Dzulo mudali ndi madzulo abwino, mumakambirana za zochitika za tsiku lapitalo, munali ndi ndondomeko ya mapeto a sabata, ndipo lero misonzi ikuyenda mumtsinje, mdima wododometsa, wotsatiridwa ndi nkhanza, zachiwawa. Mafunso ofunsira "chifukwa chiyani?", "Momwemo?". Podziwa za kusakhulupirika kwa mwamuna wake, pafupifupi mkazi aliyense sangathe kuzindikira bwinobwino vutoli, ndipo mochulukirapo, athandizidwe.
Kudzera mu mkwiyo, kupweteka, kukhumudwa, kodi mumamvetsetsa kuti mumakonda mwamuna wanu ndipo simunakonzekere kumwalira, ngakhale kuti mukuchita zinthu zoipa? Ndiye mungathe kuchita monga momwe zilili m'magazini omveka bwino: kugula zovala zamkati, kudziyang'anira nokha, ndikhale wokongola kwambiri, ndipo mumulole kuti amvetse zomwe chuma chimakhala naye.
Ambiri mwa amayiwa, ataphunzira za kugulitsidwa kwa mwamuna wake, amayamba kumupusitsa, amamuuza kuti asiye chiyanjano, awerenge foni yake, makalata, amayesa zovala kuti zikhale chizindikiro chokwera pamoto, akukonzekera kufufuza usiku "Kodi mwakhala kuti?" Ndi zina zotero. Zosayenera kusunga ndi kubwezeretsa mwamuna wake zikhoza kumukhumudwitsa ndi kunyansidwa. Ndipo iwe udzatembenuka kukhala mkazi wonyansa yemwe ali ndi maso ofiira konse ndi milomo yojenjemera.
Chinthu chovuta kwambiri ndi kukhala ndi khalidwe lolondola pambuyo pozindikira kuti pali chiwembu. Inde, sizidzakhala zophweka ngati mwamuna wanu sakusankha yemwe akufuna kukhala naye. Komabe, mutatsutsa mayesero awa, mukhoza kubwezeretsa mwamuna ku banja. Kotero, ife timadutsa ku malamulo oyambirira.
Sindine wozunzidwa!
Nthaŵi zambiri timakonda kugwira ntchito yozunzidwa. Timagwedeza manja athu, tang'anani, tidye milomo yathu ndikudandaula mwakachetechete, titakhala pa ngodya. Komanso, tsopano pali chifukwa chachikulu chodzimvera chisoni nokha - kupandukira mwamuna! Tangoganizani, mwamuna wanu akuzunzidwa kale ndikukayikira ngati akufuna mbuye uyu komanso ngati akulakwitsa kwambiri pamoyo wake. Kubwerera kunyumba, ndipo komweko, ndi khalidwe lanu lonse ndi kukoma mtima, mudziwitse kuti ndinu wogwidwa, ndipo iye ndi wodwalayo. Kupirira kwa nthawi yaitali munthuyo sangathe, ndipo nthawi zambiri adzapita kumene kulibe mlandu, misonzi ndi amatsenga.
Kumbukirani, siwe wogwidwa!
Ndipo kodi ndiwerenge makalata ake?
Chikhumbochi ndi choopsa kwambiri, poonekera kamodzi, chidzawuka mobwerezabwereza. Musayang'ane mfundo zatsopano zomwe zimatsimikizira kupandukira. Sikofunikira kuwerenga sms-ki, e-mail, tsamba mu LJ kapena VKontakte. Kuti mudziunjikire nokha mwatsatanetsatane kuchokera kuzinthu zakuyanjana za kuperekedwa kwa mwamuna wanu, ndiye kuti muthe kutsanulira pa izi zonse? Inu nokha mudzakhala wosasangalatsa ndi wonyansa chifukwa chakuti mwatsikira ku khalidwe lotere. Lingaliro la kulakwa mwa munthu wanu lidzakula pang'onopang'ono kukhala chiwawa.
Musayang'ane umboni watsopano wosakhulupirika wamwamuna!
Ine povidiruyu inu kosmy!
Palibe vuto sayenera kuyang'ana msonkhano ndi mbuye wake. Iye ndi mkazi wotero, monga inu, yemwe amamenyera mwamuna. Chikhumbo chokondedwa, kukhala ndi banja, ndi champhamvu kwambiri ngati yanu. Musaganize kuti chifukwa cha kukambirana kwa telefoni, adzalapa ndikukana "Vasya" wanu monga choncho. Mukulimbana ndi mphoto yamtengo wapatali - mwamuna wanu. Kuonjezerapo, iye adzakuuzani za ntchito yanu kwa mwamuna wake, yemwe nthawi yomweyo adzaima pambali pake ndi kuyamba kumutonthoza. Ndibwino kuti mufunse za amayi anu, musonkhanitse zambiri ndikudziwiratu.
Musagwirizane ndi ubale wa mwamuna wanu ndi mbuye wanu!
Kapena ine, kapena iye!
Inde, posapita nthawi, muyenera kufunsa funso la mwamuna wanu mwamuna wanu amasankha. Koma musamangokhalira kunena kuti "kapena ineyo". Pamene malingaliro ake kwa mbuye wake akadali "atsopano", chisankhocho sichikukondweretsani. Ngati mukutsimikiza kuti ana anu ndi amtengo wapatali komanso ofunika kwambiri padziko lapansi, oposa mbuye wawo, ndiye kuti mukhoza kuyesa katatu iyi pakalipano. Mukhoza kuika chiwonetsero pamtundu umene mumatsimikiza kuti ndinu wokonzeka kumusiya.
Uchi, ndikuchedwa lero kuntchito.
Ambiri amakhulupirira kuti mwa kuchitira nsanje mwamuna wake, amatha kubwezeretsa. Izi siziri zoona. Ngati mwamunayo amagwirizana kwambiri ndi mbuye, ndiye kuti mumakonda kugonana ndi mnzako, mnzako kapena wokhala ndi mlendo, amatha kuzindikira ngati kugwirizana ndi ubale wotere. Momwemo, mumudziwitsa kuti simusamala za anthu ake osayeruzika, inu nokha musakonde "kusangalala kumbali". Kumbukirani kuti kwa amuna ambiri, abodza amasiyana ndi akazi. Ndipo zomwe zimachitika zingakhale zosayembekezereka komanso zachiwawa. Sikoyenera kuopsa.
Musasinthe mwamuna wanu pobwezera!
Kapena mwinamwake ndilakwitsa kwanga?
Dzivomerezeni nokha kuti mwamuuza mobwerezabwereza mnzanu yemwe amanyengerera mwamuna wake, analemba pamsonkhano wokhudza kusintha kwa amuna, kuti ngati izi zichitika, ndiye kuti munthuyo akusowa chinachake m'banja, kotero ayamba kuyang'ana "kumbali". Ganizilani mosamala, kodi simunatembenuzire zaka za moyo wanu wa banja kukhala chovala chodziikiritsa chovala chovala chovala chosasunthika kapena munthu wonyansa amene amanyengerera mwamuna wake kwathunthu? Ndi liti pamene nthawi yomaliza munakondweretsa mwamuna wanu pogonana? Sizinangokwaniritsa ntchito yawo yaukwati, koma, mwachitsanzo, anakonza phwando kapena kukvina kuvina? Ndi nthawi yoti mupeze nthawi yomwe mwalakwa ndikuzikonza mwamsanga.
Sichichedwa kuchepetsa!
Ziribe kanthu momwe zinalili zopweteka chifukwa cha kusakhulupirika kwa amuna, muyenera kukhala mkazi wamphamvu ndi wanzeru. Komanso, ngati mukufuna kupulumutsa banja lanu komanso musamapatse munthu wokondedwa wanu!