Pa kupandukira kwa mwamuna - izi ndizochitika zachizoloŵezi. Chifukwa cha kufufuza za anthu, zinawonekeratu kuti amuna ambiri amadzilolera kwambiri kwa amayi, pambali, amuna amakhulupirira kuti onse akutsatira khalidwe lovomerezeka kwa amuna ndi kuletsa akazi. Mwamuna yemwe anasintha zomwe amamukonda n'zosavuta kuziwerengera. Kutalikirana kumene kumakhala kumbali, ndikosavuta kuti ndiwonetsetse. Taganizirani kachitidwe kambiri kachitidwe ka amuna pambuyo pa chiwembu. Choyamba, ayamba kukhala ndi nthawi yocheperapo ndi inu kuposa nthawi zonse. Kaŵirikaŵiri amachedwa kuntchito, pali misonkhano yambiri komanso mwadzidzidzi, kubwerera kunyumba kumachotsa foni yam'manja. Kusintha maonekedwe a cardinal, kusintha tsitsi, zovala, mwinamwake kutuluka kwa lingaliro la "kalembedwe", ngati asanamvepo za izo.
Makhalidwe a munthu pambuyo pa kusakhulupirika Pali chidwi pa masewera, nthawi zambiri sapita ku masewera olimbitsa thupi. Mpando wa galimoto ungasinthidwe m'malo osasangalatsa kwa iwe. Udindo wa kumbuyo kumakhala ngati wabwino kwa mnzanu watsopano wa wokondedwa wanu. M'mabanja omwe ali ndi ndalama zochepa, nthawi zambiri zimakhala zovuta pamene mwamuna ayamba kugwiritsa ntchito ndalama zochepa pakhomo kusiyana ndi momwe amachitira. N'zachidziwikire kuti chifukwa chake sichiri mu chuma chomwe chinkaoneka, koma ndalama ndi zokhumba zatsopano zitha kukhala zosadziwika. Moyo wapamtima ukhoza kukhala wochuluka. Kuperewera ndi khalidwe lachikondi, chilakolako ndi chimodzi mwa zifukwa zazikulu. Kuwoneka kolemetsa mu moyo wapamtima wa banja, ngati chodabwitsa mu khalidwe la munthu pambuyo pa kusakhulupirika. Lingaliro lachidziwitso limadzipangitsa palokha - mu chisokonezo ndi kusanthana. Makhalidwe ali ngati munthu woteteza. Umboni umodzi ndi foni yam'manja. Ngati musanatenge foni yam'manja pena paliponse, tsopano akuiiwala kapena amaika nayo nthawi zonse. Ma passwords a makalata a makalata ndi mapulogalamu ena amasintha. Chilengedwe palokha chimayika kusiyana pakati pa chiwerewere pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi. Amuna omwe alibe vuto ndikumva chisoni angagwirizane ndi buku pambali, ndipo mwina palibe ngakhale mmodzi. Kuchitira nkhanza mwamuna kumakhala njira yongoganizira, yosasamala. Kwa amuna okwatirana, kugonana ndi chikondi nthawi zonse zimakhala zosiyana. Mkaziyo, mbali inayo, apite ku kuperekedwa kwa chikondi. Mayiyo, pokhala ataganizira, mwinamwake atatha kukambirana ndi bwenzi lake, amayamba kumbali.
Kotero, zitsanzo za khalidwe la amuna pambuyo pochita zionetsero zikhoza kuikidwa muzinthu zotsatirazi: - Atatha kusakhulupirika, amuna ena amabwerera, kulikonse komwe amapita, amuna oterewa. Pachifukwa ichi, malamulo onse, pa kubwerera kwa amuna olalata, ayenera kulembedwa mwachindunji ndi mkazi. - Ena amapeza mwatsatanetsatane, tsiku lomwelo - okonzeka kukondwerera chigonjetso chatsopano. Zikatero, musathamangire kukayika chizindikiro payekha "Ndine woipa kuposa mbuye" ndipo ndikuvutika maganizo. - Mtundu wina, ndi amuna, akupanga mphekesera. Ndikofunikira pakapita nthawi yopuma kudzisintha nokha ndi chifukwa chake miseche yosiyana siyana ikupita. Mukhoza kungotsimikizira kuti mukhale pansi ndikuyamba kukhala ndi moyo. - imodzi mwa mitundu yabwino kwambiri ya amuna, imadziwika ndi khalidwe lokhazikika mutatha kusiyana - Anzanu ocheza nawo mokwanira mawu. Iwe sunakhale munthu wako, koma panali bwenzi lenileni lomwe lingathe kuthandizira ndi kuthandizira nthawi iliyonse - anthu osazolowereka - izi ndizochitika, mutatha kugawanitsa, mumamvetsa kuti mulibe chochita ndi munthu uyu, kuchepetsa kulankhulana ndipo amachita ngati kuti sakukudziwani bwino ndipo mulibe chochita ndi inu. Izi ndizo zophiphiritsira ndi makhalidwe, koma mchitidwe uliwonse uli wapadera mwa njira yake ndipo tikukhumba kuti mukhalebe munthu wokhala ndi chilembo chachikulu ndikuphunzira momwe mungakhululukire zooneka ngati zosatheka.
