Ndipo nkotheka kuti pamsewu uwu mudzakumana ndi munthu yemwe angakupatseni zomwe zikusoweka mu ubale wanu ndi mwamuna wanu, ndipo ziribe kanthu kaya ndizogonana, chikondi, zatsopano kapena, mwachitsanzo, malaya a ubweya wa banal. Chowonadi cha chigololo ndi chofunika, ndipo ngati mwasankha pazitsutso, ndiye kuti muyenera kuonetsetsa kuti simunagwidwe, ndipo ngati ndi choncho, ndiye funso liyenera kuchitika, momwe mungasinthire mwamuna wake? Tiyeni tiyesere kumvetsa nkhaniyi pansipa
Koma musanapitirizebe kuganizira zosiyana siyana za "kudzibisa," tiyenera kukambirana kuti chikondi sichikuphatikizidwa mu chiwonongeko, mwinamwake simukuyenera kuganizira za "kusokoneza" kwawo, koma za zomwe mukuchita ndi banja lanu. Ndipo funso ili, monga mukudziwira, nkhaniyi siliyankha.
Chabwino, tsopano tiyeni tiyambe kulingalira nsonga, choti tichite, kotero kuti chiwembu chanu sichipezeka. Choyamba, ndikufotokozera kuti tidzakambirana mosiyana ndi mfundo zokhudzana ndi kugulitsidwa nthawi ndi nthawi, chifukwa izi zimafuna njira zosiyana siyana kuti "zidziwike."
Kusakhulupilira nthawi imodzi.
Mu moyo, zonse zimachitika - maphwando, maphwando, makampani, ambiri, zosangalatsa zamitundu yonse! Ndipo tsopano, pamene mukusangalala, ndi kosavuta kulakwitsa ndi kugona ndi mnzanu wapamtima kuntchito kapena mnzanu wakale wa kusukulu, koma pano chinthu chachikulu sikuti mutaya mutu wanu wonse, muyenera kukhala ndi yankho lovomerezeka chifukwa chake mumatha. Ngakhale zilibe kanthu kuti sangathe kutha nthawi yaitali, foni sayenera kukhala yotalika kwambiri, ngati mutakhala usiku, muyenera kukhala ndi chifukwa chodziwiratu ndikuuza mwamuna wake kale, osati usiku. Komanso, mutabwerera kunyumba kwa mwamuna wake, muyenera kudzipangira nokha, osadandaula. Monga lamulo, ndikumverera kwakukulu komwe kumayambitsa kukayikira. Musanabwere, dzibweretseni mumasomphenya anu a tsiku ndi tsiku, mwamuna sayenera kuzindikira kuti muli ndi chinachake. Ndipo, ndithudi, amawononga umboni wonse wazinthu, kuyika kuchokera ku kondomu, kuyang'ana ku malo odyera ndi zina zotero. Ndipo potsirizira pake, muyenera kumachita mwachibadwa, ngati kuti palibe chomwe chinachitika, ndiyeno mwamunayo sangaganize kalikonse.
Kugwirizana nthawi ndi nthawi.
Ngati muli ndi wokondedwa wokhazikika pambali, ndiye kuti zonse ziyenera kuganiziridwa bwino, zokhazokha pazochitika zoterezi sizingalandire, ndi iye amene amatsogolera kulephera. Zoonadi, zidzakondweretsedwa ndi chilakolako, koma zidzakhala zovuta kufotokozera komwe iwe sunayambe pakati pa tsiku pamene mwamuna wako akukufunani. Choncho, choyamba, yang'anani, palibe kayendedwe kosafunikira.
Chinthu china chofunika ndicho kugwirizana ndi wokonda. Choyamba, palibe ma telefoni ochokera kunyumba, ngakhale mwamuna sali pafupi. Itanani okha kuntchito, kapena kuchokera ku makina. Ngati munalandira foni pa foni yanu, mutatha kufotokozera zambiri zokhudza izo, sungani nambalayi monga chiwerengero cha mnzanu. Ponena za chitukuko cha chitukuko, zidzakhala zoyenera kunena za ISQ ndi e-mail, ngati kugwirizana kudzakhala mwa iwo, ndiye ndi bwino kuchitira nsanje chiwerengero china cha ICQ kapena bokosi lachiwiri la makalata.
Komanso, ndandanda ya misonkhano imathandiza kwambiri. Izi ziyenera kukhala choncho kuti ndondomeko yanu ya tsiku ndi tsiku isasinthe kwambiri, kapena kubwera ndi chifukwa chomveka chomwe mumayenera kupita kamodzi pa sabata kwa maola angapo
Ndipo ndithudi, kulingalira ndi kudzidalira, poyankhula ndi mwamuna wanu, muyenera kukhala mofanana ndi kale.
Ngati mutagwiritsa ntchito malangizidwewa pamwambapa, ndiye kuti chiopsezo cha kugonana kwa mwamuna wanu, chidzakhala chochepa kwambiri.