkhani zomwe zikukambidwa mozama, zoposa maphunziro apamwamba a anthu, zisonyeza kuti, lero, amadandaula za akazi. Kotero ndi chiyani ichi? Ntchito, banja kapena wokongola?
Ziŵerengero zamakina a injini yafufuzidwe ndi zokambirana zambiri zotchuka zimalankhula mwa iwo eni. Izi ndi momwe chiwerengero cha machitidwe a mkazi wamakono, omwe amawerengedwa pazinthu zofalitsidwa ndi amayi komanso maulendo ambiri, amawonekera.
Kutaya thupi kwa 40,5%
Ngakhale m'zaka zana zapitazo, mawu akuti zakudya adagwirizanitsidwa ndi gastritis, matenda a chiwindi, cutlets, ndi Borjomi. Lero, uwu ndi chilengedwe chachilengedwe cha mkazi aliyense akudziyang'anira yekha. Kuyika mwakuya mu malingaliro a miyambo yambiri ya mafilimu ya kukongola ikukakamiza amayi kukhala osasunthika kuchokera ku lingaliro la mankhwala ndi kulingalira kwanzeru pa thupi lawo lomwe. "Maonekedwe abwino" amafunika kukhala ndi mphamvu zowonjezereka, chikhulupiriro mwa iwoeni, changu ndi ... nthawi. Ndipo zonsezi zimagwiritsidwa ntchito kufufuza intaneti pa zakudya ndi mazochita, kukambirana nawo kachiwiri pa intaneti kapena kuntchito, kuwerenga mabuku ndi magazini ofotokozera. Koma nthawi yochita ndi mapulogalamu ozizwitsawa, ndithudi, sali okwanira. Koma nthawi zonse pamakhala nkhani yokambirana yokondweretsa.
Osati kale kwambiri, kugwirana ndi nkhope yake, chiwerengero ndi thupi ankaonedwa kuti ndiwekha, wapamtima ndipo sadakambirane ndi aliyense. Osagwirizana ndi bwenzi, kapena mnzanu, kapena Mulungu, ndi mwamuna wake. Lero ndilo nkhani yotchuka kwambiri pazofalitsa za amai. Zoona, mochulukira amatsutsa kuwonongeka kosalekerera ndikulimbikitsa zakudya zabwino ndi moyo, koma izi zikufotokozedwa molimbika mtima komanso mwachangu zomwe ...
Ubale 22%
Nkhaniyi ndi yakale monga dziko. Chikondi, nsanje, kusakhulupirika, kutayika ... Koma ngati kale (komabe, mwa njira, m'zaka za zana la makumi awiri zapitazi), malingaliro ndi zilakolako zimakhala makamaka mu moyo kapena m'mabuku ndi zojambulajambula, zopatsa anthu mphamvu zosakhoza kufa zakusintha ndi kulingalira, koma lero ndi mkuntho Sikuti nthawi zonse chilakolako chathu cha anthu chimatipangitsa ife kukhala ndi mauthenga akuluakulu komanso intaneti. Azimayi akuwerengabe mwachidwi za moyo wa anthu otchuka komanso "anthu wamba," koma akukambirana za banja lawo komanso moyo wawo wapamtima, ndipo ena sagwidwa manyazi ndi momwe anthu akumvera komanso kukhudzidwa kwawo. Mwina iwo akufunafuna mayankho a mafunso osatha, kuyesera pazochitikira za wina, koma kunena kwawo momasuka ndi moona za oganiza bwino a m'mbuyomu adzasokonezeka. "Kukhala kapena kusakhala" mkazi sakusamala. Mosakayika, khalani. Funso ndilo, ndi ndani ndipo ali kuti? Chabwino, ndithudi, kawirikawiri, funso lotsatira limadzuka: Ambuye, nchifukwa ninji ndikusowa zonsezi ndi zoti ndizivala?
Kukongola 11%
Lero ili ndi phunziro, choyamba, za kukongola kwa kunja, osati za moyo, ngakhale amayi ndi kuziyika, ndithudi, zoposa. Timakonda kunena zachabechabe cha kuyesayesa kwabwino ngati si dziko, ndiye kuti ndi opanda ungwiro, koma kupereka chopanda pake osati gawo laling'ono la nthawi ndi njira zathu. Ife tikufuna kuti tizikonda. Ife tikungofunikira izo. Komanso, ma TV, malonda ndi makampani opanga zodzikongoletsera amadzipereka ndi kunyengerera mosavuta. Kodi ndiwe wotani? Zonse zokhudzana ndi tsitsi. Gulani shampu yatsopano - ndipo chimwemwe chenicheni chidzagwa m'manja mwako. Musaiwale manicure. Ndipo kirimu cha makwinya, kenako pa sharieja ndi ofanana! Ayi, sitimakhulupirira pa malonda. Koma ... ndipo mwadzidzidzi? Ndipo akazi amayang'ana molimbika chida ichi chomwe chimawapangitsa iwo kukhala okongola, ndipo chotero, okondwa.
Mimba 10%
Izi ndi zodabwitsa, koma nthawi yokondwa, kuyembekezera mwachidwi ndi kukonzekera maonekedwe a mwanayo kumakondweretsa akazi kuposa zotsatira zokha. Mayi am'mbuyo amadziona kuti ndi "mapiko a dziko lapansi", ndipo chiwerengerochi chimawonjezeka mofulumira, kufika pa trimester yaikulu kotsiriza. Panthawiyi, amai ali ndi nkhawa zokha za umoyo wawo, thanzi lawo, "moyo wamkati" komanso kubadwa kwa mtsogolo. Kusokoneza ndi kuiwala kuti muli ndi pakati ndizosatheka. Ndipo nthawi zambiri amayi apakati samalola kuiwala za izi kwa wina aliyense.
Nyama 5%
Inde, magazini, mawebusaiti ndi maulendo othandizira kusamalila ndi kusamalira zinyama zili zochuluka kuposa zopereka zoperekedwa kwa kulera ana. Mosakayikira, ziweto zimayenera kukhala ndi mtima wachikondi, wofatsa ndi woganizira komanso chikondi. Koma pali lingaliro laling'ono losokoneza. Ngati pali chisamaliro chochuluka komanso kukonda nyama, ndiye kuti wina akusowa. Ndipo, mwinamwake, "munthu" uyu ali pafupi kwambiri.
Ntchito yosafunika 5%
N'zosadabwitsa pa mfundo imeneyi kuti wina ali ndi ntchito yothandizira. Posachedwapa, ntchitoyi inali yofunikira komanso yachuma. Lero ndizochita zowonetsera komanso kulenga. Kudziwana ndi kukongoletsa sikunatengeke ndipo nthawi zambiri kumadodometsa akazi ndi atsikana omwe ali achangu, koma palibe mkazi aliyense ku Russia amene sanatengepo kanthu. Ndipo ngakhale chuma ndi zoweta sizinayambe pa mndandanda wa machitidwe abwino a akazi a amuna amakono, amayi nthawi zonse amayang'ana chinachake kuti agwiritse ntchito manja awo aluso.
Kuphika 3%
Izi zingakhale ntchito yosangalatsa kwambiri, koma mkazi wamakono samakonzeka kuti amupatse mphamvu ndi nthawi yochuluka. Ngati izi siziri gawo la vuto lalikulu lomwe limatchedwa "Kutaya Kwambiri". Azimayi amaganiza mozama, zomwe zimakhala zokoma komanso zothandiza kudyetsa mwamuna ndi ana. Ndipo ndikudandaula kwambiri za kalori wokhudzana ndi zakudya, zomwe zili ndi mafuta ndi zakudya komanso zovuta zawo payekha, osakhala opanda ungwiro.
Nyumba 0.8%
Ayi, ndithudi, timakonda ndi kusamalira ana athu ndikuwapatsa nthawi yokwana 17 pa tsiku lawo! Izi ndizochuluka, kuwerengedwa kwa akatswiri a maganizo, amagwiritsa ntchito mayiyo pa maphunziro a mwanayo. Kulankhulana ndi iye ndi maphunziro, osati pofuna kudyetsa, kuvala, kusamba ndi kuyenda ndi mwanayo m'masitolo. Ndife okondwa komanso okondwa kulankhula za ana athu, timasonyeza zithunzi zawo ndi zochitika zawo ndipo sitinakhudzidwe kwambiri ndi mapulogalamu a maphunziro ndi chitukuko kwa iwo, kudalira zambiri pa chilengedwe komanso zomwe zimakhalapo. Ndipo wamkulu mwanayo amakhala, osachepera ife timadandaula za iye komanso kuyankhula pang'ono. Tsoka, koma kuti mudzipatulire moyo wanu kwa abambo ndi ana ... siwotengeka.
Masewera 0.6%
Masewera amasangalatsa akazi okondeka, kachiwiri, monga, mwatsoka, gawo lofunikira la ndime yoyamba ya mndandanda wamakhalidwe abwino. Masewera olimbitsa thupi, basketball ndi hockey alibe chidwi, nthawi yayitali yopereka masewera olimbitsa thupi komanso isotonic masewera olimbitsa thupi.
Nyumba 0.8%
Nkhaniyi ngati mukudera nkhaŵa za amai, kotero kokha ponena za mwamuna wake, ndiko, monga kusiyana kwakukulu komwe kumagwiritsidwa ntchito, kulima, nthawi ndi mwamuna wake. Kuyambira nthawi yoyamba akazi akufunsa funso losavuta, chifukwa chiyani ndiyenera kuchita zonse ndekha, mutu uwu wasamuka kuchoka ku banja kupita ku gawo la anthu ndipo akukambidwa tsiku ndi tsiku. Ndipo osati kunyumba kakhitchini, komanso m'ma TV. Koma popeza funso ili, monga tatchulidwira kale, ndilo yankho, palibe yankho kwa izo ndipo silingathe. Choncho, nkhani ya moyo kumapeto kwa mndandanda wa zofunikira za amai ndipo, ndikuganiza, idzachoka pazomwe zichitike posachedwapa.
Chikhalidwe 0.3%
Lingaliro ili mu mndandanda wa nkhani ndi zofuna za akazi zimatsimikiziridwa ndi mndandanda wokondedwa, mafilimu, ma buku, nyimbo zovomerezeka komanso kwa ena onse omwe amagwirizanitsa mawu awa. Ayi, izi sizikutanthauza kuti akazi amakono alibe chidwi ndi chikhalidwe, luso komanso sayansi. Pambuyo pa zakudya zowononga, kupeza ubale ndi wokondedwa, kupita kumsika, kukacheza ndi cosmetologist, kulera ana ndi agalu, kupanga zovala, zojambulajambula ndi, Mulungu, alibe nthawi yoyeretsa ndi kuphika.
Mwina wina angazindikire kuti mndandandanda wa mitu ya nkhaniyi mulibe ntchito ndi maphunziro omwe ambiri amatanthauza lero kwa mkazi. Koma izi ndi zomveka. Akazi, omwe ali ndi chidwi ndi bizinesi ndi ntchito, monga lamulo, palibe china chilichonse cha pamwambazi chomwe sichifuna. Choncho, chiwerengero cha makhalidwe omwe ali nacho n'chosiyana kwambiri.
Mosakayikira, pali amayi omwe ali ndi zinthu zina zofunika: banja, uzimu, chikhalidwe. Sali ndi chidwi ndi zinthu zokongola, nyimbo komanso kuchepa. Koma, mwinamwake, samangouza aliyense za izi?
Wolemba: Alexandra Shatalina
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