Mavuto: kutsutsa m'banja

Mukadakondana. Zinkawoneka kuti panalibe wina pafupi ndi pafupi. Chikhumbo chokhala ndi moyo nthawi zonse chimakakamizidwa pamodzi ndikuchita zinthu zopusa. Kuvomereza, mungathe kukhala maola ambiri, kuyang'ana nyenyezi, ndipo nthawizonse mumakhalapo chinachake chokamba, kapena kungotseka. Zomwe munthu wachibadwidwe ndi munthu wodalirika ali pafupi, amaloledwa kuti ayimilire mapazi anga m'moyo uno. Ndipo mavuto onse amathetsedwa mosavuta mukakhala pamodzi.

Koma mwadzidzidzi nthaka inachoka pansi pa mapazi. Dziko lapansi likugwa. Munthu wokondedwa wanu wasintha. Zingatheke bwanji izi kwa inu. Ndipotu, chidaliro mu theka lake lachiwiri chinali chosasunthika. Kodi munthu amene waperekedwa amamva bwanji? Apo ayi, simungathe kutchula izi. Ululu, ululu wosatsutsika, womwe umayaka kuchokera ku nutria. Mkwiyo, womwe uli ngati chibisika umaphimba maso. Chikhumbo chokwera pa ngodya, ndi kuti asawone kapena kumva wina. Khalani nokha ndi chisoni chanu, ndipo khalani misozi mpaka chirichonse chitakhala chete. Malingaliro omwe sapereka mpumulo ndi buzz pamutu. Kwa chiyani? Nchifukwa chiani izi zandichitikira ine. Kodi ndinachita chiyani? Koma khulupirirani ine, pa mafunso ooneka ngati osavuta, simudzapeza mayankho. Chifukwa sichoncho cholakwika chanu, koma mwina ndizo zomwe zinayambitsa zotsatirapo zoipa.

Mkhalidwe wa maganizo momwe munthu aliri muzochitika zotere ndi wosasimbika. Kuzindikira kusungulumwa kwathunthu ndi kusadulidwa kungayambitse kudzipha. Anthu amphamvu okha ndi omwe amatha kupwetekedwa mtima. Panthawi imeneyi, munthu wapamtima ayenera kukhalapo, kuti athetsere kusungulumwa ndikuwonetsetsa kuti simuli nokha ndi mavuto anu.

Akazi ayamba chirichonse kuyambira pachiyambi. Pakutha nthawi, malingaliro amalingaliro amayamba patsogolo, zonsezi zimayamba kutsegula kuchokera kumbali ina. Ndipo ngakhale zilizonse zopweteka, pali chikhululukiro chokhululukira. Koma umu ndi momwe munthu amagwirira ntchito, mungathe kumukhululukira, koma simudzaiwala. Musanayambe kukonzekera, muziganizira zonse bwino. Muli okonzeka kukhala ndi moyo ndipo simukuwopa kuti zikhoza kuchitika kachiwiri, kuti nthawi zonse pamene mwamuna kapena mkazi atachedwa kuchoka kuntchito, panthawi imeneyo mudzakumbukira mantha omwe akhalapo. Ndipo tsopano simudzakhala ndi ufulu wodzudzula, chifukwa, mutabwerera kubanja, mumavomereza chinsinsi chomwecho mwachinsinsi. Ngati mwasankha kubwerera, ndipo tidzakambirana, chikhumbo chopulumutsa banja chidzapambana zifukwa zonse zolakwika ndi zokayikitsa. Ngati kudalira kwanu mwa munthu sikutha, yesani. Ndipo Mulungu asalole kuti izi zisadzachitikenso.

Choyamba, ganizirani za ana. Momwe zidzakhalira kwa iwo, koma musasokoneze zofuna zanu. Ngati mukupanga chisankho, khululukirani, mumatsogoleredwa ndi chidwi cha ana, ndiye chidzakhala nsembe. Mudzavomerezana ndi nsembeyi, koma zaka khumi simudzathokozedwa. Sipadzakhala banja limenelo, lidzatonthoza. Ana adzawona chilichonse. Ndipo iwo adzavutika. Ndipo pamene akukula, sangakukumbukire.

Amuna ndi ovuta m'mikhalidwe yotereyi, ndithudi osati mu kayendetsedwe ka khalidwe, koma m'nkhaniyi. Iwo safunikira kukhala ndi ana, ndikuganiza momwe angagwiritsire ntchito bajeti kuti zitheke pa chirichonse. Kumene angayambe ana panthawi ya ntchito? Pambuyo pa chisudzulo, amuna ambiri, pazifukwa zina amakhulupirira kuti kulipira kwa nthawi yowonongeka, ndiwothandiza kwambiri kulera ana. Kwenikweni, apapa amaiwala kukhala ndi chidwi pa moyo ndi zosowa za ana awo.

Mulimonse momwe mungatengere, zonse zimadalira inu, chifukwa chilichonse chiri chokha, motsogoleredwa ndi chidwi chanu, chilakolako chanu, ndipo ngati n'kotheka, phunzirani kukhululuka. Ngakhale simunali pamodzi, ana wamba nthawizonse amakufikirani, choncho kulankhulana kwanu sikungapeweke. Pambuyo pake, kamodzi, inu mumakondana wina ndi mnzache, choncho ndithudi simungapeze chinenero chofala.