Mukuyang'ana pagalasi, mukuganiza kuti kuti mukhale osangalala mokwanira mukufunikira miyendo yowonjezereka, galimoto imakhala yowopsya, ntchitoyi ndi yokongola kwambiri. Ndipo mumayamba mpikisano wokondwera. Wannabe - osati kukhala, koma kuwoneka. Nchifukwa chiyani tikufunafuna zabwino zomwe zimasintha ife?
Wannabe ndi chiyani? Lingaliro ili la Chingerezi lokhala ndi malingaliro oipa likutanthauza mkhalidwe pamene, popanda zoyenera, mumamatira ku chitsanzo cha khalidwe lomwe si lanu. Patapita nthawi, monga gawo la Wannabe, limakhala lolimba, ndipo chipolopolo sichitha kukhazikitsidwa. Simukula, mumangofuna kukhala. Mukufuna kuti mukhale ngati Chinyumba cha Miss, koma chifukwa chake mumakhala ngati Barbie. Pambuyo pake, wokongola, mukuganiza, aliyense amakonda.
Ndipotu
Inde, muyenera kudziyang'anira nokha, zimakupatsani chidaliro ndikusunga thanzi lanu. Koma musayambe kukongola kwanu zonse zomwe mukuyembekeza ndi zikhumbo zanu. Anyamata samatikonda kokha maonekedwe. Kuchita ntchito, maso ena okongola sali okwanira, ndipo chikondi cha ena chikhoza kupindula mwachisomo, chisomo ndi kuwona mtima.
Chifukwa chiyani kukongola?
Chifukwa atsikana ena ali otsimikiza kuti, popanda izo, sipadzakhalanso ubwino. Koma popanda kukhulupirira nokha, simukuyenera kuwerengera kunja: zofuna zanu zonse zimapotozedwa ndi maofesi komanso makhalidwe osayenera.
Mukuganiza
Ulemerero udzakonza zonse zomwe zili panthawiyi sizikugwirizana ndi moyo wanu. Zikuwoneka kuti ngati mutatsegula kambiri pazenera, chikondi ndi chiyamiko chidzakugwerani. Komabe inu mumatsimikiziridwa, kuti nyenyezi sizimapezeka mosavuta, zomwe moyo wawo wonse umadutsa mu maphwando opitirira, osambira ndi mkaka.
Ndipotu
Ulemerero kwa ulemerero wa kusagwirizana. Anthu omwe adalandira zofunikira (talente, zochitika zokhudzana ndi chikhalidwe, zopereka zojambula ndi chikhalidwe), amasangalala kwambiri ndi "mbali yotsatira" ya chiyamiko ndi kulambira. Koma apa pali chododometsa: iwo sagwirizana kwambiri ndi izi, akupitiriza kusewera masewerawo. Koma ambiri omwe ali ndi njala yolemekezeka amatsatira mwankhanza chifukwa chosapereka ndalama. Bwerani kumalo alionse kumene nyenyezi za pa siteji ndi siteji zikufotokozedwa. Ndikumverera kuti amakambirana osati mafano a anthu, koma onyenga.
Nchifukwa chiyani Asilavo?
Chifukwa chakuti mukufunadi kutanthauza chinthu china pamaso pa ena. Ngati mumadalira maganizo a wina, musamvere ulemu, ndiye muyambe kulota za njira yosavuta, monga ikuwonetserani inu, za cinema ndi televizioni. Koma njirayi nthawi zambiri imafuna kugwira ntchito mpaka thukuta lachisanu ndi chiwiri, kudzidalira komanso kudziletsa. Ndipo maofesiwa amamera pazinthu zamakono.
Wannabe Wokongola
Inu mumadziwa bwino kuti mu nkhani iliyonse, kuchokera ku luso kupita ku karoti, muyenera kukhala mu chizoloŵezi. Munayamba kukhala wothirira zamasamba, ngakhale kuti mutu ukutha kuchokera ku kusowa kwa mapuloteni, unachotsedwa ndi ndale (Ksyusha Sobchak nthawi zonse) ndipo mukuika mu sitolo ndalama zenizeni kuti mugwiritse ntchito thumba labwino, podziwa kuti nyengo yotsatira idzakhala yosasintha. Ndipo nthawi iliyonse, kutsegula maso, kumatsutsa mafashoni-okonza za kuseri.
Fashoni yomweyo imakupangira chisankho, ndipo mumatha kukhala mwamtendere. Magazini, mapulogalamu a pa TV, akatswiri a mafashoni atsimikizirani kale zoti muvale ndi momwe mungawonekere. Mukuganiziranso kuti sizingatheke kukhala ndi manyazi chifukwa chakuti chinthu chenicheni chimene mwavalacho chimadalira chimwemwe chanu - anyamata amasankha ndikukumana ndi zovala.
Ndipotu
Mafilimu ndi mtundu wapadera wa zojambulajambula zomwe zimasonyeza mbiri yathu, nkhondo yoyamba yapadziko lonse itatha, zipewa zomwe zinkawoneka ngati ziboti zankhondo zinkawoneka mwa mafashoni, koma atangotha nkhondo yachiwiri yapadziko lonse, akazi anayamba kuyang'ana mochuluka ngati kuti akuyesera kuiwala za tsoka lomwe lapita. Aliyense wa ife amapanga mafashoni ake mofanana. Mukhoza kukhala ndi chizoloŵezi, mungathe kuchita nokha, koma chinachake chanu, chosiyana ndi chithunzi chomwe mudzatsimikiza.
Mukulakalaka kuyendetsa bizinesi yanu kapena ngakhale dipatimenti yolonjeza. Ndipo kuti "maserati" iwonetsere pa malo oyimika, ndipo iwe ukanalamula foie gras ndi malo odyera, popanda kuyang'ana pa mtengo. Chifukwa cha ichi simungolota, koma mumagwira ntchito maola makumi asanu ndi atatu mphambu asanu ndi atatu kuntchito, mofanana mukuphunzira pa chuma chosasangalatsa, mukuthawa kutopa, koma mumalonjeza kuti zaka makumi anayi izi zidzatengapo gawo.
Ndipotu
Kupambana ndi kudzizindikira ndizo malingaliro awiri osiyana. Mukhoza kukhala bwana wamkulu wa zachuma, ndipo mumalota mobisa za ntchito ya wolima. Palinso ngozi ina pakutsata zolinga zomwe zimapangitsa kuti asaphonye moyo wawo. Nkhondo yosayembekezereka yopambana ndiyo kubwezeretsa moyo kwa mawa. Chinthu china, ngati inu nokha mumakondwera nacho, ndipo musapite pamitu yanu, kuyesera kupanga ntchito.
Nchifukwa chiyani kupambana?
Mu sukulu ya pulayimale, munkawombera ndi chikwangwani, pamtunda wapamwamba chiwonetsero chinalengezedwa. Chotsatira chake, lingaliro lomveka linadzuka: "Ndidzakulira, ndikuphunzira, ndidzakhala dona wamalonda, ndikubwera ku msonkhano wa omaliza maphunziro, pano nonse mukupita." Vuto linanso limabwera: anthu, kukonzekera mphamvu, kukula ndi ndalama, akuopa kwambiri kubwerera ku ubwana komanso kuchitidwa nkhanza. Mutu wa gululo sudzagwedezeka ndi mbiri, bwana akuganiza kuti zonse ndizosavuta kumva. Musaiwale kuti kupambana kumayenera kukhala kokwanira, ndipo chofunikira kwambiri, chisankheni nkhaniyi.
Wannabe sexy
Dziko likulamulidwa ndi anthu osirira, ndipo inu mwazindikira kale izo. Kugonana si njira yowonjezera yowonjezera kudzidalira, komabe komanso kuthekera koyesa anthu ozungulira. Anyamata amapita kunkhanza, atsikana amakwiya ndi nsanje, ndipo aphunzitsi amapereka anayi m'malo mofutukuka katatu, malingana ndi kukula kwake, kutalika kwa skirt yanu.
Mukuganiza
Kugonana ndi mphamvu zimenezo zimayendera limodzi. Amayi achichepere amasokoneza anyamata onse osasamala, iwo ndi okondedwa. Inde, kugonana ndikofunikira, ndithudi. Koma palibe aliyense pazogonana. Winawake monga atsikana a chitsanzo, wina ndi wopenga ndi zokongola monga Monica Bellucci, ena amagwera pa atsikana okha ndi tsitsi lalifupi - zosankha zambiri. Ndipo komabe, chilakolako chokondweretsa ndi chilakolako chachibadwidwe, koma nchifukwa ninji mukufuna kukonda chilichonse? N'chifukwa chiyani mukusowa mafani ambiri? Vutoli limasonyeza kuti mumamva ngati simukukondedwa ndipo nokha ndiye nambalavishysya.
Chifukwa chiwerewere?
Chifukwa cha zinyama, kugonana kumakhudza momwe zilili phukusi. Sitili kutali ndi zinyama. Ndipo misila iwonongeke mwachindunji, koma uthenga "wokongola, umasintha bwino, udzapatsa ana ozindikira" adatsalira. Choncho kugonana kumakupatsani mphoto ndikugonjetsa.
Koma, kwabwino kwa mtima wanga, kodi ndikofunikira kwambiri kwa inu? Kwa akuluakulu, ufulu wonse ndi ufulu. Palibe yemwe amafunira lipoti la khalidwe loipa ndi khalidwe labwino, palibe amene amalowa m'chipindamo popanda kuitana, amorozhenoe akhoza kudyedwa kuyambira m'mawa mpaka usiku ndipo palibe amene anganene kuti khosi limapweteka. Kawirikawiri, palibe amene amaphunzitsa moyo.
Mukuganiza
Akuluwo amatha kuchita zonse: amakhala momasuka ndi kupanga zosankha zawo.
Ndipotu
Ukalamba umayesedwa ndi zochitika pamoyo, osati mwa kukhala mosiyana ndi makolo. Ndipo musaiwale kuti pakati pa akuluakulu alipo ambiri omwe sakhala osinthidwa kukhala moyo, monga mwana. Ndipo munthu wamkulu sizimatanthauza mkwiyo.