Pulumutsani palimodzi kwa nthawi yaitali ndikukhulupilira mnzanu monga momwe mumadzikondera nokha. Koma mwadzidzidzi mumangoona kusintha kwake mwadzidzidzi ndipo mwamsanga ndikuwopsya: "Amandinyenga!" Nthawi zina zimakhala zowona, koma osati nthawi zonse. Kulingalira, ndithudi, ndi chinthu cholimba, ndipo chiyenera kukhalanso chodalirika. Koma palinso thandizo limodzi - zizindikiro zodalirika za kusakhulupirika kwa amuna, ataphunzira, zomwe simungathe kuzilakwitsa.
Zizindikiro zomwe sizingasamalidwe:
1. Iye anayamba kudziyang'anira yekha
Mwamuna wanu sanakhale wosamala kwambiri. Zojambulajambula ndi t-shirt yomwe amaikonda zaka zisanu zapitazo - anzake omwe amakhala nawo pakhomo. Ndiyeno kenako amasintha maganizo ake pa maonekedwe ake. Akufunsa mafunso monga: "Kodi ndimayang'ana bwanji?", "Kodi iyi ndi suti yafashoni?". "Ndiyenera kusankha chiti?" Mwadzidzidzi amatsimikiza kuti ndi nthawi yopanga thupi, kufooka, kubwezeretsanso mawonekedwe akale. Iye aima patali kuposa nthawi zonse pamaso pa galasi, akuganiza za chinachake. Njira ina - mwamuna wanu nthawi zonse amachezera wovala tsitsi, anayamba kuyendayenda m'mawa kapena kupita ku masewera olimbitsa thupi. Ine ndinagula ndekha mtengo wamtengo wapatali, chovala chamkati chatsopano. Ndipo chifukwa cha mawu anu onse ododometsa iye amangokhala mopusa mopanda kunena kapena kunena: "Chabwino, ine ndimayenera kuyamba kuyang'ana ndekha tsiku lina. Zonse ndi zanu. "
Mwa njira, kusintha kwakukulu sikungakhudze kokha maonekedwe ake, komanso thanzi. Mwamunayo amayamba kuyang'anitsitsa kuthamanga kwake kwa magazi, amapereka mayeso a magazi (pokhapokha ngati atakhala), amatenga mavitamini pofuna kupewa kapena kugula zokonzera tsitsi.
2. Iye adali ndi zokambirana zachinsinsi pa foni
Pamene foni yake ikugwedeza, amathamangira ku bafa ndikuyankhula ndi munthu womveka. Ndipo funso lakuti "Ndani adayitana?" Amapanga chinachake chosamvetsetsa ponena za mzanga wakale wa ankhondo kapena wogwira ntchito kuntchito. Kapena amangokwiya ndi kukupemphani kuti musalowe muzochita zake, zomwe simumamvetsa. Inde, kwa amuna ena, chitetezo chabwino ndi kuukira. Angathe kupitilizabe ndi mawu ngati awa: "Sindikukuimba mlandu mukamacheza ndi amayi kapena abwenzi anu maola angapo!" Mulimonsemo, anthu amakambirana nthawi zonse nthawi zina.
3. Mukuziwona mochuluka kuposa nthawi zonse
Madzulo aliwonse pa Lachinayi amasewera ndi anzake ndipo akhala akuchita nthawi yochuluka kwa sabata yachiwiri kale. Mwadzidzidzi anayamba kuyenda paulendo, omwe anali asanayambepo. Akuti kuntchito adangodandaula ndi milandu, ngakhale kuti malipiro ake sanakhudzidwe. M'malo mwake, iye anayamba kukupatsani ndalama zochepa ndipo anasiya kuwasiya iwo palimodzi. Poyamba adayankhula za tchuthi lapadera, kuti akupatseni mwayi wopuma mokwanira. Ndi inuyo, osati iye. Ndidzidzidzi bwanji kusamala kwanu!
4. Amamutumiza mwachinsinsi ma SMS
N'chimodzimodzinso ndi imelo. Nthawi zambiri amayamba kukhala nthawi yayitali madzulo pamakompyuta kapena m'nyumbamo ali ndi m'manja. Musadzitenge nokha ndi chiyembekezo chakuti amasewera masewera a java. Yesetsani kumufikira mwakachetechete, pamene akutanganidwa ndi "masewera" ena. Onani momwe mphepo yake ikuyankhira, kuyang'ana, kuyang'ana kuyang'ana kapena, mosiyana, mwaukali mwadzidzidzi. Mwamuna samakonda kuti agwidwe mosazindikira. Mudzazindikira mwamsanga izi.
5. Iye amangokutsutsani nthawi zonse
Poyamba, adalekereredwa ndi zolephera zanu. Koma posachedwapa kuleza mtima kwake kwatha kwinakwake. Iye anayamba kukupangirani inu pa chirichonse chaching'ono. Ndiye mwakhala mukusamba kwa nthawi yayitali, ndiye kuti mwaposa supu, munaiwala kumukumbutsa kuti apitirize kuyendera ... Kodi mumapeza kuti akungoyang'ana zifukwa zoyambira malowa? Ndipo mwinamwake izi ziri choncho? Chifukwa pambuyo pa mkangano mwamuna safunikanso kukufotokozerani chifukwa chake amachoka panyumba usiku. Kotero izo zikutulukira kuti iwe wabweretsa izo ku izi!
6. Anasamala kwambiri
Izi ndizopambana kwambiri kwa munthu wolakwika. Mwachitsanzo, mwadzidzidzi popanda chifukwa chomveka anayamba kuyamba kugula maluwa, kukonzekera zakudya zomwe mumakonda komanso kubweretsa chakudya cham'mawa. Amamvetsera zopempha zanu, amachenjeza zokhumba zanu zonse, amachita zonse zomwe mumapempha. Ngati mulibe nthawi yachisanu, samalani. Choncho amuna amakhudzidwa ndi zolakwa zawo. Chinthu chimodzi chokha chiyenera kukulimbikitsani - ichi ndikumverera kuti ndi wolakwa. Kotero, ngakhale zilizonse, amakukondani kwambiri. Kotero, osachepera, akatswiri a maganizo amaganiza. Kodi ndi zophweka kwa inu?
7. Adakhala wosiyana pabedi
Anayamba kukhala wokonda kwambiri komanso osaganizira, simungakhulupirire kuti uyu ndi munthu wanu wakale. Iye amangogonana mwamwambo wangwiro! Akukufunani nthawi zambiri kuposa nthawi zonse komanso malo osadziwika. Maso ake akuwalira, iye ali wokondwa kwambiri. Kapena njira ina - iye wasiya kugonana nawe. Likutanthauza kutopa, matenda a galu wanu wokondedwa, kupsinjika kuntchito - chirichonse, musagone ndi inu. Akukhala mochedwa, akudikirira kuti ugone tulo, ndipo kenaka amalowa mu kama. Njira yoyamba, ndithudi, imakhala yosangalatsa kwa inu, koma osati yoopsa. Kusintha kwakukulu kulikonse pa kugonana kukuyenera kukuchenjezani. Iwo sizowonongeka konse!
8. Nthawi zonse amakhala ndi maganizo oipa
Posachedwa akuvutika maganizo, atsekedwa, zikuwoneka kuti sali ndi iwe, ndipo ndiwe wokhumudwitsa. Ngati muyesa kufunsa kuti vutoli ndi liti, iye adzakuyankhani ndi anthu osayamika. Zoonadi, chifukwa cha khalidweli kungakhale mavuto kuntchito, koma nthawi zambiri izi ndi zotsatira za ubwenzi wake wolimba kumbali. Mumangomulepheretsa, ndipo zimamukwiyitsa. Chizindikirochi ndi chovuta kwambiri komanso chovuta kwambiri. Musaganize zogwirizana ndi izi. Koma simukusowa kuphonya nthawi ino.
Zizindikiro zomwe zimachoka mosakayikira:
1. Tiketi ku cinema, mapepala odyera, malo osakongola ... Zonsezi zimapezeka kwa munthu yemwe ali m'thumba mwake chifukwa chake. Ngati inu mupeza chinachake chonga ichi - mwamuna wanu amangogwidwa.
2. Kalata yachikondi. Kuika masangweji mu mbiri yake, iwe mwangozi unapunthwa pamtima wonunkhira. Kodi izi zikutanthauzanji? Kuvomereza kwodziwika, mawu monga "chikondi", "chikhumbo", "wokondedwa". Ndipo ichi sichiri cholembedwa chanu!
3. Njira za caress. Pa khosi la wokondedwa iwe mwadzidzidzi unapeza "kuyamwa." Iye, ndithudi, adzanena kuti iye adalumidwa ndi njuchi yamisala kapena chinachake chonga icho. Inde, njuchi iyi ikhoza kukhala ndi zolinga zazikulu kwa munthu wanu ...
4. Chithunzi china. Iye amanyamula ndi iye kapena amakhala mu tebulo lake la desiki. Amabisala ndikupita kukwiya, ngati mumamufunsa. Chirichonse chikuwonekera.
Kusokonezeka mu mayina. Mwamuna wanu mwadzidzidzi akutcha dzina la mlendo. Ndipo ngati izi zikuchitika mobwerezabwereza - ngakhale palibe mafunso.
6. Kusungulumwa usiku. Amachoka panyumbamo madzulo, ndipo amabweranso m'mawa. Panthawi imodzimodziyo amanyalanyaza mafunso anu ndikuyankha mosangalala. Ichi ndi chodziwika kwambiri pa zizindikiro zonse zodalirika za kusakhulupirika kwa amuna.
Ndiyenera kuchita chiyani ngati chikondi changa
1. Choyamba, musadzitsutse nokha;
2. Perekani maganizo anu: mukhoza kulira, kufuula! Mkwiyo wathanzi ndi wabwino kuposa chisoni ndi chisoni;
3. Kambiranani zomwe mumamva, ndi munthu amene mumamukhulupirira. Ndi kosavuta kusonkhanitsa mphamvu zothetsera mavuto anu pamene simuli nokha;
4. Sintha! Sinthani mtundu wa tsitsi, yambani zovala zatsopano. Mudzadzimva kuti muli amphamvu komanso odziimira - sakuyenera kuwona kuti dziko lanu liri mabwinja.