Si chinsinsi chomwe chimawala, chikondi chokhudzika sichitha nthawi zonse, koma zaka 2-3 zokha, ndiye nthawi yamtendere imayambira kugwirizana. Chilichonse chimatsitsa pansi, chimasiya, chimasintha kukhala mawonekedwe osiyana, mwinamwake moona mtima komanso mwachifundo. Komabe, si aliyense amene amakonda. Amuna ena akufunabe chinthu chatsopano, chosangalatsa, iwo ali ndi chikhumbo chosintha chinachake m'moyo. Ndiye nthawi zambiri pali ambuye, watsopano komanso wodabwitsa. Kapena chitsanzo china. Pambuyo pa zaka 15-17 zaukwati, pamene ana akula kale ndipo akufuna kuchita zochepa okha, mwamunayo amadziŵa kuti kale sali wofanana. Amayamba kuda nkhawa chifukwa cha mimba kapena tsitsi lomwe likugwa, akufuna kudziwonetsera yekha kuti adakalibe kanthu, kuti zonse ziri patsogolo pake. Palibe chosiyana apa pali mkazi.
Kawirikawiri, chifukwa cha izi, okwatirana amakhala osadziwika, ngakhale amakhala m'nyumba imodzi. Kuwonjezera pa zifukwa m'banja, pali zifukwa ndi umunthu. Mwachitsanzo, kudzikayikira. Mwamuna yemwe ali ndi zibwenzi zambiri zogonana amayesetsa kuti azidzilemekeza. Kawirikawiri, zonsezi ndi zotsutsana. Ambiri amakhulupirira kuti mwamuna weniweni sayenera kukhala ndi mkazi, komanso ambuye.
Kodi mungapulumutse bwanji? Choyamba, muyenera kutontholetsa. Pokhala mu chikhalidwe chokhudzidwa, mukhoza kuthyola nkhuni, kutsutsa mwamuna wanu za machimo onse ochimwa. Ndiye, pamene chipongwe chidzatha, zidzakhala zovuta kuyanjanitsa. Chachiwiri, ndibwino kuti musamuike munthu asanasankhe, chifukwa iye, pokhala pachilakolako cha chilakolako, akhoza kutenga ndikuchoka. Okondana wina ndi modzidzimutsa, posachedwa amvetsetsa zomwe mumatanthauza, adzafuna kubwerera, koma, tsoka, zonse zidzatayika. Ndipo, potsirizira pake, musapange chisankho chokhudza kusakhulupirika. Ambiri mwa amunawa sali othandiza kwambiri ngati akazi. Sintha mwamuna wako sangakukhululukire.
Monga momwe nthawi zambiri amachitira, chiwembu chingapulumutse banja. Kodi mungatani ngati munthu sangapeze njira ina, kuti adzinenere yekha. Ndibwino kuti, ngati mmalo mwa zamatsenga ndi zonyansa, mukuganiza, simuli ndi mlandu? Pambuyo pake, nthawi zina mumasewerawa, amai amaima akuyang'ana okha, amasiya kumvetsera amuna awo, ndipo ngakhale mawu achikondi sakhala osowa. Koma mwamuna wake amafunikira zonsezi! Kusintha, nthawi zambiri samayesetsa kuti azisangalala, koma kuti azimvetsetsa komanso kusangalatsa. Nkhanza zimapangitsa mkazi wanzeru kuyang'ana yekha, ndi bwino kumuwonetsa kuti ali pakhomo bwino kuposa kumbali.
Kumbukirani: mwamuna amafunikira mpweya ngati mpweya! Nthawi zambiri amasintha chithunzicho, mkati mwa nyumbayo. Ulendo, pitani kukacheza, kupita ku maphwando. Mulimonsemo, musanayambe kusankha, ndibwino kukumbukira kuti kupandukira ndi chizindikiro chabe kuti pali chinachake cholakwika m'banja mwanu, ndipo ngati mumatanthauzira molondola chizindikirochi, simungathe kukhalabe, komabe ndikuthandizani kuti mukhale bwino . Chiwonongeko chingakhale mapeto ndi kuyamba kwa moyo watsopano, ndipo ndi kwa inu kusankha ngati mukufuna kupulumutsa banja.